In 1983, Vietnam s adopted daughter visited Hao Zhiping s mother, and I didn t know what to do

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-05

In the year, Vietnam's adopted daughter visited Hao Zhiping: Mom, I don't know what to do

**During his tenure as Minister of Public Security, he adopted an orphan of a martyr named Deng Jinna. Since Deng Jinna joined the Luo family, she has been carefully taken care of by Luo and Hao.

She spent many years with members of the Luo family and made unforgettable memories. In 1983, Deng Jinna returned to China from Vietnam with her husband and two sons, and took her eldest son to Beijing to visit Hao Zhiping's mother.

The long-awaited reunion of mother and daughter made them hug tightly. Deng Jinna became a member of the Luo family.

Jinna's mother's concern for the *** general reminded him of a previous agreement. **Like children, I once said to my wife, "One is more beautiful than the other, the more you give birth, the better, you give birth, I will raise it".

But due to the difficult environment, his wife Hao Zhiping did not want to have more children. However, ** always insisted on their own ideas, and gradually, they had 7 children, plus 1 child from their ex-wife, for a total of 8 children.

This time, in order to take care of Jinna, he decided to take her to Beijing to go to school, although it meant that he would be busier, but he was willing to give more for the children.

Figure |Hao Zhiping and *** photo Meng Meng was born in Yan'an, originally Hao Zhiping had submitted a report to the organization, and Comrade ** also agreed that he could not do it, but because of the delay of ***, Meng Meng still came to the revolutionary holy land.

After entering Beijing, Hao Zhiping gave birth to a daughter, named "Duoduo", which means "more". When *** came home from work, he discussed with his lover and felt that the name "Duoduo" was not good, first, the child knew how bad her parents thought she was when she grew up, and second, *** felt that she was not much, so "Duoduo" was renamed "Duoduo", which means that it is as cute as a flower.

Two years later, Hao Zhiping gave birth to a baby boy, named "It", which means the end. This time, Hao Zhiping discussed it with ***, this is the last child, so he gave it this name.

However, Hao Zhiping's approach made *** feel very troubled, after all, he should come down without consulting his lover in advance. So, he came up with a solution. He first wrote a letter to his lover, then sent Tian'er, Xiaoqing and others back to school, and took Deng Fa's child Jinna with him.

In the letter, he told his lover that Jinna was Deng Fa's child and that he would take care of him. Please drop her off at school and pick her up with their kids every Saturday. He explained that they already had enough children, and that it would be troublesome to add another one, but that it should also be taken care of out of morality.

He hopes that his lover will not blame him for being nosy. It's been more than a month since he came out, and he really wants to go back, but it's not done and it's hard to go. He is a person who likes to be responsible to the end, which is also his consistent style.

He has gained a lot from going out this time, and I hope that his lover can be happy for him. In the end, he inquired about Hao Zhiping's physical condition, reminded her to pay attention to her physical examination, and especially told Duoduo not to get sick again.

He also mentioned that Shu'er had already gone to school, what should Meng'er do, he bought some things, mainly clothes and children's toys, and asked Hao Zhiping to take care of them. Finally, he wrote: "I miss you so much, but it will be about ten days before I can meet you. ”

According to Luo Diandian's words, Dad didn't leave time for Mom to bargain. Deng Fa is someone Hao Zhiping understands. From 1922 to 1925, under the inspiration and guidance of Su Zhaozheng, he participated in the Hong Kong Seamen's Strike and the Provincial-Hong Kong Strike, becoming a workers' leader.

Deng Fa, the old revolutionary who served as the principal of the ** party school during the Yan'an period, once attended the World Workers' Congress held in Paris as the secretary of the Communist Party of China Working Committee on behalf of 800,000 workers in the liberated areas.

However, on April 8, 1946, he was killed in a plane crash in Heichashan, Xingxian County, Shanxi, and was called the "48 Martyrs" together with Wang Ruofei, Bogu, Ye Ting and his wife, and Huang Qisheng.

For the orphans of these martyrs, especially Jin Na, Hao Zhiping gave special care. She always made sure that Kina had the same things as her own children, whether it was beautiful clothes, shoes, or ribbons to tie her hair.

