Li Jia wants to divorce Wang Wei, there is no affair, no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but she just can't get by.
Some time ago, one day when Li Jia came home from the night shift, acute gastroenteritis suddenly attacked, vomiting and pulling, and vomiting in the bathroom.
Li Jia kept running back and forth to the toilet, being tossed enough, but her husband Wang Wei slept like thunder, and when Li Jia returned to bed, he still muttered impatiently: "What are you going to do all night?" Still don't let people sleep? ”
After she ran to the toilet seven times, Li Jia couldn't stay up, she woke up her sleeping husband Wang Wei: "Husband, my stomach hurts, I wanted to stay up until the morning and then go to the hospital, but now I feel that I can't stay up, you get up and drive me to the hospital!" ”
But her husband Wang Wei said impatiently: "You are tired of running around to go to the toilet all night!" There is medicine in the standing medicine box, you can just go and eat some by yourself, what hospital to go to! ”
Li Jia felt very aggrieved, but she could only reluctantly boil water, then go to the medicine box to find the medicine, and then with tears in her eyes, she took the medicine herself.
After taking the medicine, Li Jia lay on the bed, hoping that the medicine she took would work, but after taking the medicine, she still had unbearable abdominal pain, vomiting and diarrhea, and stayed up until three o'clock in the morning.
Li Jia was very broken, she cried and woke up her husband Wang Wei: "Husband, my legs are weak and trembling, if I pull it down again, I will die, you can take me to the hospital to see!" Please. ”
Her husband Wang Wei didn't care about her, but blamed her: "Li Jia, in the middle of the night, you have the energy to toss me, it's better to call 120 first aid yourself**, I'm tired from work all day, and you still bother me at night!" I'm going to work tomorrow! ”
Li Jia heard Wang Wei's impatient tone, her tears couldn't stop flowing down, she picked up her mobile phone, called 120 by herself, and when she spoke, her voice was crying.
Her husband Wang Wei turned over impatiently, covered his head with the quilt in disgust, and continued to sleep.
Li Jia took out her bag and packed some items to use to go to the hospital, such as cups, tissues, chargers, etc.
120 arrived soon, Li Jia hunched her waist, covered her stomach, insisted on walking downstairs by herself, got into the ambulance, and her heart was sad.
Li Jia asked for leave from the company, she was infusion in the hospital for three days, and when she came home again, her husband Wang Wei was lying on the sofa playing with his mobile phone, and when he saw her come back, he didn't lift his eyelids.
Li Jia's heart was cold, and she immediately filed for divorce with Wang Wei: "Wang Wei, let's divorce!" ”
Wang Wei finally moved his attention from the phone to her, but he just glanced at it, and was busy playing games again, and a sentence came out of his mouth: "Li Jia, what kind of crazy are you smoking?" ”
Li Jia watched Wang Wei sit up from the sofa, his eyes staring at his phone, and kept shouting: "Let's go together!" What do you run? You coward, hit him, hit him, put skills! ”
Li Jia was completely disappointed, she went directly to the bedroom, took out the box, and packed up her and the child's clothes.
Just when Li Jia pulled the box out of the bedroom, Wang Wei finally put down the phone and walked in front of her, seeing Li Jia's serious face, Wang Wei reached out to pull Li Jia's box, he said: "Li Jia, can you stop making trouble?" Running away from home without moving, are you going to do it? ”
Li Jia waved away Wang Wei's hand that reached out to take the box and bypassed him: "As for." ”
In addition, she paused and said, "When I say divorce, I mean it." After opening the door and walking out, she thought about it, and when she went to school to pick up the child, she would go back to her parents' house first.
After telling the child a bedtime story at night and successfully putting the child to sleep, Li Jia had time to think about her husband Wang Wei, who had neglected herself over the years after marriage, and couldn't help but post a circle of friends:
I really don't know what I got married for, and finally found a reason for myself to give up, and from now on, I won't bother you anymore, and I'll give myself my freedom. ”
Li Jia fell asleep with peace of mind, and when she woke up the next morning, she saw 20 missed ** calls from her husband Wang Wei and a long list of WeChat messages on her mobile phone.
Wang Wei said in WeChat: "Wife, I'm sorry, I apologize to you, I thought you just ate something and pulled your stomach, but I didn't expect it to be so serious!" It's just one thing. ”
Wife, just for such a trivial matter, you have to divorce with great fanfare, and it is too impulsive. ”
Wife, I apologized to you, what else are you going to do? **Don't answer, don't reply to WeChat, don't make trouble. ”
Li Jia, are you finished? I'm so low-profile, you still ignore me, and take such a trivial matter as an arrow, right? The toss of the upper platform, my patience is limited. If I do divorce you, don't regret it. ”
When Li Jia saw the message sent by Wang Wei, her heart was very calm, and her emotions did not fluctuate, but she replied to Wang Wei's message very calmly: "Don't worry Wang Wei, I won't regret it, in fact, I wanted to divorce a long time ago." ”
After sending the message, Li Jia sat on the bed in a daze, thinking about the bits and pieces of her marriage over the years.
In my memory, since I got married, my husband Wang Wei doesn't seem to have figured out what "marriage" means?
Li Jia and Wang Wei have been married for 8 years, and over the years, things have happened many times:
When Wang Wei needs to go out to socialize, he never says hello to her, Li Jia is worried that he won't come home in the middle of the night, call him, or he will pick up ** in a noisy bar, or he will say impatiently: "I'm talking about things outside!" Are you annoyed? "And then it hung up**.
Sometimes when he comes home drunk and vomits all over the house, Li Jia has to take care of him, help him clean up, and take care of the children.
