This year's cold winter is particularly harsh, not only because of the cold weather, but also because of the indifference of people's hearts. More and more people do not feel the love of their parents in this cold season.
Parents either urge them to get married, or for various reasons, they think that their children are unproductive, do not make money, and cannot find a partner, and blame their children, which makes people feel at a loss. Girls are also affected, whether they are unhappy in their careers or unhappy marriages, they can be criticized at home. Either the family urged the blind date to get married, or they were subjected to cold words, which made people feel lonely and heavy at home.
A true story takes place in Anhui Province, where a woman would rather not be at home for the Chinese New Year, and her sense of belonging to her home has been gone. At home, she felt the indifference of her parents, whether it was being occupied by her sister in an air-conditioned room during the Chinese New Year, or finding a space that truly belonged to her among the 14 rooms in the home. Her parents ignored her situation, and even thought that the room occupied by her sister belonged to her younger brother, which made her feel cold.
This woman's disappointment in her family is not only because of the alienation of family affection, but also because she can't find a harbor of her own in a huge family. Even though there were 14 rooms in the house, none of them were really prepared for her. Every time I go home, I am randomly assigned a room, and after I work, this room is disposed of at will, either used to entertain guests, or turned into a place where clutter accumulates. It was in the rental house that she found a true sense of belonging, and felt that it was her safe haven.
This story reflects the problems that exist in some families, not only material injustice, but also emotional indifference. In this cold winter, perhaps we all need to reflect on family relationships and create a warm space for our families. It's not just the weather that's cold, it's our hearts for each other.
Six relatives are shallow, this word is deeply reflected in the story of a woman returning home on National Day. When she returned home, she unfortunately had a fever of 40 degrees, but her parents left her at home and went out to work. In desperation, the woman went to get an injection alone, but her body was weak but no one cared. She began to wonder that maybe when she grew up, her parents really didn't need to care anymore, even when they were sick.
During her illness, she longed for a bowl of "egg custard", and mentioned it to her mother many times, but to no avail. The neighbor persuaded her that she was sick and that she should not eat, but she insisted on eating. Under the double blow of illness and being robbed of the air-conditioned room by her younger brother, the woman's attachment to home seems to be gone, and she feels that she has not really been cared for and loved at home.
There is a term called "six shallow kinship", which refers to a person's lack of parental preference in the process of growing up, and relatives and friends did not give sincere affection, life is full of difficulties, lack of care and care, as if out of place with the world. This seems to be the reality that this woman is facing.
In the eyes of netizens, once someone cares about such a loveless family, even if it is to cook a bowl of egg custard and provide an air-conditioned room for her, she may fall completely. Therefore, everyone advised her that although she could not choose her parents, she could choose her own life as an adult. Let go of the past and get rid of obsessions, maybe you can find true love.
It's a food for thought, and a reminder that we should strive to make our children feel the genuine love of their parents. Love is a force that not only warms one person but also brings harmony to the whole family. While looking for true love, we must also care for and care for our loved ones with our hearts.