When discussing whether a woman is happily married in a chat, many people think that there are only two important points to focus on: family finances and marital quarrels.
Although this may seem like a realistic statement, it has a deeper emotional meaning.
Is the money for the house in your hands?
First of all, is the money for the house in your hands?
In real life, the economy is one of the goals pursued by many women.
Whether it is for personal use or daily household expenses, it is generally the wife who handles it.
Therefore, whether from the point of view of self-esteem, convenience, or balance of power, managing family finances is very important for women, especially for some housewives.
My neighbor Xiao Ming is a housewife.
Her financial power is in the hands of her husband, and the only thing she can rely on is the pocket money he gives her every month.
Xiao Ming often feels depressed and dangerous deep down.
Whenever you need money, you should get your husband's permission first.
If you buy yourself something a little expensive, you will think twice and hesitate.
She is also full of helplessness and anxiety about her life.
She would love to have her own financial ** so that she doesn't feel inferior to others.
In life, whether the wife controls the financial power of the family also means whether the husband fully trusts you and is willing to entrust you with all his rights and wealth.
This is not only a reflection of economic equality, but also a reflection of the trust and dependence between husband and wife.
Can you win a fight with your husband?
And one more thing: can you win when you and your husband quarrel?
Congratulations, because when you quarrel with your husband, usually you win. You're happy.
Winning an argument isn't about being a good speaker or gaining the upper hand in an argument.
It's not so much that you won, it's that he deliberately let you win. He wants you to rejoice in your victory and forget about the bad things.
If you blush every time you fight and never give in.
In other words, your husband doesn't love you as much as you think.
Couples with good relationships rarely quarrel, and even if they do, it's just a small quarrel.
Why is that, there is no contradiction between them?
Actually, no, because no matter how good the relationship is, two people have different opposing views.
That's because they love each other and have enough tolerance and understanding for each other.
They don't care who is right and who is wrong, and are willing to accept each other's mistakes for the sake of their lovers.
Because they value each other's happiness and satisfaction more.
However, money or the outcome of a quarrel does not determine whether the marriage is happy or not.
But there is some truth to these two points.
Whether a marriage is happy or not depends on whether there is a deep spiritual foundation between the husband and wife.
Through timely communication, effective expression, mutual support and understanding, truly achieve marital happiness.
It is only with the power of love and compassion that we can overcome all aspects of life together and build a marriage paradise full of happiness and love.