I've read a sentence:
In fact, the person who is really suitable for you is never the person who can't be loved, but the person who sees through your temperament and temper, and still chooses to stay with you without caring about anything.The saddest thing in love is probably that you have given all your sincerity, but you are trampled under the feet of the other party without care.
Some people say that a man who loves you will be willing to spend a lot of money on you.
In fact, love can never be measured by money alone, and the Sea Kings are the masters of spending money without blinking, but they have never had even a trace of true affection.
Therefore, love and non-love cannot look at money, but at these two aspects.
One song sings: "An oath is a momentary gaffe, the truth believes in the fickleness of the world, silence requires strong wine and cigarettes, dignity begs for mercy in lies." ”
When a man is truly in love with you, he will not only verbally show loyalty and bargaining, but will silently fulfill what he has promised, so that you can enjoy the sweetness and beauty of love with peace of mind.
Men keep saying that they want to give you the most romantic proposal, allowing you to go to Hubble Island to see the pink beach, to Mount Fuji to see the cherry blossom ......But not once, can you still believe in his promises and love?
People have the nature to seek good fortune and avoid harm, and some people even take their calculations to the extreme.
Is the man who always breaks his promises really lack the time and energy, or does he just give up on you again and again when he weighs the pros and cons?
When a person thinks that you are not important, naturally what he has said to you is not so important;
When a person thinks you are the most important, he will not make promises easily, but he will definitely keep his promises.
Because he cares about your smiles, joys and sorrows.
I read a saying: "Love can be simple, but it can't be casual".
The person who truly loves you may not necessarily have sweet words and vows, but his actions speak for themselves.
As Haruki Murakami said:
People who are really good to you are in the details, people will lie, but the details will not, love is the details, and neither is love.A person who is full of promises and never fulfills them, maybe he is just a momentary hilarity and doesn't care about your loss and embarrassment at all.
Even if this kind of person is willing to spend money on you, how much sincerity does he have?
Therefore, a man who truly loves you will not only be willing to spend time and money on you, but will also make a promise.
I've seen a *** two excellent young men who like female classmate Xiaoya at the same time.
When Xiaoya's family suffered an accident and had to drop out of school to work, Xiao Nan said in surprise: "You just gave up? This is an opportunity that many people can't ask for, and you really let me down. ”
And Boyang helped her take the bookcase all the way to the school gate without saying a word, and also used his free time to work part-time with her, secretly taking care of Xiaoya.
There is a lyric in the song "Lonely Hope": "Wordless love is true love, if it is true love, why bother to speak, after all, love is walking hand in hand." ”
Love, which only exists in words, is ethereal and unrealistic, because it does not require any cost and pay, just a momentary tease of a good mood.
And true love is accompanied by commitment, as heavy as Mount Tai, it will always make you feel the warmth and steadfastness of being loved
If a person often confesses his sincerity to you, but is unwilling to pay a cent with his actions, then his love really has to draw a question mark.
People who really love you are not necessarily good at expressing themselves, but will only stupidly bow their heads and do things when facing you.
And his love is vividly expressed and expressed clearly through his actions.
Love, marriage, emotion
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