Let's talk about fate today!
Recently, "anti-corruption in football" has been swiped, especially Li Tie's sentence "I want to be the head coach of the national team so much", whether this sentence is familiar, and the sentence of Director Qi back then, "Teacher, I want to improve so much", is exactly the same.
Of course, there is no comparison between the two, but it does not affect the fact that we can talk about fate as an example and take a lookHow the hell did fate change？Or, for Qi Tongwei, his road to redemption is in**?
Someone said before that Qi Tongwei hates the love between sisters and brothers, and likes Gao Xiaoqin out of his "desire to protect"; However, it seems to me that he is not so pretentious.
Qi Tongwei is not unable to endure the love between sisters and brothers, but is unwilling to endure the marriage under the pressure of power.
It's like a person breaks one of your legs, but there is only that person in the whole world who can help you pick it up and make you beg him. How would you feel? Aggrieved, angry, what's in the bag.
This is the case for Qi Tongwei, Qi Tongwei's wife Liang Lu, as the daughter of Liang Qunfeng, the political-legal-commission-secretary-secretary, used the relationship to cut off Qi Tongwei's career, and only Liang Lu in the entire Handong Province can help him "progress", otherwise he can only "mix" in the grassroots judicial office for a lifetime.
As an aspiring young man from a poor background, excellent character and learning, capable and motivated, he has no other choice. Either you will never come out for the sake of one breath, or you will have to take that step. So he also complained about why Chen Yanyan couldn't interfere in this matter for the sake of his daughter Chen Yang's happiness at that time.
What is Destiny?
In my opinion, it is the power that you have exhausted all your strength, but you still can't shake the slightest, that is, fate, and you want to change, but you are full of powerlessness.
For Qi Tongwei, marrying Liang Lu is his destiny, because he wants to progress too much.
Of course, Qi Tongwei's later misguided path and the background of his marriage are not unrelated to this matter, but it still cannot be erased, so far, Qi Tongwei is still an excellent and promising young man.
As fate comes, Qi Tongwei's "depravity" also started from his "too much desire to progress", which is the thought in his heart, that is, the heart, and a thought is born with a hundred fates.
And this makes it easy to regard the "original family" as the original sin.
It is true that there is an element of "original family", if Qi Tongwei was Chen Hai, such a thing would not have happened, but as "Hou Liangping", who also eats soft rice, why does he have two diametrically opposite endings to Qi Tongwei?
In fact, the answer is very simple, Hou Liangping and Qi Tongwei are walking the same way, but Hou Liangping is luckier!
Is it because Qi Tongwei is obscene and succumbing to power (Liang Lu), and Hou Liangping and Zhong Xiaoai are because of love?
Think about why Qi Tongwei and Gao Xiaoqin can "sympathize with each other".
Their fates are the same, they are all from humble backgrounds, they are all humiliated and even insulted (both physically and spiritually), and they all have a heart that is unwilling to fate and upward (as Qi said Shengtian Banzi).
Therefore, Qi Tongwei and Gao Xiaoqin both need the same psychological needs and hope to be treated gently. Don't underestimate these four words, sometimes his power is really infinite. Of course, this is also what is lacking in our family culture: there is no expression of love and care.
So Hou Liangping is lucky, fortunately the difference between Liang Lu and Zhong Xiaoai.
One is the eldest lady who is "lawless, brutal and willful", and the other is a lady who "takes care of the family and sacrifices herself to protect her husband".
It can be said that this is extremely important, even unattainable, after all, not everyone can be "gentle" (regardless of men and women).
And Hou Liangping's luck doesn't stop there, he doesn't have such a strong sense of victory and defeat as Qi Tongwei, and another word is "self-grasping".
For example, Hou Liangping was originally the chief of the Investigation, Investigation, Division, and Division of the Anti-Corruption General Bureau, while Zhong Xiaoai was the deputy director-director of the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection and the Central Committee with real power. In terms of position, Hou Liangping is half a level shorter than Zhong Xiaoai, but from their family life, they don't see this difference in status, it's more of a joke (in fact, Hou Liangping also cares, otherwise he wouldn't say that he is at the deputy department level in parentheses, but this kind of care is not as persistent as Qi Tongwei, this is not only a difference in personality).
