Wen Zen Wen Xiu
The most hurtful thing about a woman in a relationship is not necessarily that he falls in love with someone else, but the kind of man who has a different heart, says he loves you, and acts to make you sad again and again.
He will often tell you that he is sorry and then hurt you again. Such a person will always give you the illusion that he loves you and just used it in the wrong way, so he accidentally hurt you.
Mo Yan once said, "A man dares to hurt you repeatedly because he understands you, and he grasps your kindness and weakness." He knows that there is no cost or cost to deceive you. ”Many men think that women suddenly become unfeeling. And in fact, it was her accumulated grievances that erased her affection and love bit by bit.
It was when this woman expected something from him that he let her down. And when you wake up, this woman doesn't need you anymore.
In a marriage, many men use these behaviors to hurt women, and most men are still persistent.
And they are never conscious, they never reflect, they don't adjust, and even many men are justified.
Once a man hurts a woman in these three aspects, that woman's love for you will gradually disappear.
FirstFinancially to femalepeopleOpaque
Many men take on the responsibility of supporting their families and give money to their wives, but their wives don't fully know how much money they have.
Men will say, "It's normal for me to keep a little money for myself", "I earn all the money, I don't have to tell her, it's also very reasonable." ”
You know, if a man is not transparent to his wife about money, then the husband and wife will definitely be separated. As the saying goes, "If husband and wife don't share wealth, they must not have the same heart." ”
When a woman marries you, she is equivalent to giving you the rest of her life, and the role of a wife is also a profession in itself and the carrier of the whole family.
The fact that men are not transparent about their wives reflects the basic relationship between husband and wife, and the meaning of mutual support between husband and wife does not exist.
If you are on guard against your wife, you will not feel the sense of security you bring him, which will directly lead to your constant quarrels, disputes, and conflicts over money all day long.
If you don't have her in your eyes, she naturally doesn't have you in her eyes, and in the end, the family can't get rich, and the marriage will go to ruin.
As the saying goes, "a wife who loses money will not get rich", so a man cannot treat his wife badly, let his wife know your economy, so that he can suffer for you and make a fortune for you.
Second, the deception of womenLying
Some men feel very smart about themselves, and they feel that if they are determined to eat this woman, no matter how they hurt, the woman will never give up, so they are lucky and make mistakes unscrupulously.
When a man is not transparent to a woman financially, he himself does not trust and recognize his wife's identity, and he is messing with flowers and grass outside, and then he cheats and lies to his wife.
The so-called, "Ten thousand flowers have passed, and the flowers are all in the body", a man who has no sense of heterosexual boundaries, who deceives women in everything and plays with his feelings, will eventually destroy himself.
Once a man makes a woman insecure, it will be difficult for a woman to trust the man, and she will naturally be suspicious and release some resentment.
At this time, it is actually the other members of the marriage who are really hurt, such as children, such as parents, such as husband and wife.
So, never cheat on a woman in a relationship, as long as you cheat on her once, although she may forgive you for loving you.
But in the days to come, no matter how beautiful you say it, she will remember, "You lied to me." ”
Third, be conscientious about the affairs of outsiders, and slowly take off the affairs of your own family.
There is such a type of man, outsiders have something to do and break their legs, and their family members don't see you when they have something. Do your best to the affairs of outsiders, and turn a blind eye to your own affairs or slowly take off.
This kind of typical machismo of a man always lives in his selfishness, and he only cares about what others say about him and what others say about him.
He doesn't know that if you don't even manage your own intimate and core relationships well, no matter how much praise you receive outside, you won't be recognized in the end.
When a woman needs your protection, you can't protect her, and when she needs your help, you leave the door, how can you let her live with you?
So, don't say that women are very strong, suspicious, and check your phone every day, you must know that any woman who chooses to be with a man, all they want is love.
A woman doesn't care if you're rich or poor, she only cares if you respond to her in everything. And you choose to ignore, you choose to be perfunctory, you can't give love, and you can't give responsibility, then you are completely unworthy of her continued nostalgia.
There is a saying, "If soft-heartedness has no bottom line, it is destined to be worthless, if kindness has no measure, it is destined to be scarred, in this world, the easiest to be let down is always soft-hearted and kind-hearted people, never forgive those intentional injuries, he uses actions and acting skills to tell that soft-heartedness is worthless." ”In a relationship, a woman is not afraid of seeing the wrong person, nor is she afraid of being let down, and the most hurtful thing about a woman is that they are obviously two people, but they live a single state.
This kind of man is hot and cold to you, and he is very good at acting outside, and he is very good at packaging himself as a good man in front of outsiders, and even makes others think that there is something wrong with the two of you, all because you are provocative, you are strong, and you are realistic.
No matter how much he did wrong, he never admitted it, never reflected, let alone repented. His only ability is to turn all the contradictions into your problems.
Mr. Yang Jiang said, "The person who can make you gentle must have given you the ultimate love, the person who can make you silent must have given you great harm, and the person who can make you irritable must have made you suffer a lot of grievances." ”In a relationship, you let her have no backer, no safe haven, no spiritual support, and no one to support her, she can only wear her armor and face the difficulties.
No matter how reasonable a woman is at the beginning, if she has been with this kind of person for a long time, she will be forced to become a resentful woman. When you encounter this kind of man, if you don't have enough means, then you must stay away.