Perspectives & Opinions:
Whether to return the red envelope to her boyfriend's mother after a breakup is a choice involving morality and responsibility. On this issue, my view is that returning the red envelope is a socially conventional and moral choice.
First of all, the essence of the red envelope is a gift, representing gratitude and blessings. When the two break up, the meaning of this gratitude and blessing has been lost, so returning the red envelope is the proper way to deal with the gift. Not returning the red envelope may be considered disrespectful to the former mother-in-law, and may even cause unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts.
Secondly, the return of red envelopes also reflects personal responsibility and integrity. When two people end a relationship, they should face the issue honestly and responsibly. Returning the red envelope shows your respect for your ex-mother-in-law and your mature attitude towards feelings, which is also a kind of responsibility for yourself.
In addition, returning red envelopes can also help resolve conflicts and conflicts. When two people break up, there are often some negative emotions and contradictions. By taking the initiative to return the red envelope, possible disputes and conflicts can be reduced and both parties can be kept in peace.
However, the actual situation of returning red envelopes also needs to be taken into account. If the red envelope has already been used or consumed, the refund may no longer be moot. In this case, you can choose to express your gratitude and blessings in other ways, such as writing a thank you note or sending a blessing card.
All in all, returning the red envelope to your boyfriend's mother after a breakup is a social norm and moral choice. This not only shows respect and gratitude to the former mother-in-law, but also shows personal responsibility and integrity, which helps to resolve conflicts and conflicts. Of course, if the red envelope has been consumed, you can choose other ways to express your gratitude. In any case, we should approach this issue in a mature and responsible manner to avoid unnecessary strife and harm.