Colleague hitchhikes back to his hometown, the service areaaaEating, I drove away and threw her at high speed.
Originally, I thought that driving home would be a novel and exciting journey, but my colleague Kobayashi made me feel a little dissatisfied. She offered to be with me, making me feel like she was taking advantage of me.
Although her statement of "not lonely all the way" sounds refreshing, in fact, she sat in the back seat as soon as she got in the car, which made me feel that she didn't really want to talk to me, just wanted to sit safer.
This made me uncomfortable and made me rethink the meaning of this trip.
We got on the highway in the city and after an hour of driving, we came to the service area. Considering that there were still six or seven hours to go, I suggested having some breakfast first.
Xiao Lin took out the bread he brought and said, "I've brought breakfast, you can eat it yourself." I was stunned, do you take my car and only bring your own breakfast? Still, I decided not to take it too seriously.
So, I invited Kobayashi to have something hot with us. Kobayashi gladly accepted and went with me to the service area for breakfast. After breakfast, Kobayashi didn't offer to pay the bill, so I took the initiative to buy the bill, and then we continued on our way.
Along the way, Kobayashi sat in the back row, either playing with his mobile phone, or playing **, or sleeping. Occasionally, she would say a couple of words to me. As long as I don't take the initiative to chat with her, she sits alone in the back row and swipes her phone.
Sometimes, she would even laugh at my driving skills, saying: "At first glance, you are a novice, you don't dare to overtake that broken car, if I drive, I can ride the dust with one foot on the accelerator." ”
Although I was angry, I held back and said, "You are an old driver, you come and drive for a while, let me take a break." However, Xiao Lin immediately waved his hand and refused, saying: "This is your new car, I don't dare to touch it, who is responsible if something happens?" ”
I thought to myself, since you are comfortable hitchhiking, why should you sit quietly in the back seat, why laugh at me, the driver who has worked so hard to drive?
After four hours of driving, it was past lunchtime, and my stomach was rumbling with hunger. At this time, Kobayashi made a suggestion that we have lunch in the service area.
I also responded promptly and drove the car into the service area. Kobayashi ordered a 45 yuan buffet. I thought she would pay for it, but to my surprise, she only paid her share.
I stupidly followed her out, but was stopped by the waiter and asked me to pay, and I realized that Xiaolin didn't pay for me! This really annoyed me, and I couldn't hold back my emotions for a while, so I pretended to joke and said, "I drove seven or eight hundred kilometers, I thought you would invite me to lunch, but I was stopped by the service, it was so embarrassing." ”
Xiao Lin was stunned for a moment and responded: "It's better for us to have an AA system." I continued to "joke": "So if you take my car home, at least you save the train ticket money, should our gas money and road and bridge tolls also be AA system?" ”
Xiao Lin still didn't change his mind, and responded: "That's different, you have to go home yourself anyway, I'm just hitchhiking, and it doesn't increase your cost." ”
I felt mixed feelings and was very dissatisfied, how could I meet such a different colleague who gave me a headache? His good intentions were treated as donkey liver and lungs!
The more I thought about it, the more angry I became, taking advantage of the gap between Xiao Lin going to the bathroom, I started the car, directly blocked him, and let him go home as much as he liked, anyway, I won't take care of this "guy" anymore!
It is estimated that Xiaolin can't find my car, so he can only mess up in the wind! Some people say that I am too stingy, not high-minded, and not authentic. However, when colleagues get along with each other, they must do good deeds and accumulate virtues, do good deeds thoroughly, and be good people must pay more, and there is no need to worry about colleagues.
People who do big things will inevitably be wronged, but they can't help this little thing, how can they be worthy of a heavy responsibility? Improving your own realm, respecting others is your cultivation, and whether others respect you or not is their quality.
Someone agrees with me"Horses are good at being ridden, and people are good at being bullied"Blindly giving and unilateral concessions will only be despised by others. Even the closest brothers have to settle accounts, let alone just colleagues?
For those colleagues who don't know how to be grateful and don't appreciate it, we don't need to talk about the pattern and generosity, and it may be a good thing to alienate them. We are all ordinary people, not saints, and no matter how many grievances we bear, we can't support the big pattern, so why let ourselves suffer?
If you were in a similar situation, what would you do? Feel free to share your thoughts.