In 1970, Dai Jun was born into a poor family of migrant workers and physical education teachers. My father was a foreigner from his hometown who came to Shanghai to work, and after joining his mother's family, he occasionally made a living in a steel factory with a meager income. Due to the difficulties of life, Dai Jun often went hungry when he was a student, but he was still admitted to the university with excellent grades. Mother is a teacher with the ideal of teaching and educating people, she has been working silently all her life, and she is a dedicated, caring and responsible person. She is full of care and patience for every student, often staying up late to correct homework, and even willing to sacrifice her own rest time in order to help students solve difficulties. However, her hard work did not pay off as she should be, and instead she was assigned to the library because she was a woman during a school assignment, and was forced to give up her ideal of teaching and educating people. It was a big blow to her, and she was very disappointed and frustrated. 
This is a family of four living in an old lane in Shanghai, the father and mother are both employed, but their salaries are very meager, and the family's monthly income can barely support the family, so the family's financial situation is very poor. Although they had a hard time living in this crowded room, they were still very strong and full of hope for the future. The children of this family are very sensible, they know that the financial situation of the family is not good, so they do very well in school, and they hope to be able to reduce the burden on the family, their parents also love them very much, although they are living in poverty, but they still do their best to provide the best education and living conditions for their children, everyone in this family is very strong and optimistic, they believe that as long as they work hard, the future will be better. In order to save money, my mother has always been the most thrifty person in our family. Every night, she would knit socks and pants in the dim light. She always said, "Save some money and save up to buy more things." Sometimes, the mother would even disassemble the labor protection gloves issued by her husband's unit, remove the coarse yarn inside, and then re-weave them to make new gloves or scarves. 
Although Dai Jun's mother is still young, she has already taken on the responsibility of the family, not only taking on heavy household chores every day, but also taking care of several young children. Among them, Dai Jun and his elder brother, although they are still young, will also be arranged by their mother to help aside, and often have to be busy until late at night to rest. However, the good times did not last long, when Dai Jun was 8 years old, his father died suddenly of cerebral hemorrhage due to long-term fatigue and illness at the age of 38. Dai Jun was deeply devastated by his father's death, and as a young man, he did not understand what it meant to be separated from life and death, but he could also feel his mother's grief. In order to raise Dai Jun and his younger sister, his mother got up early and worked hard every day, and endured endless loneliness and grief. The mother, who is always full of laughter and energy on weekdays, is in tears at this moment in the night, and she can't sleep at all. She deeply regretted why she had married such an unfortunate man in the first place, and if she didn't have these two sons to take care of and raise, she would have wanted to choose to end this painful marriage and find a new happiness. 
After the death of his father, the family, which was not wealthy, fell into an unprecedented predicament. My mother had to be busy teaching during the day and odd jobs at night, and her tired body was almost overwhelmed, but she firmly shouldered the heavy responsibility of supporting her family. Seeing her sensible eldest son successfully admitted to university, the joy in my mother's heart was instantly replaced by anxiety, because she really couldn't afford the high tuition and living expenses. In the end, in order to let the young son Dai Jun in the family have a better future, his mother could only let him drop out of school to work. That time, in deep despair, in order to relieve his pain and helplessness, he tried to end his life by swallowing sleeping pills, but fortunately, his mother found out in time and rushed him to the hospital at the last minute. After careful treatment by the doctors, he was pulled back from the line of life and death and returned to the world he once loved. 
All this made him understand that life is not always full of sunshine and laughter, and sometimes even encounters insurmountable difficulties and setbacks, but we must not be defeated by difficulties, we must stand up our backbone and face the difficult reality together with our relatives. Although Dai Jun's starting point in life was surprisingly low, he did not get discouraged or complain, but maintained his inner firmness and optimism. He worked silently, doing his best to share the pressure and burden for his mother and support the whole family. He let go and no longer rested on his laurels, but began to actively fight for his life, looking for his own hope and light. After dropping out of school and staying at home, Dai Jun felt that his future was full of uncertainty and confusion. He felt very confused about the future and didn't know what he should do. However, he knew that he had a naturally good voice and loved singing since he was a child. Whenever he sings, his mood gets good. He once thought that if he could make singing his career, then the future might be even better. 
