When I mentioned the two elderly sisters who were suffering from illness and the difficult situation they faced, I couldn't help but think of helping them apply for the subsistence allowance. However, since they are not independent hukou, they need to return to the place of hukou for medical examination and review before they can meet the application conditions. Despite the inconveniences, I asked them to return to their hometowns in order to get the subsistence allowance. Soon after, I was told that my eldest sister's accusation that "I told them to go back" was a complete misunderstanding. In addition, since they belong to the same household as their eldest son, and their eldest son owns a property and does not purchase it with a loan or pay in full, it is not possible to apply for the subsistence allowance for them.
After four months of getting along, although I tried my best to take care of my eldest sister, they misunderstood me and even accused me of only cooking pimple soup. Even so, I still respect them and maintain a good relationship. When I learned that they were leaving, I offered to help carry my luggage and respectfully bid them farewell. In the process of getting along, I did not ask their sons to reciprocate the kindness, because we were each other's relatives. Although my eldest sister may have misunderstood me, I firmly believe that my dedication and care are always sincere.
Now that my aunt and brother-in-law have passed away, my husband has suggested that I hire them to come and live there. However, realizing that I had to take on more delivery work and that I was suffering from a lumbar disc disease, I decided not to welcome my eldest sister anymore. Instead, I would take care of this woman who lost her biological parents, even though she has two sons and daughter-in-law who are filial. Respecting personal choices and providing assistance as much as possible is my position and my insistence on good character.