Sometimes when she gets drunk, she calls her and asks her to leave the child alone at home in the middle of the night to pick him up.
When he first bought the house, Wang Wei went home and said to Li Jia: "Wife, how much money do you have there?" Take it out! It's time for us to buy a house. ”
Li Jia happily gave the card to Wang Wei, thinking that Wang Wei would take her to see the house the next day, but Wang Wei went directly to buy the house he liked, and the house book was also written in his own name, without discussing with Li Jia, and Li Jia's name was not on the house book.
Later, Li Jia asked, Wang Wei said, "What are you going to do when you look at the house?" You don't understand, and it's useless to go. ”
Li Jia said: "You take my money to buy a house, and your name is written in the house book, what does it mean?" ”
Wang Wei said impatiently: "You see you are here again, the two of us are two, is it so important whose name is written?" I have so much to say about yours! ”
Li Jia said angrily: "Then why don't you write my name?" ”
Wang Wei said: "You are not there, how can you write your name?" ”
Li Jia was almost angry with Wang Wei's logic: "You secretly went to buy a house by yourself, and you didn't let me know, didn't you just don't want to write my name?" This matter must be clarified, and my name must be added to the house book, otherwise this matter will not be over! ”
Wang Wei saw Li Jia's tough attitude, and finally added Li Jia's name to the house book.
Li Jia didn't want to care, she thought that she finally had her own home, she wanted to decorate the house in a simple European style, she wanted to put a rattan swing on the balcony, she and the child could sit and play together, she also had to make a small place on the balcony, make a shelf, and put the succulents she raised ......
But decorating the house, Wang Wei still didn't ask Li Jia's opinion, and completely decorated according to his own ideas, Wang Wei asked Li Jia to leave it alone, he knew how to get it, and he had friends who were professional.
Wang Wei told Li Jia that the house was renovated, and Li Jia went to the new house to see that the house was completely different from what she imagined.
There are several layers of partitions in the shoe cabinet at the door, obviously unable to fit her boots of different lengths, a desk is installed on one end of the balcony, on which is placed Wang Wei's computer for playing games, and at the other end is a cabinet with a mop and broom, in short, there is no place to put swings and her succulents in that home.
It is false to say that I am not disappointed, but the house is all renovated, and I can only live there, and it is impossible to make trouble because of these small things.
Wang Wei bought a car in the same way, he didn't have enough money, so he opened his mouth to Li Jia, Li Jia thought he would buy a scooter, thinking that even if he didn't discuss with him, she didn't have much opinion, so she gave the money to Wang Wei.
What Li Jia didn't expect was that Wang Wei took the money, ran to the 4S store, made a down payment, and took out a loan to buy a Daben.
Li Jia asked: "Wang Wei, you just buy a scooter, why buy Daben?" ”
Wang Wei said: "What's wrong with me buying Daben? I'm a man, and if I drive a better car, I will have more face. ”
Li Jia didn't want to argue with Wang Wei, so she didn't speak out again, but she was disappointed in Wang Wei again.
When Li Jia does housework every day, Wang Wei asks his friends to play games together, and never takes a hand, when Li Jia complains, Wang Wei said confidently: "It's always been the male lead, the female lead, I'm a big man, you want me to do housework, no way." ”
The couple quarreled many times about this, and several times she was so angry that she ran away from home, her husband Wang Wei never apologized to her, and every time she sent some children crying, it was because she was reluctant to give up the child, and when she saw the child crying, every time she compromised and went back by herself.
After having a child, Li Jia thought that her husband Wang Wei would become more mature, even if he didn't care about her, he would help take care of the baby to some extent.
But after the child was born, her husband Wang Wei still took charge of the shopkeeper in front of him, and almost never cared about the affairs of the family, buying vegetables, laundry, cooking, and taking the children to and from school, all of which Li Jia did alone.
One day, Li Jia picked up the child from school, on the way home, the electric car ran out of power, it happened to be raining heavily, Li Jia hugged the child, ran to the door of a cake shop next to the road to hide, she took her mobile phone to call Wang Wei: "Husband, it's raining so hard outside, my battery car is out of power, we are at the door of the cake shop, you drive to pick us up." Wang Wei yelled at her angrily: "Li Jia, why are you so madha?" How many times have I told you? Remember to charge, remember to charge, are you a pig brain? ”
Li Jia was stunned by the scolding: "Wang Wei, you just said that you can't pick it up, right?" ”
Wang Wei immediately said: "I'm not going, I'm working overtime, you can figure it out yourself!" ”
Li Jia had no choice but to lock the little electric donkey, use the software to take a taxi, and then take the child home.
But when Li Jia arrived home and just opened the door, she saw her husband Wang Wei ordering takeout on the Internet, and he was eating deliciously.
At that moment, her heart was going to be so cold.
Rabindranath Tagore once said:
It is not the mountains in the distance that make people feel tired, but a grain of sand in their shoes.
For Li Jia, all these years are like sand in shoes, every time I think of it, it makes people panic.
Some people always think that their partner files for divorce because they are angry when they are emotional.
As everyone knows, before this, the other party is likely to have had the idea of parting ways more than once.
As Yishu said:
Anyone leaving you is not a sudden decision.
Write at the end:
People's hearts are slowly becoming colder, the leaves are gradually turning yellow, the story is slowly written to the end, and love becomes not love because of too many disappointments. ”
What crushes a marriage will never be a straw, but the disappointment that has been accumulated over the years.
Some people always subconsciously ignore small things, thinking that as long as they don't make mistakes of principle, they won't go to the step of divorce.
In fact, the more trivial it is, the more it tests people's hearts. Good feelings and love are soaked in the details.