In today's society, in the face of the pressure and challenges of life, many people who work hard outside will always have an idea - it's a big deal to go back to their hometown to farm a few land, at least they won't starve to death.
However, this seemingly optimistic idea is actually too idealistic. When you really think deeply, you will find that the familiar countryside may no longer be your place.
After years of being away from home, it's not easy to get back in and adapt to this kind of living environment. What's more, if you can't even tell the basic agricultural seasons, how can you talk about supporting yourself from the land?
When you go home to visit your family during the Spring Festival, you will find that the wealthy people in the village are still wealthy, while most of the young people have moved to the city in search of better development opportunities. With the exception of a few successful peers, most people's lives have not improved significantly. At the same time, the old, weak, sick and disabled in the village have become the main force left behind, and most of the young girls flock to the city to chase their dreams.
Even back in the county or city, it's hard to escape the harsh reality. Behind the prosperity of the city is a huge gap in resources, opportunities and quality of life. Those who move to the city early, or who succeed through their own efforts, enjoy a convenience and comfort that you can't easily replicate.
Winter in the countryside is particularly cold and silent, and old men and women spend their time gossiping, casting strange glances at the young people who occasionally return. With the advent of the Internet era, new entertainment methods such as short ** have gradually replaced traditional communication activities, further widening the cultural differences between urban and rural areas.
For young people who are working hard outside the home, the short journey back to their hometowns during the Spring Festival is like a time travel, and after fading away from the aura of the city, they are faced with the problem of backward infrastructure, and even the most basic living needs cannot be met. originally had a beautiful vision of taking his hometown as the last retreat, but it seemed so pale in the face of reality.
The impact of the environment on people cannot be ignored, and the cold and depression of your hometown will make you feel depressed and uncomfortable after living in the city for a long time. You have a lot of talent and ambition, but you can't seem to find a place to do it there. As a result, you begin to understand that the passion and extraordinariness you pursue can only be realized in a foreign country.
Once, you were sad to be away from your homeland, but as the years passed, you slowly accepted the reality and learned to place your soul in a new place of life. You can pick up your parents to come to the city to share the fun of family, or you can choose a new hometown for your child.
Although life in a foreign country is full of hardships and hardships, it is here that you finally find your own place and realize the embodiment of identity and value.
Therefore, don't easily mention the matter of returning to your hometown, because the real home is no longer limited to the hometown in the geographical sense, but the land under your feet, the urban home you water with sweat.
No matter how much we miss that hometown that haunts us, it has become a symbol in the heart, carrying memories rather than a stage for future life.
In the adult world, we must learn to accept reality and move forward bravely. Even if you struggle for 18 years just to get the opportunity to be on an equal footing with others, you must be firm in your belief and tell yourself: "No matter where you are, peace of mind is my hometown." ”