In the past, divorce used to be a rare occurrence. After getting married, few people will consider divorce, although there will be some minor frictions or quarrels. Nowadays, however, the situation seems to be different, divorce seems to be becoming more and more common, even if there are no major conflicts between the couple, and this path is chosen for the sake of daily chores.
Why is it so easy to get a divorce? The reason for this is that many people are not satisfied with their current married life and believe that divorce will allow them to find their true happiness. They look forward to meeting a man who is excellent in every way, caring, and considerate. However, the reality is often less than ideal. Many divorced women encounter many obstacles on the road to happiness, and marriage is not easy to get back together, they can only be trapped in endless regrets.
After the divorce, women face a series of headaches. The first is the unrealistic expectation of reality. Many divorces are due to dissatisfaction with the original family, especially because of financial problems. Many women feel that their husbands do not earn enough money to allow them to live a prosperous life, so they speak coldly to their husbands in their daily lives. This situation led to a further deterioration in the relationship between the couples, and eventually divorce became the only way to get rid of it.
After a divorce, many women want to find a man who is rich, handsome, and cares about them. However, such men are scarce, and even if they do, they attract the attention of other good women. In addition, these men themselves are also very demanding, and it is difficult to accept divorced women who are far from themselves.
The second is the issue of remarriage. There are women who have children after marriage and then demand more and more from their husbands, wanting him to be both with them and provide for their families. However, this demand is a huge pressure for men. After experiencing a divorce, women face the reality with their children and realize that life for men is not easy. But if they meet the man they like, only to find that the other person can't accept remarriage and have children, it will make them regret their decision after the divorce.
Finally, there is the question of money for remarried families. Affected by the previous failed marriage, women are more cautious when entering the palace of marriage again, and are reluctant to pay too much money for a new family easily. Moreover, men in remarried families share the same view and are reluctant to invest too much money in a new family. This situation has led to a growing distance between the two, a gradual fading of the love relationship, and a remarriage that is not as good as one would expect compared to the first marriage.
Overall, although many people are not very happy with their existing marriage, don't mention divorce lightly unless there are serious problems such as domestic violence or cheating. Remarriage does not necessarily bring the expected happiness, and it can even be worse than the first marriage. We should think carefully so that we don't regret it.