Wen Qiaomu.
On the journey of love, there will be many signals along the way that can tell you if the other person really cares about you. Among them, he reaches out to you at specific moments, probably one of the most direct and profound expressions.
Let's dive into why he chooses to share his mood with you when he is payroll, low and gloried.
1.When salaries and bonuses are paid.
When he chooses to contact you when he is paying a salary and bonus, it is not only a way to share the joy, but also to show that he cares about you. At this time, he shares his achievements and income with you, which means that you have an important place in his heart.
Case Study: Ray and Lee are a couple who have been in love for many years. Whenever Lei pays a salary bonus, he will share it with Li as soon as possible. It's not just a recognition of their joint efforts, it's a joy for them to share in their successes.
2.When you're feeling down.
When a person is feeling depressed and distressed, choosing to contact you shows that you are a point of emotional support in his heart. His willingness to share his true feelings with you when he is vulnerable shows his trust in you and his desire to share his joys and sorrows together.
Case Study: Amy is feeling depressed after a setback at work, and she chooses to share it with her boyfriend Mike. Mike didn't shy away from the question, but listened and gave her comfort and support. This made Amy feel genuinely cared for and brought them closer together.
3.Glory times.
When it comes to personal or professional glory, if he contacts you in the first place, it is a sign of respect for you and willingness to share his success with you. His inclusion of you in His moment of glory means that you are an important witness in His heart.
Case Study: Zhang is a successful entrepreneur, and when his company won an industry award, his first reaction was to reach out to his girlfriend, Lei. This is not only a respect for her, but also a joy and sense of accomplishment to share his success.
Overall, when he chooses to contact you when he is paid a salary, a bonus, a low mood, and a time of glory, it is a sign that he genuinely cares about you.
This behavior is not accidental, but is built on trust and depth of affection for you.
For readers, it is important to cherish such moments of connection, and at the same time, learn to give appropriate support and care to each other at critical moments, so as to create a better relationship together.
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Thank you for your love, I am Qiao Mu, the author of millions of leopard prints, a professional emotional counselor, focusing on intimate relationship repair, emotional marriage recovery.