His mother had listened to his singing voice and admired his talent, so she encouraged him to pursue the path of a singer and provided him with a lot of help and support. In 1989, 19-year-old Dai Jun began to step into society, and through the introduction of friends, he joined an amateur grass stage team and embarked on his acting career. They often toured the country, and in those days, Dai Jun was highly recognizable in the crowd, his voice was unique and infectious, and in the performances, Dai Jun and the band performed those popular classic songs, and they used their enthusiasm and talent to bring many unforgettable moments to the audience. However, the good times did not last long, although Dai Jun had a certain talent, but because he had no experience, he could only do some chores in the background, and was jokingly called a trickster. He was very unhappy about this, but he could only do nothing. In this grass stage team, he had little opportunity to show his talent, so he decided to leave here. He was determined to come south to the prominent city of Shenzhen in search of new opportunities. 
He firmly believes that as long as he works hard, he will always get ahead. Dai Jun is a young man who came to this city full of opportunities, and after his hard work and continuous experimentation, he finally found a job as a dolphin trainer at an aquarium. He couldn't be more excited about the job because he would have the opportunity to work with these intelligent and nimble creatures of the sea, build deep friendships, and help them become better performers through his own efforts. But the work is not easy, and Dai Jun has to do a series of heavy physical tasks every day, such as changing the seawater, feeding the seaweed, and cleaning the pool, but he is not afraid of hard work, but always treats these tasks with a positive attitude. 
Two years later, after a long period of training and hard work, Dai Jun was finally selected by the company to take two well-trained dolphins to Beijing to perform, which is his long-held dream, and he is full of longing and expectation for it. However, during the first performance in Beijing, two dolphins suddenly died violently on stage, an incident that shocked and frustrated him, and he had absolutely no idea what was happening and did not understand why. Dai Jun lost his job due to some unexpected reasons, and he had to return to Shenzhen, the city where he once lived, and found a job on the assembly line at a local printing factory to start a new life. At work, he has always been a conscientious employee, and his daily work is stable and comfortable, but he has always hidden an unknown dream in his heart, and he is full of love and desire for his talent. Whenever it is quiet at night, he will always play the guitar alone, or sing in the bedroom, passing on his love and talent through singing. 
Whenever the weekend comes, he will always go to the local bar to sing, whenever he speaks, it will attract the applause and cheers of countless fans, his singing voice is affectionate and beautiful, as if there is a kind of ** human heart power, can make people temporarily forget the troubles in life. Gradually, his singing voice became more and more loved by fans, and his name began to spread in the local ** circle. Fans agree that his singing voice and appearance are outstanding, which makes him a professional singer, his singing voice can touch everyone's heart and resonate with people, and his appearance can attract more fans. He also began to think about whether he should take ** as his career, although his current job is stable, but his love and pursuit of ** in his heart has never stopped. In 1990, Dai Jun was encouraged by everyone to officially enter the showbiz, and soon became a popular idol in Shenzhen, known as "Shenzhen's Little Dawn". 
In 1995, Dai Jun, who has been in the music industry for several years, released his personal single "Ah Lian", which describes the fate of female workers at the bottom of the society, which caused a sensation nationwide once it was launched, with sales of up to 650,000, and Dai Jun became famous in one fell swoop. But the good times did not last long, and with the increase of fame, Dai Jun also encountered many troubles. He was once impressed by a fan who forcibly coerced him to sing the song 50 times in a row. Since then, he has understood a lot of the stories and dilemmas behind the glamour on the surface. In order to develop better, Dai Jun chose to leave his hometown and go north with his dream to develop. 
After years of hard work, he eventually managed to be promoted to the position of TV presenter, and his career reached new heights. After Dai Jun became famous, it was difficult to find time to go home to visit his mother due to his busy work. Every time his mother's birthday, he always hurried back to Shanghai, but often had to leave for Beijing to record a show before he had time to give his mother a hug. His mother watched him leave with tears in her eyes, and he felt guilty.
As time passed, the mother also began to care about her son's marriage. She kept sending ** of local girls to Dai Jun, and the descriptions were very detailed. Dai Jun looked at his mother's eagerly expectant eyes and felt very embarrassed, so he could only vaguely perfunctory the past. Dai Jun's mother was a traditional woman who firmly believed that her son should start a family as soon as possible. However, Dai Jun is already in his thirties, and there are still many unfinished dreams in his work, so he simply does not have time to think about it.
