When fate comes, you are caught off guard, and when fate ends, it may come to an abrupt end.
I thought we could stay together for life, but I didn't think about it, but I was halfway apart.
Sanmao once wrote in "Baby".
"Those things that come because of fate will eventually come and go away. ”
At the time of the origin, I saw you in the crowd.
And when the fate is over, you can no longer be found in the crowd.
Two people who once loved each other walked out of each other's lives in this way, and they will never see each other again in this life.
was the closest person, but since then he has become a stranger.
One day, at some point, you suddenly found outThere's no reason to go any further
You can't hold on anymore, you don't want to be patient anymore, or the other person doesn't want to continue, and that's how the fate ends.
Until then, what are the signs? If you don't want to separate, change it in time; If you want to separate, prepare early to make your separation more peaceful.
Before the end of the relationship, the following 3 signs will frequently appear:
When you truly love someone, you can't help but want to be good to him, and you give to him voluntarily and voluntarily, without expecting anything in return.
But when love disappears, it will start to calculate, thinking that if you give more and he gives less, does he take advantage of you?
Start recovering what you give, no longer be grateful, just count the gains and losses.
Once people start to calculate, they are emitting strong negative energy, and when they get along, they will be full of accusations and complaints, and they will go all the way down.
Talking about the heart" said:
"Patience, resilience, understanding, tolerance, and tolerance are all synonymous with love, but not care. ”
Relationships without love will eventually dissipate.
I see that many couples will start to become very impatient before they want to divorce, and they will look at each other very unpleasantly.
Some of the other party's small shortcomings have also become unbearable, bad living habits, too slow to reply to messages, too annoying personality, and so on.
Even what I used to think was an advantage, now I feel that it is a disadvantage, like it is very clingy and makes you feel important, but now it is completely annoying.
I don't want to listen to him anymore, I don't want to play with him anymore, just seeing him is an eyesore.
often loses his temper unreasonably, troubles and quarrels with each other for small things, and quarrels little by little.
Such quarrels are only accusations and do not have any constructive meaning.
Companionship and dedication have become a responsibility, and they will start to want to avoid responsibility, pretend to be busy, find excuses to be alone, and so on.
People who don't quarrel also become polite and distant, lose the desire to share, and don't want to talk to each other about anything, because he knows that he won't get a good response.
Emotional writer Lu Qi once said:
"In marriage, if two people have nothing to say at all, then the loneliness of these two people together may be sadder than the loneliness of one person. ”
People who are still willing to communicate still have hope, and when they don't love, they will become more and more silent, otherwise they will continue to quarrel emotionally.
It's not that you go downhill at the end of fate, but when you go downhill, people's energy is extremely poor, and they are more able to maintain a relationship.
One of the two suddenly had a blocked career, and he couldn't solve many problems, and he was depressed and unhappy every day.
When people are doing well, they will be more tolerant of others, and when they are bad, their personalities will become distorted.
In such a situation, separation is a very likely outcome.
Maybe one party will also think that the other party is too poor, and people who don't care about money will also find it difficult to get along.
That's why I always remind you to be kind in times of adversity and give others enough emotional value, otherwise it will only get worse and worse.
If you are already having a bad time, and you still trouble the people around you every day, and constantly suspect them, it will only create more problems.
Give more love to your family and partner, and work together to overcome difficulties, so that you can slowly turn from crisis to safety.
When people are not in love, they will start to think about how life will be without each other, and ignore the current relationship.
Thinking about separation, that separation will come eventually! This is the Law of Attraction.
He may no longer see the other party's contribution, and he has no gratitude, just thinking about finding a new person to start over.
When the feelings and interests of one of them are not valued, the relationship is in a state of turmoil, unless that person does not care, then it can go on forever.
If you still want to redeem it, you must learn how to get along with each other, and if you don't want to work hard, you should prepare to separate as soon as possible and go to live a better life.
It may be uncontrollable whether fate comes or not, but when fate is about to end, it can be stoppedAs long as both of them have loved sincerely and are willing to change, there is a chance.
When you don't love it at all, it's irreparable.