The things that young people often do, such as eating takeout, staying up late until dawn, playing games all night, drinking some wine when they have nothing to do, getting a tattoo or something, are all their daily standards. In their view, youth means infinite vitality, body building, and youth can be swayed at will. However, there is a story of an e-sports coach named "Fei Fei", which is a wake-up call for everyone: squandering your health will only end up pitting yourself.
Sadly, Coach Fei Fei died of kidney cancer at the age of 28, and she was diagnosed with this disease when she was not yet 25 years old, at the most brilliant age of her life. This cruel fact is enough to make us deeply reflect and be vigilant.
This news was a bolt from the blue for her, instantly shattering all her dreams, and no matter how high the esports salary was, it could not get back the lost health. What's even more worrying is that her illness has also dragged down her elderly parents, and in order to treat her, the old couple had to give up everything and sell all the valuable things in it.
In retrospect, all of this was a tragedy that could have been avoided. If Fei Fei had been a little restrained at that time and paid more attention to her physical condition, maybe this human tragedy would not have been staged. But life is so cruel, there is no regret medicine to take, and Fei Fei's death has brought boundless pain to the second elder. They can only watch their young and lively daughter's life gradually fade away, and this heart-wrenching experience is a heavy blow that not everyone can bear.
Fei Fei, like many aspiring young people, is a dream chaser who dares to break through and fight. For the fiery dream in her heart, she bravely went to the imperial capital Beijing alone and devoted herself to the e-sports industry as a coach. This courage and perseverance really deserve a thumbs up, especially for a woman, it is quite difficult to work hard and gain a firm foothold in the fierce competition in Beijing. Not to mention that she chose the esports industry, which was still in its infancy and full of challenges at the time.
However, Fei Fei was stunned to rely on her own strength to get this road through. As a professional coach in League of Legends, her job is not covered, and her daily schedule is full, which is much harder than those ordinary teachers. Her ability is beyond doubt, a proper woman who does not let the head of the e-sports coach with eyebrows.
Her schedule is always full, with little time to rest, and working more than ten hours a day seems to be commonplace, and even working overnight is not uncommon.
However, Fei Fei is full of love for the industry she is in. Watching the players she trained stand on the playing field, a sense of pride wells up in her heart, which fills her with a sense of satisfaction in her work.
Although human energy is limited, long-term high-intensity work will inevitably take a toll on the body. Fifi knew she needed to live a healthier life, however, she chose an extreme way to indulge herself and ignore her body's health needs.
Maybe she mistakenly thought it was relaxation, but in fact she was joking with the safety of her own life. She often hangs out with her club colleagues and gets drunk until she gets drunk, as if that's the only way to get a sense of accomplishment.
This lifestyle has continued throughout Fei Fei's coaching career, however, there will be times when the body can't bear it. Finally, under the warning of lower back pain, Fei Fei began to reflect on her lifestyle.
At first, she thought that the discomfort in her lower back might simply be due to excessive drinking. She didn't pay much attention to it, just reduced the frequency of her drinking. After all, she was young and thought that her body could easily withstand all minor illnesses and pains.
Until an accident caused a fracture, Fei Fei was forced to undergo a full medical examination. The result shocked her, it turned out that the pain in her lower back was not due to alcoholism, but to cancer!
For Fei Fei, it was like a bolt from the blue. She carefully reviewed her usual life status, and her heart suddenly cooled. This physical warning made her realize that indulging in her lifestyle would eventually come at a heavy cost.
Faye realizes that her past life was too indulgent, which may have been the root cause of her cancer. She is used to not drinking water, often holding urine, and her love of alcohol, which may have taken a toll on her kidneys.
Long-term holding of urine leads to the inability of the kidneys to metabolize effectively, and harmful substances remain in the body, which will eventually affect kidney function. Fei Fei knows this, but she always holds the illusion of youth, thinking that her body can carry it, but she does not realize that she is on the verge of death.
In addition, Fei Fei's job requires staying up late a lot, especially in the esports industry, which has almost become the norm. Post-match analysis, version updates, training summaries, and other matters need to be mastered by esports coaches at the first time, which is not a simple task.
