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Wen Feiyu. Introduction: At the end of the year, in just four sentences, to my hard work.
1. To stop internal friction is to let yourself go.
The reason why people live so painfully is because they are too prone to internal friction, because they always think too much, they are easy to fall into negative emotions, they are easy to get angry, they are easy to get angry, and they are easy to get annoyed.
If you want to live happily, don't think about it, don't think too much, learn to unload the tiredness in your heart, and be happy every day.
Mo Yan said: "On the road of life, what most often interferes and hurts us is often our own excessive obsession; What can damage us the most is often our own refusal to let go. ”
If there is a lot of internal friction, then the mental state is not good, and only positive and optimistic people can live a bright life.
No matter how stressful life is, we don't want to consume ourselves internally, stop internal friction, and there will be many ways out in life.
You have to think about everything, and when you see it, your heart will not be tired.
2. Learn to let go of past failures.
People live for a lifetime, no one's life will not be unsmooth, life will always encounter ups and downs, but also encounter difficulties, destined to endure some hardships to live clearly.
People must learn to let go of the past, look down on success or failure, failure is the mother of success, as long as you don't give up, as long as you are strong, then you have the ability to let go of failure, so as to make yourself better.
There is no hurdle in life that cannot be passed, no matter what the past is, we are all looking forward, even if the past is very proud, we should not keep holding on to the past, we must learn to clear zero, do not remember the past, live up to the present, do not disturb the past, only laugh for the rest of our lives.
Feng Tang said, "People shouldn't be too sober, let the past pass, and don't have to chew it repeatedly." Life is not long, and there are not so many important things. It dawned, and it was earned again. ”
Let the past be the past, and everything will pass.
3. Untie the knot and let go of regrets.
No matter how you choose in life, don't work hard, there will always be regrets.
Even if we have experienced some things and become the knot of life, we must be brave to untie it, let it go, and look down, and life will be easy.
Life is unsatisfactory things out of ten, we often think about one or two, do not think, always maintain a good attitude, a good attitude, everything will be fine.
In life, bumps and bumps are always unavoidable, calmly accept all storms, but also have the ability to adapt to changes, good luck, setbacks, knots are untied, and people have no worries.
In this life, who doesn't have a little regret? It's right to have regrets.
Fourth, life is your own, just be comfortable.
There is a saying that "proving to others that you are a good person is equivalent to automatically letting go of ** and being slaughtered by others." ”
People live and don't have to prove themselves to others, you are you, you are fireworks of different colors, the sky is wide, and you have to be the strongest foam.
Life is our own, it has nothing to do with others, we don't have to care what others think of us, even if we don't have money and live a very ordinary life, we don't have to feel inferior, we always have to maintain self-confidence, ordinary people also have their own happy life, don't have to live in the eyes of others.
The greatest charm of life is to be brave and be yourself, that is, to learn not to care, to live your own life, and not need others to define your own life, just work your own.
I like a sentence I saw in the circle of friends: "Someone likes you, that's him in you, he sees the traits he likes, belongs to his like, in fact, it has nothing to do with you, face it indifferently, and be yourself; Someone hates you, that's him in you, projecting his rejection of himself, his hate, in fact, it has nothing to do with you, face it calmly, and do your best. ”
We don't eat from other people's homes, so we don't care what other people think.
A mature life does not need to live under the evaluation of others, we don't have to care what others say about themselves, everyone wants their own way of living, as long as you affirm yourself, then your life is bright.
The life you choose, the path you choose, the road you choose is long and difficult, but it is also worth it.
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