Learn more and find less faults, and stay away from bar spirits .

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-27

When the sergeant heard the word, he acted diligently; When the sergeant heard this, if he survived, he died; When the corporal heard this, he laughed.

The article the day before yesterday was written "Wang Yangming, he is really a person who has obtained the "Dao", which says that from the "unity of knowledge and action" proposed by Wang Yangming, it can be seen that he is a person who understands the "Dao".

Maybe the subject matter is better, the platform pushed me to the stream, and after the base is large, there are new friends who leave me a message, but this message is to "find fault":

Let's not talk about Wang Yangming's Yangming mind to learn to bless future generations, let's just say that in the world, he dared to go against the traitorous eunuch Liu Jin is doing a good deed, and he has repeatedly quelled the rebellion in a short period of time and efficiently, which greatly reduced the suffering of the common people.

Of course, the friend who left this message is not an exception, now the society is so impetuous, many people are dissatisfied and will naturally be scared and scared, but in this way, in addition to catharsis, there is no benefit to themselves.

I think back to when I was young and vigorous in my early 20s, I was also an "angry youth", I often drilled the horns, and I thought I was a high-spirited and enthusiastic young man, and I would pick and refute when I saw something that did not meet my own views or values, and sometimes I was emotional, no matter whether it was right or wrong, just win or lose!

But slowly I found that this is not good for my growth at all, because I can't look at others objectively, and I can't find that "there must be my teacher in a threesome".

So later, I forced myself to look at the strengths of others first, try to ignore the shortcomings of others in my eyes, and unless it is necessary to "find faults", there is no need to deliberately "find faults".

Although there is still an occasional subconscious of "finding faults", it is much better than before, and now I will patiently listen to other people's opinions before thinking about whether to answer and how to answer!

Everyone is a product of the times, Lao Tzu, Confucius, Su Dongpo, Wang Yangming are, they must all have shortcomings and shortcomings, but if we hold on to the shortcomings, then their wisdom cannot become a beacon that illuminates the direction of our progress.

See the virtuous and think together, see the unvirtuous and introspect! When we see the good things about others, we learn from them; If you feel that others have done something wrong, then reflect on whether you have done it yourself.

In short, learn more and find fault less, so that we can grow rapidly!

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