When Li Min returned to ***, because she was already a 14-year-old girl, she regarded her father more as a confidant in getting along with her father, and often acted as his pistachio to make him happy when his father was in a bad mood.
Once Li Min saw that his father was thinking about things alone at night, so he took a basin of water to wash his father's feet, and when he washed his father's feet, ** looked at his daughter Li Min's eyebrows and eyes that looked like He Zizhen, and couldn't help but say emotionally:
"When your mother first saw me, I had a foot injury, and she treated me, and she treated me very well. ”
Li Min only returned to *** when she was 14 years old, when she didn't even speak Chinese very well because she had been in the Soviet Union for many years, but *** always called her affectionately"Foreign Baby".He also taught her Chinese characters and language.
In Li Min's childhood, because she suffered a lot in the Soviet Union, she inevitably had some introverts in her personality.
And it is also necessary to consider being able to get along peacefully with the people around him, so Li Min is more precocious than girls of the same age to a certain extent.
Li Min couldn't help but feel very lonely in her heart before, and since she returned to her father's side, she no longer has to live carefullyIf she doesn't understand any questions in her heart, she will ask her father for advice, and *** will always answer her questions patiently.
Because Li Min grew up in the Soviet Union, he still retains Soviet habits in terms of living habits and etiquette many times.
For example, in the Soviet Union, calling someone else's name was intimate, but in our China it was not etiquette, so *** patiently taught her daughter to change it one by one.
Although *** is usually very busy at work, he will still come over to supervise Li Min's study whenever he has time, Li Min is different from ordinary girls, most girls like to study liberal arts.
But because Li Min is not very good at Chinese, she prefers to like science, because she feels that logical knowledge is often easier to understand.
But *** believes that as a Chinese, we should learn our Chinese culture well, so I specially found her a lot of famous books to read.
Li Min didn't understand it very well at first, because in our classical literature, the rhetorical usage of many passages is very subtle, which is still difficult for Li Min, who has a poor foundation in Chinese.
In the past few days by her father's side, Li Min has read a lot of books and gained a lot of knowledge, and the most important thing is that she feels the father's love that she has not felt all along, and she feels very happy in her heart.
Because she knows that she and her mother are no longer the only ones in the world, and her father *** always cares and loves her.
Li Min has been by her father's side for a long time, and it is inevitable that she will start to miss her mother, and she sometimes finds that her father also misses her mother in her heart.
Because her father sometimes mentions her mother He Zizhen with her, when she talks about the past, Li Min can see that her father misses her mother He Zizhen.
Li Min missed her mother, so she said to her father
"Can I go to see my mother? ”
** nodded, let her take the train to Shanghai to see He Zizhen, Li Min was still a 14-year-old girl at the time, and in getting along with her father, she already had a deep attachment to her father, so she hoped that her father would send someone to go with her.
Li Min deliberately said tentatively
"Am I on the train alone? ”
** understood her careful thoughts, but he made up his mind to exercise Li Min's ability to live alone, so he replied:
"There are drivers, conductors, and a lot of passengers on the train, so how can you be alone? ”Li Min heard his father say this, and he understood what his father meant, although it was the first time he took the train alone, he couldn't help but feel a little apprehensive, but after he really went through the process from buying a ticket to getting on the train, and then to the train to the station.
Li Min found that going out by train was really different from being accompanied by others, and he experienced the feeling of freedom and growing up after this outing.
It's a feeling I've never experienced before when I'm out with an adult. After taking the train this time, Li Min also understood his father's good intentions.
Dad is to make himself independent as soon as possible, so he has to exercise himself like this, and after this incident, Li Min has become more and more independent and strong.
After Li Min returned to Shanghai to see her mother He Zizhen, she found that her mother had been much haggard in these days, and Li Min knew in her heart that although her mother He Zizhen had been separated from her father for many years.
But whether she was in the Soviet Union, or later returned to Harbin, and later came to Shanghai, she has always been alone, just because she still has *** in her heart.
After He Zizhen saw Li Min, she couldn't help but ask about her current life and work, and she always remembered in her heart that ***'s habit was to work late at night.
So when Li Min is by his father's side, he must be considerate of him, care about his life, and don't make trouble for him.
When Li Min was with her mother He Zizhen in the past, her mother He Zizhen was also very strict with her, and even a little harsh in it, but now that Li Min is no longer living by her side, when she came back to visit her, she was full of reluctance to Li Min.
Seeing that Li Min looks more and more like ***, she sometimes thinks of her marriage with *** in her heart, and she can't help but feel very regretful.
regretted that they were too stubborn in the past, so that they missed the opportunity to reconcile, and now they can only melt their thoughts about *** into their advice to their daughter Li Min.
