Recently, I watched "The Complete Biography of Su Dongpo", and after turning a few pages, I was Dongpo's father-Su XunCircle of fans, live and live to stage a play"The scumbag dad cultivates the school bully baby".Inspirational events. And, once cultivated, there are two school babiesSu ShiwithSu Zhe
When it was more interesting, under the influence of Xueba's son, Xuescum's father also successfully counterattacked, and finally the third son was here".Tang and Song Eight Families"., one household occupies three seats! This achievement is really surprising and enviable.
So, how did this Dongpo father "Su Xun" suddenly awaken and be inspired to be a good father from the chaos? How did he personally train his two sons to become talents?
In today's article, Nuo Ma will restore this interesting father in history, taking history as a mirror, maybe you can also learn from it.
1. 2. Parenting.
A prodigal son Su's dad who doesn't do his job
According to the current statement, the Su family is a middle class. The ancestral family is well-off, and it cannot be said that he is rich and expensive, but he can also afford to live in a villa, can afford a nanny, and the decoration is also elegant, and the house is full of books, full of books.
The family atmosphere is so good, it stands to reason that Su Xun should also be a reading material. It's a pity that he is playful by nature, and he doesn't like to read since he was a child, but he likes to learn from Li Bai and Du Fu to travel around the mountains and rivers
Su Xun's father, Su Xu, is casual by nature and doesn't care about him. One isThere are already two sons in the family who have been admitted to the civil service, and it is enough to support the façade of the Su family; The second isThe family has a mine, and I don't care about my youngest son's salary. So, let Su Xun be a child, and make it hard.
If Su Xun is placed in modern times, he is a veritable "prodigal" and a rich second-generation "loser".
It is said that "dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, and the sons of mice will make holes". If Su Xun eats, drinks and has fun all his life and is not pragmatic, there is no accident, his son, with a high probability, will not be excellent enough to go to the **.
However, what is surprising is that Su Xun has cultivated a son who is a scholar, and it is two! What happened?
Su's father, who is 27 years old and studying hard
According to history, there is a classic story about Su Xun, that is"27-year-old angry reading"."Three Character Classic".said"Su Laoquan, twenty-seven, the beginning of the anger, read books"., is talking about Su Xun.
When an adult suddenly makes a major life change, he often experiences a major life change, and Su Xun is the same. The old mother died, the eldest brother died, and the son was born, in just a few years, Su Xun went through major events in his life and got an unprecedented life tempering.
Especially during the period of filial piety, the second brother asked Su Xun to write an article to praise the mountains and rivers, and he had rich travel experience, but he couldn't write; The second brother asked him to compile the Su family tree, and looking at the excellent deeds of his ancestors, Su Xun was even more ashamed.
Look at the infant child, think that he is also the child's father, can his own son also learn from his old son, confused, and achieve nothing? After learning from the pain, Su Xun was inspired to read, and since then he has opened a chapter of angry reading at the age of 27.
It is said that the prodigal son does not change his money, and once a man's self-motivated consciousness is awakened, you don't know how hard he will work. One of the most famous allusions is:Su Xun dipped the ink as sugar and ate zongziThe story.
One morning, Su Xun's wife saw that her husband got up early in the morning to study and didn't eat, so she peeled off the zongzi and put it in front of him. Su Xun was reading a book while eating, but he mistook the ink for sugar and ate it with relish. When his wife came back, he found out that he had eaten a "big flower face".
Su Xun has set a good example for his son to read since he was a child, under the influence of his father Su Xun, Su Shi, a classmate of Su and Su Zhe, are also very diligent and studious.
The road of counterattack of Su's father
Su Xun is 27 years old and determined to study with anger, not only to set an example for his sons to study diligently, but also to become a great idol in the hearts of children through reading, gain fame and become a great idol in the hearts of children.
But it's a pity that Su Xun took the exam three times in a row and failed all three times. Su Shi was two years old, Su Xun entered Beijing to take the Jinshi examination, but did not pass the examination; In the second year, he participated in the Maocai and other subjects, but he did not pass the examination; Su Shi was eight years old, Su Xun went to Beijing to take the exam again, but he still didn't pass the exam, he was simply possessed by a scumbag physique!
However, it is gratifying that the road of the two sons' scientific examination is unusually smooth, and they are admitted to the department in one fell swoop, and their results are extremely good, especially Su Shi, who ranks first.
Su Xun wrote a limerick poem self-deprecatingly: "Mo Daoden Keyi, the old man is like ascending to the sky." Mo Daodenke is difficult, and children are like mustards. Since then, I have decided not to take the test at all.
The son is famous, and the father is not idle. There was no way to conduct scientific research, so Su Xun changed to the route of celebrities.
He devoted himself to the study of governance and accumulated many good articles. The article has unique insights, plain style, and practical value, and Su Xun's reputation has been greatly boosted in the cultural circle. The eight families of the Tang and Song dynasties, the father and son of the Su family, occupy three seats!
The counterattack of the scumbag dad is impressive!
[Postscript].
In this world, there is never casual success, and it is the same for raising children.
Looking at those outstanding top students, there are often excellent parents standing behind them. Regardless of whether the status of the parents is noble or low, they all carry excellent qualities in them.
Children have been exposed to it since childhood, and it will subtly become the driving force for children's progress.
I am a mother, I have a male treasure, I am committed to parent-child growth research, and I provide valuable parenting dry goods for parents!