Caigen Tan said: If you have a cold eye in the excitement, you will save a lot of hard work. Many of us are taught in school to be courteous. I believe that if the dog bites you, do you still bite back?And the real truth tells you is that the more you retreat and the weaker you are, the more others will treat you as a soft persimmon. Therefore, people who are too tolerant and don't want to offend others will be worse for others. Because any dirty work can be handed over to you as a soft persimmon to do, in the eyes of the boss, you are only labeled as an honest person. Honest people are not a good word in the workplace.
The workplace is a small society, living with all kinds of people, if you can't abide by your own principles, can't be selfish for your own sake, then you can only often suffer losses and not be promoted.
Why is it said that the more selfish people are, the better they mix?Because selfishness allows them to pay more attention to their own needs and truly understand themselves than to take care of other people's emotions. When they focus on themselves, they grow faster and achieve results. In the workplace, there are always some people who, in order not to offend their colleagues, are good people and don't know how to refuse. But, gradually, you will find that the more you give, the cheaper and less important your efforts become. In the end, it may even evolve into the point where others provide a little help, and your colleagues will be grateful to Dade, and instead of helping, you will become a bad person. Therefore, learn to be "selfish", the most important thing in life is yourself, and living for yourself is the most important.