When Li Min was about to leave, she had mixed feelings in her heart, on the one hand, she felt that her mother had not been easy these years, and on the other hand, she secretly fantasized in her heart that it would be great if her father and mother were not separated back then.
At least I don't have to miss my mother when I'm by my father's side like now, and worry about my father when I'm by my mother's side, but this is just a fantasy in her heart when she is young.
After Li Min returned to her father's side, she could see that her father cared about her mother, and asked her if He Zizhen's condition had improved now, and whether her mood was still as depressed as before, and Li Min answered them one by one.
**After knowing that He Zizhen's body is still relatively weak and has a perennial nervous breakdown, he couldn't help sighing, put Li Min's little hand in his palm, and then held her little hand tightly.
**In my heart, it is hard to forget the friendship between He Zizhen and him, but now they are destined to never go back.
The only thing that comforted him was that he and He Zizhen had Li Min, a smart and considerate daughter, who could listen to him say something from his heart
**Looking at his daughter's eyebrows and eyes that resemble He Zizhen, he couldn't help but tell the story of the past, he told Li Min that He Zizhen was originally a female Red Army with a very progressive mind.
She was very active in revolutionary work, and when she was in a meeting, whenever she gave a speech on the stage, the masses of the people would feel their blood boiling.
Li Min listened quietly, these things in her father's mouth were both familiar and strange to her, familiar was that her father was telling her about her dearest mother, and what was strange was that in her memory, her mother He Zizhen was a thin and sad woman.
Because she had been living in the Soviet Union with her mother He Zizhen when she was a child, she didn't know that her mother was also a heroine who was born and died for the revolution.
**At the end of the talk, he also said humorously:
"My baby looks very much like your mother, but she has a stupid little mouth, and she can't be a propaganda agitator! ”Li Min knew that her father was saying that she was not good at learning Chinese, and she couldn't help but secretly decide that she must slowly improve her Chinese learning.
**Although he is a great man of a generation, in his attitude towards Li Min, he loves his daughter warmly like every father.
On the one hand, because he sent Li Min to a children's home in the Soviet Union in order to avoid the flames of the Anti-Japanese War, so that he failed to protect her in her childhood, so he felt guilty about her.
I want to make up for her as much as possible during the time I reunite with my daughter Li Min, so that she can also grow up happily.
On the other hand, Li Min herself is also well-behaved and sensible, and is good at taking care of her father's mood, so *** saw her shadow in her diligence and enthusiasm.
Li Min grew up in a children's home when he was a child, when the Soviet Union was at war with Germany, so the food in the children's home was not good, and he could eat very little food every day.
Li Min himself has been weak since he was a child, and he has developed the habit of eating very little and being very slow there.
This habit has not changed until he returned to ***, **After knowing the reason why his daughter Li Min eats slowly, he feels very distressed, so he waits for Li Min to finish the meal every time.
Every time Li Min eats with her father, especially when there are other people around her, she always feels embarrassed when she eats slowly, so she always accompanies her every time, and when she is full, she gets up again.
In this way, Li Min was avoided from being embarrassed because he ate slower than others. Li Min knew that this was his father's care for him, and a warm current came to his heart.
As Li Min grew older, she slowly had a deeper understanding of her father's career, and she knew that the reason why her father had to spend a long time working every day was for the happiness of the people of the whole country.
His feelings for his mother, in addition to the feelings of mutual support in the past, are more because they used to be comrades-in-arms on the same front and have the great ideal of serving the people, so they can always have a continuous relationship.
Li Min carefully found that his father's *** had begun to show his old age after working day and night, and even his sideburns had grown gray hair.
After Li Min saw it, he felt very distressed, but he couldn't stop the passage of time, so he could only try his best to take care of his father's emotions and life.
Once Li Min saw that his father was working late again, so he fetched a basin of water to wash his father's feet, and looked at his beloved daughter who was squatting in front of him and carefully washing his feet, and his thoughts couldn't help but go back to many years ago, and he and Li Min said with a little sadness:
"The first time I saw your mother, I had a foot injury, and she was very enthusiastic and treated me. ”I will never forget that at that critical moment of the life and death of the party and the people's army, I led the Red Army to Jinggangshan in order to avoid the enemy's encirclement and interception.
Due to the long march, both feet have been bruised, and the pain in the feet has been aggravated by the fact that they have to continue to walk after the injury.
