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In terms of feelings, women are different from men, most women are more restrained and reserved, and they often dare not express their love directly to the person they like.
However, when she likes someone, she will not be able to control the feelings in her heart, even if she doesn't say it, but she will quietly send a signal to the other party to express her heart for the other party.
In relationships, most women will use thisTheorem: "When you like me, I'll take the initiative".
Maybe it's because of the fear of rejection, so before the two people are together, women will not directly express their inner love to each other.
Most of them go through a period of "nurturing period" before the relationship begins, and they will slowly take the initiative after they are sure that they have a place in each other's hearts.
A woman is shy about feelings, although she will not confess directly, but she will reveal her heart to the man she likes about the other party, just to let the other party take the initiative.
Therefore, when a woman sends you the following two signals, it means that the woman has feelings for you, she wants to have further development with you, and she wants you to "flirt".
1. Tell you ambiguous words and test your reaction
In a relationship, a woman is more restrained and reserved, when she likes a man, she generally does not express her heart directly to the man, but she will take the initiative to talk to each other, and want to convey her feelings to the other party through chatting.
In the chat, she will joke with the other party and say something more ambiguous. For example, she will joke with the other person and say, "What do you think of me?" People say we're a couple. Am I your favorite type? "Wait.
It's just a joke, but it's her inner voice, and her purpose is to get the attention of the host and let the other party know what she wants.
In her heart, the other party is her intended person, as long as the other party can take the initiative, she can develop further.
Therefore, she hopes that the other party will respond after listening. She hopes that the other party thinks the same as her and can give her a definite answer.
Of course, she will be afraid that the other party will not react, or that the other party will reprimand her for making such a joke. In this way, her temptations will also end and she will not be pestering the other party.
Xiao Zhang, a colleague in the company, likes Mr. Li, the director of the department next door, very much, but she doesn't dare to confess to the other party, so she often finds opportunities to chat with the other party, and wants to reveal her feelings for Mr. Li to the other party through chatting.
During the chat, she joked to Mr. Lee, "You're my type of person, what do you think of me?" Everyone said that we were very compatible, so why don't we be together. ”…"Wait.
At first, Mr. Li thought that Xiao Zhang was joking and ignored it, but slowly, after a long time, Mr. Li understood Xiao Zhang's intentions.
It just so happened that Mr. Li also liked Xiao Zhang, so he confessed to Xiao Zhang. In this way, the two successfully determined their relationship.
In fact, a woman doesn't really like someone, so she won't say these ambiguous words to the other party, let alone test the other party's mind.
Therefore, when a woman says ambiguous things to you, men must know that it is a signal that a woman likes you and wants you to "flirt".
2. Confide in you the secrets of your heart, trust and rely on you
Women in today's society are no longer as fragile as before, and they have to rely on men for everything they encounter or ask for men's comfort.
Most of them are relatively strong now, and most of them will not show their hearts at will, especially if they are bad, they will not want others to know, so as not to be laughed at.
However, if she thinks that the other party is the person she identifies with, she will trust and rely on the other party enough, and she will confide in the other party the secrets in her heart and want to tell the other party what is on her mind.
My friend Xiaohong is such a hard-mouthed and soft-hearted woman, she has liked our colleague Chen Ming for a long time, but she didn't dare to show it, but she always told Chen Ming about something, and even the secret in her heart was only told to Chen Ming alone.
There are always signs showing her intentions, but they just haven't pierced this layer of "paper". It wasn't until Chen Ming confessed to another girl and was rejected, and the two were drunk together before they confided.
In fact, in the details of Xiaohong's treatment of Chen Ming, we can see that she is very different from Chen Ming.
In short, a woman can confide in each other, showing that she trusts and relies on each other, she hopes that the other party can support and encourage her, and she wants to have further development with the other party. If it weren't for her, she wouldn't have opened her heart to the other party and confided her inner secrets to the other party.
When a woman confides her inner secrets to a man, it is her trust and dependence on the other party, she wants to have further development with the other party, and she wants the other party to take the initiative.
Therefore, men should not be stupid and ignore the good fate.
Closing Remarks:
In the relationship between men and women, if a woman is interested in a man, she will say ambiguous things to the other party and confide in the other party her inner secrets, which is most likely her signal to the other party and want the other party to "flirt".
Therefore, when a man meets a woman who sends you such a signal, if you happen to be interested in her, then boldly confess to her, don't let the rare fate miss.
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