At the same time, it is also conceivable that the family atmosphere of Qi Tongwei and Liang Lu (including Liang Lu's family) is completely different from Hou Liangping and Zhong Xiaoai (including Zhong Xiaoai's family).
It is conceivable that in a family atmosphere that lacks tolerance and understanding, emphasizing hierarchy and even origin, Qi Tongwei has to suffer a lot of "wretchedness".
These are the three things that Hou Liangping is luckiest with Qi Tongwei: personality, lover, and family atmosphere.
Otherwise, Hou Liangping could only be another Qi Tongwei.
Therefore, if you can't see through these three points, even if Qi Tongwei is finally arrested, it will be difficult to pry open his "mouth", of course, with his "strong" character, it is impossible to arrange such an ending for himself.
Gao Xiaoqin is his weakness, and he is also the person who can give him "gentle treatment", but he really understands Qi Tongwei, and he doesn't have the whole drama.
In fact, this is the reality of the vast majority of people: no one understands; It is also the ultimate reason why young people "don't want to be **" and repeatedly "resist": an extreme lack of identity.
Originally, Hou Liangping should have understood him, but Hou Liangping was so lucky, so lucky that he had forgotten his situation of "eating soft rice".
In the eyes of Sha Ruijin and Tian Guofu, he is a "criminal" who does not deserve sympathy;
In Gao Yuliang's eyes, he is a "villain" who does whatever it takes to make the dogs in the village eat the emperor's food;
In Li Dakang's eyes, he is a "speculator" in the other camp, flattering and begging for himself;
In Zhao Ruilong's eyes, he should be a "Qi donkey" who works hard and wagged his tail to serve himself;
Even in Zhong Xiaoai's eyes, this senior brother is a "degenerate" who has lost his ideals;
In the eyes of these people, Qi Tongwei is destined to be a "bad guy", and no one even thought that he was once a "hero" who bravely broke into the lair of drug dealers, was shot several times, and almost died.
That's why Qi Tongwei said the famous saying: Heroes are tools in front of power.
In adult society, especially in high-level society, there is no "sympathy", only "utilization", and there is no emotion, only interests.
So when someone asks me how to "enlighten", I always give him a four-word reply: face reality.
Of course, it is destined that Qi Tongwei wants to constantly prove himself and prove his "worth" in front of these people (high-ranking people), especially Liang Lu and his brothers in high positions, will these people look up to him?
So how do you prove your worth within the system? That's the position, the status, the rank. So he wanted to go one step further and go up to the vice-provincial-level level.
This stems from his deepest "inferiority", which he transforms into motivation to keep "forging ahead".
If you don't look at Qi Tongwei's "crime-crime-fact-fact" for the time being, he is even a "positive character". An example who never admits defeat, is self-motivated, and can even ignore safety (bravely enter the drug-trafficking base), and can bend and stretch (marry Liang Lu)?
Isn't this the state of life for the vast majority of people?
Not lucky - but don't admit defeat - self-motivated - hard-working - can bend and stretch - just to get ahead!
Of course, a mistake is a mistake, and there must be a corresponding price. If you make a mistake, you must correct it, and if you are beaten, you must stand upright.
Looking back, starting from "wanting to progress too much", starting from "wanting to prove himself too much", and starting from "marrying Liang Lu", his fate has been doomed!
But from the starting point of fate, as Qi Tongwei, who should have been a "hero", I think it is worth saving, but not at the end, but when he is treated unfairly.
So, who can change Qi Tongwei's fate in the whole play?
It must not be Sha Ruijin and Tian Guofu, they belong to the "executioners", and they will not sympathize with Qi Tongwei.
It's not Hou Liangping, he belongs to the "lucky ones", he doesn't have this heart, and he can't understand Qi Tongwei.
It's not Liang Lu and Liang Qunfeng, they are "power makers", they don't care about Qi Tongwei.