In desperation, ** had to walk with a cane at that time, and when negotiating with Yuan Wencai, a cadre of the revolutionary team in Jinggangshan, and others, He Zizhen was also among them.
He Zizhen saw the *** with injuries on his feet, so he helped him apply medicine and bandage, and under He Zizhen's care, **'s feet quickly got better, and he and He Zizhen became familiar with each other, so they had a later story.
Every time Li Min listens to her father talk about the past, she always can't help but feel sorry for her mother, she knows in her heart that although her mother is now separated from her father, her heart always loves her father.
Li Min didn't know how to comfort her mother, so she could only take the time to write a letter to her, attaching her own painting by the way, or a homemade small greeting card.
After He Zizhen received a small gift from her daughter Li Min, she always felt a little comforted in her heart.
Li Min's painting level is actually not very high, but she had a deep interest in painting when she was a teenager, and later she did not paint again because she was busy with her studies.
Although he loves Li Min, he is also very strict with Li Min's ideological requirements, and does not let her reveal her identity casually.
Li Min often takes the bus home on holidays, just like children from ordinary families, because her father once told her that the family's car can only be used when she is sick and goes to the hospital, and he has to pay for the gas.
Li Min is not a squeamish girl in the first place, and she doesn't care about these external things, she knows that her father cares and loves her from the bottom of his heart, which is very satisfying for her.
Although Li Min's usual life is simple, under the influence of her father, she has slowly come into contact with a lot of theoretical books, so she feels very rich spiritually.
Li Min has always had a deep attachment to her father, so once she saw a photo of *** sold in a department store, and her other classmates bought it, and she only bought a *** wearing an octagonal hat because she didn't have much pocket money at the time.
After buying this **, Li Min carefully collected it, and Li Min, who looked at this **, couldn't help but feel the ruthlessness of time.
The former father was also so young and handsome, but the years and the hard work of work made him an old man with gray temples, and Li Min couldn't help but feel sad when he thought of this.
Li Min is very popular with his classmates because of his lively temperament and hard work in school, and later after going to high school, Li Min is more and more slim and elegant, and his demeanor is also refined and generous, so he naturally attracts the love and pursuit of many male classmates.
Among the male classmates who pursued her, Li Min only had a different feeling for Kong Linghua, because she found that Kong Linghua was always very patient with her and would take care of her in various details.
What's more, Kong Linghua himself is also very motivated to learn, which Li Min appreciates very much.
After a period of contact, Li Min and Kong Linghua established a romantic relationship.
At first, Kong Linghua's family couldn't help but feel a little nervous when they heard that their son was actually in love with ***'s daughter, but later, after meeting Kong Linghua, they were very satisfied with Kong Linghua.
knew that his daughter Li Min had also reached the age when she should fall in love, so after inspecting Kong Linghua's character, she had no objection to her daughter Li Min's love.
Even when Li Min was about to take the college entrance examination, he also asked Kong Linghua to live in Zhongnanhai to accompany Li Min to review, Kong Linghua was also in contact with ***, and gradually stopped worrying about what *** thought of himself, and seemed much more natural.
At the end of August 1959, Li Min and Kong Linghua held a wedding in Fengze Garden in Zhongnanhai, and the mood on that day was very complicated.
On the one hand, he was happy that his daughter had found happiness, and on the other hand, he couldn't help but feel a little reluctant when he thought that his daughter, who had always been innocent and lively in his heart, was now going to marry a woman.
At the wedding of his beloved daughter, ***, who has never drunk alcohol, drank a whole bottle of wine in order to bless his daughter, because he was in a good mood, so he did not show his drunkenness after drinking.
After Li Min got married, she began to live in Zhongnanhai with her husband Kong Linghua, which made it convenient for her to meet her father *** often.
At first, Li Min and Kong Linghua were both college students and had no independent income, so they took out some of the money to pay them living expenses.
Later, Li Min gave birth to her first child, Kong Jining, who was very cute when she saw her little grandson's tiger brain, and she was very happy.
often comes to find some small toys for Kong Jining to play with, ** regrets that he couldn't accompany Li Min in his childhood, so he poured this love and guilt into his grandson Kong Jining.
**I also found out the toys I used to make in Yan'an from the cabinet, and used them to coax my little grandson Kong Jining to play, when Li Min asked his father curiously, these small toys came from, **smiled and said:
"This is what I made for you when you were young, but you went to the Soviet Union later, and every time I miss you, I take it out and look at it. ”
Li Min's eyes couldn't help but turn red when she heard this, she didn't expect her father to love her so deeply, even if he was so busy at work at that time, he also made toys for himself and kept them for decades.