Middle-aged, that word sounds a bit heavy, right? You may be facing a lot of pressure in life: your children's education, your parents' health, the burden of your mortgage, and your salary that never seems to go up. But don't worry, I have to talk to you about how to lower your tone, suppress your anger, and persist in being stingy in these "not youth" years, and live an affordable and wonderful life.
1. Lower your tone and humility will allow you to go further.
Lao Zhang, how is your newly bought car? "In this kind of gathering, there are always people who like to ask this kind of revealing question. You may be happy in your heart and want to praise every detail of the car, but at this time, lower your tone and reply "It's okay, the main thing is convenience" may bring you unexpected popularity points. Remember, in social situations, less show-off, more humility, more harmony in interpersonal relationships. As the old saying goes, "Bend down to jump higher", keeping a low profile in communication can make your image more divided.
Second, suppressing the anger and calming down is the key to solving the problem.
On that day, there was a traffic jam and you were late. The boss looked displeased, and the anger in your heart rose up. But take a deep breath, count to ten, and think about the phrase "impulse is the devil." That's right, the anger is big, the problem is still the same problem, is it solved? No! On the contrary, it may be because of the impulse of the moment, and it is more messed up. At times like this, learning to suppress your anger and calm down will not only allow you to explain more logically, but also let the other party see your maturity and stability. Remember, at all times, stay calm so that your world doesn't become a mess.
3. Insist on being stingy and thrifty to make life more exciting.
Sounds a bit *** but don't get me wrong, I don't mean "stingy" by the kind of calculating, but being more savvy and planned when it comes to spending money. For example, if you buy that cup of coffee every morning and make it yourself, you can save a lot of money over the course of the year. Or, those seemingly tempting **, are they really needed? You might as well go home and take stock to avoid impulsive spending. Remember, every penny is hard-earned, and when you use it, the quality of life will naturally go up.
To sum it up. Middle age is not the end of life, but the beginning of another. Lower your tone to make you more appropriate in social interactions; Suppress the anger and help you stay calm in the difficult situation; Stick to being stingy and make your life more refined. These three little things may sound simple, but it takes a little courage and a little persistence to do. Remember, life doesn't make you particularly lenient just because you're middle age. On the contrary, at this time, you need to use wisdom and patience to open up your own piece of the sky.
So, don't bow your head, the crown will fall; Don't shed tears, the bad guys will laugh. Middle-aged you, you can still live a delicious and wonderful life. Go forward and use your wisdom and courage to open another chapter of your life.