Not to mention Zhong Xiaoai and Zhao Ruilong, they are "vested interests", and they don't look down on "noble sons from poor families" like Qi Tongwei.
The only people in the whole drama who can change Qi Tongwei's fate are "Chen Yanyan and Chen Yang".
Chen Yang can be said to be Qi Tongwei's first nobleman, and it was Chen Yang who bought Qi Tongwei's new shoes, which made Qi Tongwei feel "treated gently". It can be said that if they are together, even if Qi Tongwei can't be the director of the department or the deputy provincial-level, he will at least be an excellent policeman or prosecutor.
As Qi Tongwei's love object, Chen Yang does not have the courage to "sacrifice herself to protect her husband" (although she is a boyfriend and girlfriend, not a husband) like Zhong Xiaoai, which is the difference between her and Zhong Xiaoai. There is no father who dotes on his daughter like Zhong Xiaoai (Hou Liangping and Zhong Xiaoai can be transferred to Beijing at will).
And in a principled family, it is impossible to give birth to a character that can "coquettish to the father" or even "cry" to "blackmail the father". Of course, even if Chen Yang begged Chen Yan, there was a high probability that Chen Lao would not change his principles and would not use his connections to help Qi Tongwei.
The matter of Qi Tongwei and Chen Yang, Chen Yanyan probably knows; Qi Tongwei was treated unfairly and suppressed, I believe Chen Yanyan also knows, after all, will the prospective son-in-law not pay attention to it and see how the young people are?
But when he was at the trough of Qi Tongwei, he chose to watch from the wall and chose to "stick to principles". So, why not give "Liang Qunfeng" a wake-up call?
At that time, their positions were political affairs, law committees, secretaries, and secretaries, and one was the chief prosecutor, although it belonged to the relationship between superiors and subordinates, but their status was not low, and there were always three points of thin face.
However, with the style of Liang Qunfeng and Chen Yanyan (Chen Yanyan also "challenged" Zhao Lichun), I believe that Chen Yanyan has not "fought" Liang Qunfeng, but it must be because of official business.
So is Liang Qunfeng a good comrade who "changes when he knows his mistakes"? Is Zhao Lichun a good comrade who "corrects when he knows his mistakes"? Just think about it.
So Qi Tongwei, as Chen Yanyan's quasi-son-in-law, will he be the "victim" of the struggle between Zhao-Liang and Chen Yanyan? ? Is it a "trap" set by Zhao and Liang for Chen Lao?
To save is to break the principle and get on the thief ship; If you don't save it, you will sacrifice the happiness of your daughter.
Perhaps, from the moment he fell in love with Chen Yang and Liang Lu was frustrated by love, Qi Tongwei's fate was already doomed! And this fate did not belong to him in the first place.
And when he chooses to compromise with power in exchange for a future, his fate takes another 180-degree turn, beginning to transform from hero to degenerate, in the process:
The prospective old man Chen Yanyan can't save him (stick to the principle);
girlfriend Chen Yang can't save him (not determined enough);
The teacher Gao Yuliang couldn't save him (there was nothing he could do);
his wife Liang Lu can't save him (brutal and willful);
The old man Liang Qunfeng and his uncle couldn't save him (inferior);
In fact, the only one who can save him is himself (Shengtian Banzi)!
However, if a person who enters the game with his own body has to win half of the world, how can such an extreme person save himself?
At the extreme, it is easy to make mistakes by being too self-conscious; A person who has been suppressed for a long time and has low self-esteem must have difficulty admitting that he is wrong; A person who wants to prove himself too much will only be wrong.
So far, Qi Tongwei is the vast majority of people?
We often say that "character determines destiny", and a person's personality is actually a "seed" with a certain outcome. What can make this seed continue to take root, sprout and grow is the environment, desire, opportunities, etc., and what can grow left and right is fortune opportunities, personal choices and noble guidance.
If you understand it at a deeper level: a thought in your heart is fate, a choice is fate, facing reality is fate, and what you do is fate.
Of course, in this process, if there is any sentence that can help you, I think it is:
Be honest and treat yourself with sincerity. I'm not afraid to think about it, but I'm afraid it's too late.