Parents are the mirror of their children's growth, and their behavior will also reflect the shadow of their parents. A person's moral character, self-cultivation and the formation of the three views are closely related to the education of parents.
In family education, the role of the father as a role model and the warmth given by the mother are very important.
First of all, fathers, as role models, are able to set the right values and codes of conduct for their children. Fathers are more dignified and decisive than their mothers' tenderness, and these traits are easier for children to learn and imitate.
The father's behavior in front of his children, whether it is studying, working, or socializing, will affect the development of children. A good father is better than a hundred good teachers, and a father's example affects a child more than words.
Secondly, the warmth that a mother gives to the family is also essential.
The mother's emotions and attitudes often determine the direction of the family atmosphere. If the mother can maintain a calm and warm attitude, then the child will also grow up healthy in such an environment. On the contrary, if the mother often transmits her negative emotions to the child, then it will cause irreparable damage to the child's psyche.
Family education is the most critical part of a child's development. In a family, the father acts as a role model and the mother gives warmth and support, and this combination can create a healthy environment for children to grow up.
She can seem fragile at times, but she can always be strong on her own. She is very nagging, but rarely loses her temper. With such a mother, the family will not be separated.
Finally, parents should be the best version of themselves.
The best family education is for parents to do their best. Fathers should be fathers, do not exaggerate their strengths, do not hide their shortcomings, but calmly set the best example for their children with actions. We can have shortcomings, but we must not fail to improve. Mothers should become mothers, don't affect their emotions because of small things, and don't randomly pin their expectations for the rest of their lives on their children. Whatever happens, try to speak calmly instead of shouting. In this way, the child can grow up healthily. If parents study hard, children can improve every day, and families can prosper and prosper.
Zhao Liyun is a national senior family education instructor, scholar and writer. Pay attention to teachers and grow with you!