One sunny afternoon, I received a surprise text message from my boyfriend, which struck me: "I feel guilty. These few words left me in deep confusion.
My boyfriend and I met at a friend's party a few months ago, and we quickly fell in love. He is a gentle, thoughtful and humorous person, and we have always had a good time with each other. But this text message shattered my previous perception of his perfect image.
I immediately contacted him and asked what he was talking about. My boyfriend's reply was simple but I couldn't let go: "I feel guilty about my ex. This sentence was like a bolt from the blue, and it plunged my whole body into chaos. I never thought he would have such an inner conflict, what the hell happened to him?
I decided to talk to him face-to-face, and I wondered why he felt so guilty. We sat across from each other in a quiet café, and I looked at his familiar face, but it felt strange.
The boyfriend spoke slowly and began to tell the story of him and his ex. It turned out that his previous relationship was not smooth, his ex was a gentle girl, and there were many good memories between them. However, for some reason, the two eventually broke up. After the breakup, the boyfriend finds himself with some regrets, and he begins to doubt his original choice, feeling guilty and regretful about the departure of his ex.
Hearing him confide, I was shocked and distressed. It was the first time I saw him in such a vulnerable light, and it gave me a deeper understanding of him. We were silent for a few moments, until he said, "I don't feel like I'm really relieved, and I feel like I need time." "I knew he needed some space and time to face his past, and I silently accepted that reality.
After this conversation, there were some changes between us, but our relationship became stronger. My boyfriend was also gradually relieved of the past, and he told me that I had brought him new hope and courage. We began to cherish each other more and face the future together.
This story taught me that love is not always easy, and it is full of twists and turns. In the face of my boyfriend's guilt, I chose to understand and tolerate, and we went through this difficult time together, and we cherished each other's relationship even more. In life, every relationship has its own unique story, and only by listening and understanding with your heart can you truly cherish and protect it. The reason why boyfriends feel guilty about their exes may be because each of us has our own pasts that have shaped us into who we are. And love also grows in understanding and tolerance.