Staying up late for a long time increases the load on human organs, and although some people think that going to bed at 4 a.m. and waking up at 12 a.m. is not a late night, this has proven to be a wrong concept. The human body has long adapted to the rhythm of working during the day and resting at night, and forcibly reversing this rhythm will bring irreversible damage to the body.
Evening is a time when the body's organs rest and need to flush out the toxins accumulated throughout the day. Therefore, for most people, the harm of staying up late far outweighs the benefits.
Here, I also appeal to young friends not to feel that they are squandering their bodies at a young age. Develop good routines, because the body is the cornerstone of our development.
In this age of information, we have witnessed too many tragedies caused by staying up late. Every year, there are cases of staying up late and dying, and Fei Fei is one of the victims. These incidents are all lessons of blood, and we should cherish our health and not take it lightly.
The issue of takeaway also needs to be taken seriously. Fei Fei often relied on takeout for convenience, but this habit caused her physical condition to deteriorate. Most takeaways contain a lot of fat and salt, and the quality of the raw materials used varies. Especially for white-collar workers, they are the main consumer group of takeaways. Although you may not have time to cook at noon, you should choose to cook your own meals at least for breakfast and dinner. This will at least ensure the hygiene and health of the food.
These three points are the main reasons why Fei Fei concludes that she has kidney cancer. She used her own experience to warn us that we must live a healthy life. However, there is another crucial point: Fei Fei was so confident that she did not seek medical attention even after the onset of the disease. This notion is not uncommon. When we notice that we are unwell, we should seek medical attention in time. It's better to have a false alarm than to regret it when it's serious.
Opinions on tattoos are divided. Some people believe that people like Fei Fei, who have tattoos all over their bodies, may be a sign of inappropriate private life, and that tattoos can also cause health problems. However, this view is not correct. We should abandon such tinted glasses, and we should not judge a person's character by tattoos. Fifi's example shows us that tattoos have nothing to do with morality.
After battling cancer for more than three years, Fei Fei finally passed away on February 20 at the age of 28. Perhaps for her, it was a relief. The long chemotherapy left her unrecognizable, and she couldn't even bear to look directly at the mirror. Strands of hair fell out, and there was nothing that could be done. However, for her parents, it was an unspeakable pain. Not only did they witness the tragedy of sending white hair to black hair, but they also got into a difficult situation in life because of the huge expenses of **.
After learning the news of the cancer, Fei Fei did not choose**. The cancer had spread to all corners of her body, from her chest to her kidneys to her bladder and throat, making it almost incurable. Every month, she had to have her blood drawn in the hospital and receive anti-cancer injections** every 21 days, each worth 360,000 yuan, plus about 20,000 yuan per month for medicine. These expenses do not include other potential expenses, which will cost at least nearly $70,000 per month.
Even in Beijing, no matter how much money Fei Fei makes, she can't support her to continue. However, her parents insisted on paying for her, even if the family was bankrupt. This is the endless love of parents for their children, and it is also an unspeakable sacrifice.
The family, who had a fairly prosperous life, gradually fell into trouble because of Fei Fei's illness. They had to endure the pain and sell their house, and the whole family's thoughts and savings were all tied to Fei Fei's treatment. Fei Fei's parents' physical condition is also getting worse day by day, especially her father, while taking care of his seriously ill daughter, he is also getting haggard day by day, his weight has dropped directly to 90 pounds, and he is also sick. Although they knew in their hearts that these efforts might only prolong Fei Fei's lifeline, not her illness, they still gritted their teeth and risked everything to fight for every chance for their daughter to live.
In this long and arduous process, Fei Fei's father even chose to put his ** on hold and invested all the money in his daughter's medical expenses. This choice is not born from the blind expectation of a miracle, but from the selfless and fearless adherence to family affection. In the eyes of others, you may think that some of Fei Fei's behaviors are just insignificant little habits, but they don't know that it is these seemingly ordinary little things that make the whole family pay a heavy price in their lives.
Through stories like these, we can't help but reflect deeply on how important it is to maintain good lifestyle habits for personal health. We need to learn from this experience, truly realize the preciousness of life, and actively cultivate healthy habits. At the same time, this is also a wake-up call to those who suffer from bad habits like Fei Fei, reminding everyone to take caution and not let bad habits become healthy killers.
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