The new generation of parents, especially the young people born in the 90s and 00s, have different life concepts and values from the parents of previous generations. They are confrontingMarriageWhen it comes to fertility, there is a big difference from the previous concept. And this kind of transformation has led to the fact that they have become post-90s and post-00s generations of births and extinctionsWitnesses
In the past few generations, parents have generally hoped that their children will be able to start a family, get married, have children, and carry on the family lineage. Post-40s, post-50s, post-60sPost-70s's parents have such expectations. However, over time, this traditional notion has gradually been overcomePost-70sand the post-80s, while the post-90s and post-00s generations are more obviously rightMarriageand resistance to childbirth. For their parents, why are their children reluctant to marry and have children, or even refuse to marry and have children? The answer to this question needs to be analyzed in combination with multiple aspects such as environment, perception, and current situation. In short, no matter how it is analyzed, there is only one final result - the parents of this generation will witness the birth of the post-90s and post-00s.
Contrary to the previous perception, more and more young people are now highly educated and have stable jobs, but they are not willing to get married and have children. They are in personal development and choiceMarriageI made a difficult choice between childbirth and chose to take the initiative to break the generation. Most of these people are middle-class people who have experienced vicissitudes and do not want to let suffering be passed on from generation to generation, so they have chosen to cut off their roots and become the last generation.
Famous forPeoplePu ShuwithLi JianFor example, they all chose not to have children. In the interview,Pu Shurevealed that he felt that life was full of hardships, and a child needed to go through a lot of hardships to grow up, and he couldn't bear to let the child bear it. WhileLi JianIt means nowSocialThere are many problems, and he does not want his children to repeat the hardships he has experienced as soon as they are born. These twoArtistIn fact, it represents the voice of many middle-class people who are not married and have children. They had experienced hardships, and after careful consideration, they finally chose to give up the opportunity to continue their bloodline.
People who are forced to break their generations are more common than those who actively break their generations. They also want to find a partner, get married, and have children, but they can't do it, they can't qualify for that. A typical example is a young man born after 95 who has 211 bachelor's and master's degrees, works in Guangzhou, and has a monthly salary of about 10,000 yuan. Even though he was already a relatively good talent, he didn'tIn love, the willingness to marry and have children. He explained to me that he was fromRural, inBig citiesThere is neither an asset nor a house. Today's ** is not good, he is worried that he may lose his job in a few years, so he thinks he is not qualified to do these things. In addition, even if he finds a suitable partner, he cannot afford the huge expenses required to get married and have children. He even said that if he can't even feed himself, how can he feed his offspring? Therefore, he gave up his desire to have children.
Young people with such high education and stable incomes are working in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and ShenzhenBig citiesMedium is not uncommon. Their genetic qualities are actually very good, but they refuse to have offspring.
Why is it relatively easy for parents to get married and have children in the past, but it is more difficult for the post-90s and post-00s?
First of all, times have changed. After 60 andPost-70sIn the era, everyone's living standard was relatively low, and there was not much pressure and demand. Therefore, they are for:MarriageThere are not too high conditions and expectations for childbearing. And the era of the post-90s and post-00s,SocialWith rapid development, the gap between individuals and families is more pronounced than ever. Due toSocialThere is a huge gap that people have to raiseMarriageFertility conditions in order to have a better quality of life. From the conditions of hundreds of thousands of yuan to the conditions of millions of yuan or even higherMarriageChildbearing becomes difficult with the improvement of conditions.
Secondly, rightMarriageThe demand for childbearing is constantly increasing. The selection of the opposite sex is now more demanding, and many people will not chooseRuralFamily mate, becauseRuralThe parents of the family do not have pensions, and the problems of bride price and gender conflicts have become more serious. As a result of these problems, the conditions for marriage and having children are increasing day by day, which discourages many young people.
Finally, job and income instability is also a problem. In this era of frequent layoffs, who can guarantee that they will not be unemployed for the rest of their lives and earn more than 10,000 yuan a month for a lifetime? Due to job and income instability, many young people worry that they will not be able to provide stability for their familiesEconomycondition, so choose to give upMarriageProcreate.
The combination of these various problems has led to the choice of the post-90s and post-00sMarriageThere is a huge dilemma when it comes to childbearing. It's not that they don't want to get married and have children, but they have to give up these opportunities.
To solve the mystery of why the post-90s and post-00s are reluctant to get married and have children, we need to consider the overall environment, concepts and the current situation of the individual. In my view, their choice was not the result of tragedy, but a choice of desperation against the limitations of history.
Any creature wants to perpetuate its genes, but why did the post-90s and post-00s choose to go against their biological instincts and choose to become extinct? In fact, this is an unavoidable choice of history, whether it is those who take the initiative to break the dynasty or those who are forced to break the generation, they have to give upMarriageFertility opportunities.
Finally, as:Witnesseswill witness the birth of the post-90s and post-00s. The dilemma faced by this generation of parents is not only the voluntary severance brought about by the change of concept, but also the partSocialForced by the environment and the status quo of the individual, he was forced to break the generation. In either case, they will become post-90s and post-00sWitnesses