Seven years ago, I put on my wedding dress and married love; Seven years later, love turned into chicken feathers.
After seven years of marriage and the children have gone to school, it stands to reason that we should be more like an old husband and wife.
However, on the contrary, I feel that our relationship seems to be drifting apart.
On the weekend, I finally looked forward to a break, but my husband nestled on the sofa and played with his mobile phone.
I made his favorite stewed pig's trotters and called him to get up to eat, and he responded with a mum on his mouth, but his body did not move.
I reluctantly brought it to him, only to find that he was chatting hotly with an unknown woman on WeChat. When he saw me, he was startled and quickly closed WeChat.
I asked him, "Who are you talking to?" He said lightly: "A friend." ”
What friends? "I broke the casserole and asked the end.
Just an ordinary friend. He was vague.
My gut told me he was hiding something from me.
Recently, he has always been mysterious, taking a shower with his mobile phone, and even going to the bathroom with his mobile phone.
At night, I had a nightmare and woke up to find him not around.
I opened the door and saw that he was hiding on the balcony, holding his phone to send a voice.
When he saw me, he was startled: "Why are you here?" ”
I can't sleep in your bed. I got straight to the point, "Who the hell is this woman?" ”
It's a customer. His face did not change, "Don't make a fuss, go to bed quickly." ”
I asked, "Why would you rather talk to someone than talk to me?" ”
He suddenly became irritable: "Are you annoyed? Suspicious every day, is it interesting? ”
One sentence choked me speechless. Since when has it become so strange to each other?
How did lovers who used to talk about nothing come to a situation where they have nothing to say?
When I got up in the morning, I saw that he posted a "good night" on WeChat, followed by a heart.
It turned out that his heart already belonged to someone else, and I couldn't accept this fact.
It seems like yesterday that we were desperate for love, but today our marriage is in jeopardy.
I filed for divorce, but he didn't agree, he said he still loved me, but he had lost the novelty of marriage.
He also promised me not to contact that girl in the future, and deleted the other party in front of me.
I don't know how to define this kind of behavior, is it mental infidelity or tired of the ordinary life? All I know is that my heart is bleeding.
A few days later, I suddenly saw him posting a photo of us on Moments.
This is the first time in the seven years of marriage that he has posted our intimate photos in the circle of friends.
* We smiled brightly and were full of happiness, and it turned out that he also missed us who was once sweet.
There is a comment below this **: "I really envy you for being so happy." ”
And his reply was: "In fact, everyone's marriage will go through a dull period, and the key is how to run it." ”
It dawned on me that marriage is something that requires both partners to work together.
The seven-year itch is a threshold that everyone will experience, as long as we cherish each other, understand each other, and take care of each other, we will be able to get through this difficulty, I decided to give him a chance, and also give myself a chance.
Do you think I'm doing something wrong?