Hao Zhiping would even accompany Jin Na to do her favorite crafts, and Jin Na was so skillful that she would even make clothes for dolls and mishka (teddy bears that Hao Zhiping brought back from the Soviet Union).

During those days, the relationship between the "mother and daughter" was harmonious and warm. As she grew older, Jin Na began to have an ignorant desire for love, and sometimes pestered Hao's mother to tell her about her love experience with Luo's father.

However, every time Hao Zhiping would smile and say: "There's nothing to talk about, we're together in a daze!" Hao Zhiping was born in a small mountain village in 1922, and at the age of 12, she was admitted to Kaifeng Provincial Girls' High School with excellent results.

In 1937, the Chinese nation was in a critical period of life and death. At this time, Hao Zhiping had a strong desire to serve the country in his heart, and decided to put down the pen in his hand and join the barracks.

In 1938, Hao Zhiping came to Yan'an, and a few months later, after the intensive training of Northern Shaanxi Public School, he was assigned to the fourth phase of Kang University. At that time, ** was already the vice president of Kang University.

Soon, ** demanded that Kang Da be sent behind enemy lines. Due to the long distance and danger of the road, it was stipulated that lesbians were not allowed to go. After hearing this regulation, Hao Zhiping immediately went to Guo Linxiang, the leader who was in charge of managing them at the time, and resolutely said: "Why don't you let the female comrades go?"

I promise not to be burdensome. If it weren't for the anti-Japanese resistance, I wouldn't have come to join the Communist Party of the Eighth Route Army. Guo Linxiang was moved by her persistence and agreed to her request.

After the troops arrived in Jinchaji, Hao Zhiping was transferred to the women's company as a platoon commander. At that time, ** in Jinchaji, I heard that *** Kang Da had a female soldier company, so I wanted to transfer some of them to stay and help with the work.

Hao Zhiping was afraid that he would not be able to come to the rear of the enemy if he was left behind, so he went to ***'s office to report the situation. happened to be absent, so she left a note indicating her determination to continue to follow Kang Da.

This time, although Hao Zhiping and *** did not meet, *** knew that there was a platoon commander named Hao Zhiping in the female soldier company. That night, Hao Zhiping was walking alone by the river, and met ***, who was also walking alone

**Asked her name, Hao Zhiping replied, saluted and left. This encounter, the energetic Hao Zhiping left a deep impression on ***. After an arduous trek, Hao Zhiping came to Liao County, Taihang Mountain, with Kang Da.

After graduating from Kang University, Hao Zhiping went to the Party School of the Northern Bureau for further study. During this period, ** often went to lectures, and the studious Hao Zhiping often asked questions. After coming and going, the two developed deep feelings.

Hao Zhiping's relationship with *** gradually warmed up, ** confessed to her that he had failed his marriage, and sincerely asked to marry her. Hao Zhiping said that he would not consider getting married until he graduated, ** asked her for a specific time, and Hao Zhiping replied that it was April 3.

So, they decided to get married on April 3. According to Hao Zhiping's recollection, although the wedding was simple, it was still very interesting. She thought there would be two quilts, so she didn't bring them, but she didn't expect *** to really be unprepared.

Later, the logistics department learned about the situation and gave Hao Zhiping a quilt. Jin Na listened to the story with relish, but Hao Zhiping reminded her to focus on learning. However, Jin Na didn't seem to care too much, and her approach made Hao Zhiping feel a little dissatisfied.

Later, Jin Na went abroad to marry Vietnam, and ** and Hao Zhiping sent her blessings. Kina grew up in the Soviet Union and had many friends who met there. These friends would often get together to sing, dance, drink, and sometimes even sleep in the living room for a night.

Hao Zhiping was very worried about this, believing that Jin Na's behavior might be problematic. However, whenever she asked, Kina would be upset and think she was interfering with her freedom.

Once, Jin Na and her mother Hao Zhiping had an awkward quarrel. One morning, Jin Na didn't get up for a long time, and Hao Zhiping scolded Jin Na because she came home late last night. Subsequently, Hao Zhiping knocked on the door for a long time, but Jin Na neither opened the door nor made a sound.

