It's time for adults to be more and more scared of the New Year! Haha, it's a bit contradictory to say it.
You must know that when I was a child, I really looked forward to the stars and the existence of the moon for the New Year.
Because, when it comes to the Chinese New Year, there are new clothes to wear, and there are things that are usually reluctant to eat, like very much, but usually can't eat, will appear at home and on the table at this time.
But as time goes on, we look forward to growing up, but we are more and more afraid.
In the year of adulthood, you have to face too many people and sophistication, and you become anxious in the face of the elders on both sides, relatives and friends, the New Year's goods at home, and who you are going to to celebrate the New Year.
Who's house to go to, who are they, what gifts to give, and how to arrange them, these are all things that make people feel that they originally wanted to have a happy New Year, but they still have a headache.
This is also the fact that now, more and more people, in the face of the Chinese New Year, this should be a happy moment, become anxious, and even worse, more and more afraid of the New Year.
Many people, after the New Year, that is, they spend their usual income for a few months, and even after, their wallets are empty, and sometimes they really can't feel the meaning of the New Year.
Last night, with my mother**, our mother's thoughts are similar, this year's New Year, quietly accompany the family, walk between relatives, and exchange gifts.
1. This year's New Year's goods, no longer hoarding New Year's goods, last year, I bought a lot of seafood and the like, but when I went back, I also had it at home, which was a little more expensive and very fresh.
The one we brought back, although it was cheaper, but it took two days to go back, which was a bit of a loss, and in the end it was wasted.
Now it's not like the previous era, now the transportation is faster and more convenient, the New Year's Day, the supermarket is at work, what do you want to eat, go buy fresh, eat as much as you want, and don't waste it.
2. New clothes for the New Year, in the past, during the New Year, I would also feel that when I went home for the New Year, I naturally had to bring two or three new clothes.
This year, I didn't buy new clothes, I think, it's good to have clothes, they were all just bought last year, and it was cold at home for a few days when I went back for the New Year, and when I arrived in Shenzhen, I couldn't wear them at all.
When I went home last year, I brought two pieces, one of which I just bought, and this year I wore one set for myself and one set at home, and I can change it.
Now, you are usually shopping for clothes, so you can just treat it with a normal heart during the New Year, and there is no need to make others envious or prove to anyone how good you are.
It's important to show face to others, but the real lining is your own, and the lining is good.
Mainly, it's cold at home for a few days, like the one I bought last year, and I went home for a few days to wear it for the New Year, and I kept it when I came over, and I couldn't wear it at all.
3. Last night, my brother told me how many things I have, I looked at it, and it seems that except for a little scattered one, a small box was loaded, and nothing else.
Last year, I had a big bag and a small bag, but this year I directly bought what I needed, directly filled in the address at home, and went directly to the home, saving a lot.
Originally, there were a lot of things, it seems that another year, there is not much or anything, I think light travel is the best.
I don't want to go home, I make myself very tired, and it takes physical strength and money, what do you want.
4. Now, there are a lot of things at home, what do you want to eat and buy some directly, I don't want to hoard too many things, there was a year before, I was afraid that things would be expensive during the New Year, and I bought them back, and finally some of them were broken.
Then again, just a few days after the New Year, it's not as expensive as **, it's a little more expensive than usual, mainly because of the current standard of living, and the usual food is almost the same as during the New Year, so it's really unnecessary, how good it is to eat fresh.
5. The Chinese New Year, a family, a busy year, get together to talk about their harvest this year, how to do better in the new year, instead of just caring about eating and drinking (of course, there are business dealings).
Now, unlike in previous years, many things can only be eaten during the New Year, and we usually eat them, so during the New Year, we treat it as usual, and we won't be too tired.
6. Many people are afraid of the New Year, one is: as soon as the New Year arrives, they will be asked how much they have earned this year, marriage problems, child problems and other distressing questions.
Another is that when they are all together, there will be all kinds of comparisons, who has bought a car, bought a house, etc., if you have to deal with these comparisons, then you will definitely have a swollen face and a fat man this year, and you will have empty pockets after the New Year.
Sometimes you don't have to be too honest, what does it matter how much, most people have this mentality, they want you to be good, but they don't want you to be better than them.
On the surface, he said that you were excellent and powerful, but in fact, he didn't know how to sour you.
You can say that you are worse than them, and the face is not very good, but our own life, the inside is important.
7. I feel that during the New Year, I am tired of visiting relatives and people, and the host's family is also very tired, and I feel like I am cooking from morning to night.
A friend of mine, she said that when she went home for the New Year, it was a big family, relatives and friends, and they had dinner together, and everyone would get together, all year round, just this will be a big family, bless each other, get together, and say hello to each other!
Later, everyone can do whatever they should do when they return home, saving a lot of heavy chores of cooking everywhere every day.
I think it's very good, for the New Year, it's really not only about eating and drinking, red envelopes, and gifts, but more importantly, take a good rest at home, don't get it, for the New Year, I originally wanted to have a good rest, but I was more tired than I usually went to work, and it was really unnecessary.
8. For giving red envelopes and visiting relatives, it is good to exchange gifts! Before relatives and friends, what you did to me, then I will do to you! People are all mutual, and sometimes there is no need to save face.
If you look down on me, I naturally won't catch up, to be honest, in those days, when it was difficult, I didn't catch up, and now, it's not like I don't have food or drink at home.
Etiquette is still exchanged, I just feel comfortable, I don't want to go to the so-called face, say different words!
9. With age, with experience, for the New Year, I just want to accompany my family, especially like us, who usually work outside, and in the few days when we go back for the New Year, I really don't want to be for those few faces, let alone eating and drinking, I just want to accompany my family.
Chat with your family, a year, just stay at home for a few days during the New Year, time is really precious, to a certain age, more and more feel that home is your real harbor, family is the most concerned about you.
When you are together as a family, make a family plan, set a New Year's goal, and look forward to a better life, it is really what the New Year looks like.
10. No longer for the New Year, for the sake of that face, to consume myself, I suddenly feel that I am looking forward to going home for the New Year!
I can spend time with my mom and see what else she needs and what else I can do for the family.
Many people think of the years of the epidemic, although they couldn't go out, they couldn't go to the New Year, but they had more time to spend with their families.
Of course, it doesn't mean that you won't go to relatives during the New Year, relatives and friends, of course, you have to move around, just exchange gifts!
To say something that shouldn't be said, there are relatives and friends, there are also relatives and relatives, so important people naturally have to move around, as for those who don't usually come and go, it's good to exchange gifts during the New Year.
Really, sometimes, as long as you treat the New Year with a normal heart, you will be much more relaxed, and there will be a lot less trouble and trouble.
As for who you want to go back to for the New Year, discuss it in advance, go back to this house this year, go back to that home next year, don't be happy because of the New Year, because of whose house you go back to, in the end, if you are unhappy, then you really don't look forward to this New Year!
In short, the New Year, to be happy, happy, farewell to the old and welcome the new, the whole family is harmonious, is the most important!
Wrap up the past year and welcome a new beginning!