So, he tried to get his mother to focus on his emotional issues first. After all, after the early death of my father, my mother has lived alone for so many years, and it is time to find a partner. "Mom, you don't have anyone to rely on, I think you should also consider remarrying. I'm grown up**, you don't have to worry about me anymore. Dai Jun earnestly persuaded his mother. When my mother heard this, her eyes flashed with sorrow, and she said to me earnestly: "In my life, your father is my beloved. I couldn't fall in love with anyone else, even if I got married, it was just for that layer of window paper, and my heart had become indifferent to feelings. ”
Dai Jun knew that his mother would rather spend the rest of her life alone than live with someone she didn't like. When he saw the gray hair on his mother's head, and the loneliness and loneliness in his eyes, his tears flowed involuntarily. "Mom, I'll find a good family, and when the time comes, you'll be able to hold your grandson. Dai Jun tearfully held his mother's hand, his eyes firmly committed. The mother looked at her son, lovingly and gently stroked his head, and said, "Child, I don't need the pleasure of holding my grandson. I'm just worried that you might choose someone who isn't the right fit to spend the rest of your life with. ”
I'm willing to wait for you to meet true love, even if it's a long time. This time, Dai Junhong couldn't help but shed tears of emotion. He deeply felt his mother's selfless maternal love, and decided that he must find a suitable person for him and go through the rest of his life together. In his career, Dai Jun's transformation has been remarkably successful. With his smart, witty and witty hosting style, he won the love of the audience. The production team of the show was full of praise for his performance. Hotspot Engine Program
In life, he has already lived a petty bourgeois life, purchased a comfortable and spacious house and a famous car. With the success of his career, Dai Jun's concern for his mother has not diminished in the slightest. Every time on his mother's birthday, he would customize a huge cake to celebrate his mother with the blessings of friends and family. He often took his mother on trips abroad to see places of interest. His mother's happy smile made him feel sincerely relieved and satisfied.
The mother is often concerned about her son's work and life. In order to see her son more, she would rush to the TV station in advance and sit at the door of the studio early to wait. Everyone joked that she was "the only fan of Dai Jun". She prepares meals for her son and cares a lot about whether he can eat and sleep well outside. One night, Dai Jun was tired on his way home after a day's work. When he opened the door and saw his mother's sleeping face, he felt a deep emotion in his heart. He couldn't bear to disturb his mother's rest, so he walked softly to her bed, stood quietly for a while, and then left the room gently. Early the next morning, Dai Jun was woken up by a ringtone, he picked up his mobile phone and looked, it turned out to be his mother calling.
*, the mother said with some disgust: "Why don't you call me when you come, I thought you wouldn't come back" Dai Jun listened to his mother's words, and felt a burst of warmth and emotion in his heart, he knew that his mother had been silently caring for him and working hard for him, even when he was busy, he would not forget his existence He gently comforted his mother and said: "Mom, I know you have been waiting for me, but I don't want to disturb your rest, don't worry, I will take good care of myself." Dai Jun learned that his mother's sleep was very light, and that night he heard the door open, and his mother was just pretending to be asleep to surprise him. His mother remembered his favorite snack when he was a child, and kept the recipe for him, which shocked Dai Jun, and the taste was like childhood magic for Dai Jun.
Every time he eats this food, he can't help but shed tears. In the eyes of many people, there are countless struggles and struggles behind success. However, for Dai Jun, his greatest success is to have a mother who loves him. The existence of his mother allows Dai Jun to feel the warmth and strength that he has not seen for a long time even if he experiences the ups and downs of life.
Between the fifty-year-old Dai Jun and his mother, who is in her late teens, we see a deep family bond, and their intimacy and harmony make people sigh that the power of family affection is really great. Dai Jun experienced hardships during his childhood, but he and his mother were not broken, but rather strengthened their bond. After becoming famous, he was not stingy with his mother's love, because he deeply felt his mother's meticulous nurturing grace. The mother has been silently supporting her son's career and only hopes that he can live happily.
Family affection doesn't need too many words, just two hearts that understand each other. No matter where you pursue your career, you should always remember the company of your family. When we go through the ups and downs of life, our families are still our safe haven. Be grateful and cherish what we have, keep our hearts fulfilled and joyful, and life will be filled with perfect happiness.