When people are confused or difficult, it is easy to lose self-confidence, begin to doubt everything around them, and the existing problems or difficulties cannot be solved within a certain period of time, so they will doubt their own ability, and even give up on themselves, break the jar, and label themselves as failures and incompetence prematurely.
However, in real life, everyone has their own limitations, and there is nothing they can do in the face of many things, which requires careful analysis and thinking about themselves and the environment in which they live, which problems are caused by themselves, which problems are caused by the external environment, and all failures and incompetence cannot be attributed to themselves.
Is it hard to find a job and make money because you don't work hard enough? Through my observation of the people around me and my own personal experience, I found that most people work hard, but they can't make money, and there are various reasons why they can't make money, some of them can't get the salary they deserve on time due to the company or unit, and some of them have low eyes, thinking that they should get a high salary if they graduated from a key or prestigious university, and they can't reach their expected salary, so they have been looking for a job.
People have to face a variety of problems in life, the problems faced by each person are also different, some problems are caused by themselves, and some problems are caused by the outside world, and everyone's ability is different, time and energy are limited, more often it is not simple to solve their own problems, and the problems of the outside world are not solved by their own ability, there is no need to complain, let alone worry, because they not only can not solve the substantive problems, but also waste their precious time.
The most important thing is to pay more attention to yourself, learn to take care of yourself, take care of your emotions, take care of your body, and not let life put the cart before the horse, let alone because it is difficult to find a job, difficult to earn money, etc., you can't control your emotions and do something that you regret.
If you bloom, butterflies will come. Don't chase a horse, spend your time chasing horses to plant grass, and when spring flowers bloom, there will be a herd of horses for you to choose from. These two sentences say the same thing, and constantly enriching oneself is always more powerful than pleasing others.
People are a process of continuous growth, do a good job at each stage of each stage, do not have to worry and worry about the future, we are not a prophet, just do a good job in hand, cherish the people in front of you, only pay attention to all people and things related to yourself, and spend more time on improving yourself is the right way.
In the new year, give yourself the courage to start again, to have God's self-confidence, in the face of this ever-changing real life, endure when you should endure, boil when you should boil, save when you should save, work hard when you should work hard, learn more and experience more is not a bad thing, give yourself a little more confidence, let yourself have the ability to be happy, let life be more beautiful, and make yourself a beautiful scenery! **10,000 Fans Incentive Plan