Hao Zhiping was flustered, and asked the guards to climb to a high place with a chair and look in through the small window on the door, for fear that something would happen to Jinna. But just then, Kina opened the door casually and left the house.

Hao Zhiping has never been the same in front of his own children, but he is helpless against Jin Na. It is said that "it is not appropriate to manage lightly or heavily." In the end, Hao Zhiping reluctantly said to her husband: "My daughter is older, it's hard to manage, you go and take care of it." ”

** smiled and said: "When my daughter grows up, she will also fall in love, as long as it doesn't affect her studies, let her go." In 1960, Jin Na graduated from high school in the High School Affiliated to Beijing Normal University, and at the suggestion of ***, she applied for the foreign language department of Beijing Normal University to study English.

After that, on weekends and holidays, Jin Na would invite female classmates to Peking University to catch a dance party. By chance, Gina met her love. Over the next few years, even though Kina and her boyfriend were not in the same college, their relationship grew better and better.

Jin Na's boyfriend's name is Li Xinhua, he is Vietnamese, hardworking and studious, and has excellent grades. In the process of Jinna's relationship with her boyfriend, ** learned about it.

** He Hao Zhiping had reservations about Deng Jinna and Li Xinhua's marriage, but Jin Na insisted on her love, saying that she didn't need to know his father's identity if she fell in love with Li Xinhua.

In the end, Li Xinhua's father was found to be the deputy minister of foreign trade of Vietnam, and he had a deep friendship with ***, and ** no longer objected to their marriage after learning about it. In 1965, Jin Na and Li Xinhua held a wedding in accordance with Vietnamese customs under the auspices of the Vietnamese ambassador to China, and ** and Hao Zhiping also sent gifts and congratulatory letters.

After Jin Na went to Vietnam with her husband, her life experience was known by her father-in-law Li Ban, and he liked her very much since then. Her father-in-law arranged for her to become an English teacher at a foreign trade college under the jurisdiction of the Ministry of Foreign Trade.

However, when the Vietnam War broke out in 1966, Kimna's life became difficult. She had no fixed place to live, so she had to hide from place to place, often hungry and full. Although in China, the ** family also misses her, but she was separated from her family during the war.

It was not until her death on August 3, 1978 that Jin Na was able to return to China to visit her adoptive mother, Hao's mother. However, Hao Zhiping's departure made Hao Zhiping feel very painful, and she would go to her husband's room every day to take a look.

It was not until 1983 that Jin Na received the news of her biological mother's death, and she immediately wrote to Liao Chengzhi, asking to return to China for funeral.

Figure |Kim Na sold the gold ring she had worn for 18 years to pay off her debts in Vietnam. However, the cost of returning home is a huge problem for the impoverished family of four.

At this time, a comrade from the Chinese embassy in Vietnam approached Jin Na and said: "Don't worry, China will not give up its children." We can afford to pay any amount of money. ”

Do you kiss the hometown people". When Jinna heard this, she was moved to tears. In June, Jin Na and Li Xinhua, two children, returned to their homeland through Thailand.

After attending her mother's funeral, Jin Na contacted ***'s eldest son, Xiaoqing, and told him that he was coming to Beijing to visit Hao's mother. After hanging up **, Jin Na rushed to Beijing with her eldest son.

At Hao's mother's house, the mother and daughter hugged each other tightly. For a long time, they did not speak, only wept quietly. Hao Zhiping said: "Jinna, do you remember the little clothes you made for Mishka?

It's worn all the time. Jin Na said, "Mom, I don't know what to do ......."Mother and daughter sat down and remembered what had happened. Jin Na told Hao Zhiping: "I will always be the daughter of *** father." ”

After that, Jin Na settled in Guangzhou with her husband and children, and both of them worked at Jinan University. The family lived happily ever after. Every holiday, Jin Na will be beaten by Hao Zhiping in Beijing and ask her about her recent situation, and the relationship between mother and daughter has always been very good.

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