Dong Yuhui put forward a point of view in the live broadcast room:Don't worry too much about your child. He pointed out that overly caring will only hurt the child. Because you have to intervene in big and small things, to avoid his mistakes, you also avoid his growth. If you put all your energy into your child, if you hold your child too tightly, your child's sense of oppression will be particularly heavy. 
Yes, when the water is full, it overflows, and when the moon is full, it loses. Over-focus, the more additions are done, the more problems the child has. In the last two days, my eldest son is preparing for the final exams of Chinese and mathematics, I see that he is not nervous at all, and he does not plan to review well. Seeing that he was a little impatient, as a mother, I asked myself in my heart: "Am I too concerned about the child, and I am a little strict in managing him", the child's father said to me: "You are too strict in managing his son", he said this I immediately had mixed feelings. I calmed down and thought about it: what would happen if I didn't care about my children? 1. The child will only develop as he wishes I have tried to raise my eldest son, regardless of him, and let him develop as he wants, he is a game that can watch TV all day long after finishing the school teacher's homework.
Second, vision loss After finishing homework, I have been watching TV by myself, or playing with mobile phones, the child's strength will decline significantly, and the child will develop bad habits. 3. Laziness
After the child is used to doing homework, there is no other arrangement, such as reading extracurricular books, sports, practicing words, etc., these things children are unwilling to move, which will only make the child more and more lazy, no hobbies and specialties. Fourth, you can stay at home all day, do not go out, and even go to relatives and banquets children are not willing to go, I think it is really too exaggerated. Fifth, more and more silent I found that in the early stage, I have an attitude of not caring about children, and let children do everything by themselves, so there will generally be some situations, such as learning in the early stage of primary school, but it has fallen off a cliff since junior high school, and even has a situation of boredom in school, and finally drops out. This is the case of a colleague in our office, whose friend's child never cared about his child's learning when he was in elementary school, and when he reached junior high school, he directly said: "If you don't want to study, your parents can only choose to let him go to a private college." 6. I don't have any love for the outside world I always like to live in my own world, and I don't care about what happens around me or what changes. Doesn't feel anything around you.
I summarized and reflected: if you have an attitude of not caring about your child, unless the child has a very strong self-discipline, clear goals and plans, and will handle their own affairs well, but more children do not have such a strong sense of thinking, and they all need to grow up under the guidance and supervision of parents. Supervision.
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