In the past, her sentence "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" shook the whole society's view of money and love.
And Mano's life has embarked on a completely different trajectory because of this.
Until many years later, the rumors about her are still the sweets that people talk about in private, but what is the truth?
14 years have passed, how is she doing when she was recently exposed to "cheating marriage" millions?
In an inconspicuous corner of Beijing, in 1988, a girl named Ma Nuo was born into a poor family.
Her parents were not highly educated, and the hardships of life kept them at the bottom of society.
In order to make ends meet, selling fruit became the main income of the family**, and Mano grew up in this environment.
Compared to his contemporaries, Mano's childhood was not easy.
While the other little girls were able to wear beautiful dresses and long flowing hair, she had to cut her hair short and wore worn old clothes.
Despite his yearning for a better life, Mano never showed any dissatisfaction in front of his parents.
Growing up in such an environment taught her tenacity and independence prematurely.
She understands that only through learning can she break the status quo and give her parents a worry-free future.
However, the hustle and bustle of the home and the heavy chores often distracted her and made it difficult for her to focus on her studies.
Even so, she was still unwilling in her heart, until the school's ** teacher found out about her predicament.
The teacher learned that Ma Nuo was about to give up her studies to work part-time, so he patiently persuaded her and suggested that she try the path of art school.
These words inspired Mano's deep love for **.
However, the family's poverty made it impossible for her to afford the additional training costs, and the teacher generously provided her with free training opportunities when she found out.
This turning point made Ma Nuo finally admitted to Beijing Modern ** College, a place that has cultivated famous artists such as Li Weijia, Jiang Yingrong, and Xianzi.
With the dream of **, Mano left his parents with a simple bag and embarked on a journey of pursuing knowledge alone.
In her heart, there is a firm vow: to make her parents live a better life through her own efforts.
However, university life is not as easy as it seems.
The stress of the cost of living almost took her breath away, and her savings quickly dwindled.
While other students can turn to their families for help, Mano is left to his own devices.
Thankfully, her physical appearance gave her another way to make money: working as a print model and shooting commercials.
These part-time jobs not only subsidized her living expenses, but also gave her the desire to seek care after her busy studies and work.
Mano longs to be cared for, and she wants someone to listen to her tell her about the details of her life.
Due to the lack of parental love in his childhood, Mano had a strong desire for love.
Against this background, a mature and warm man appeared in her life.
He quickly wins Mano's heart, but soon after, Mano discovers that the man is actually a typical "soft rice man".
He relied on Mano to support his family, which eventually led to the breakdown of their relationship.
This painful first love experience made Mano realize the importance of financial independence.
She sees personal financial security as an important factor in a relationship.
After graduating from university, Mano stepped into society with only 1,400 yuan left.
She sent her resume everywhere, but the response was minimal.
Occasionally modeled ** became her only financial **, driven by economic pressure, she reluctantly asked her cousin who lived in Beijing for help.
Although the cousin initially accepted her, and Mano tried to interfere with his cousin's life as much as possible, over time, the cousin began to grow tired of the presence of this poor relative.
One night, Mano returned home, only to find her belongings left behind the door, and the house was pitch black, with no one answering her cries and begging.
At this time, Mano could only find a little comfort in a dilapidated guest house.
The darkness of fate had left Mano confused, not knowing where his way out was.
In 2010, a turning point came.
Ma Nuo was successfully selected as the female guest of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", which is not only a stage to show herself, but also a stepping stone to the entertainment industry.
In the show, Mano quickly attracted the attention of the audience with his sweet appearance and sharp eloquence.
But her sentence "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" caused fierce controversy, making her a "money worshipper".
While opinions about her were polarized online, Mano chose to ignore the controversy.
But then, the bluntness of a male guest hit her in the soft underbelly, and his sharp words were: "You should go to a beauty pageant, where there are all big, rich people."
Don't say you cry in a BMW, you can have a runny nose in a Porsche. ”
This sentence hit the heart and brought tears to Mano's face, and she confessed in tears that she was not what the outside world imagined, and then left the stage with tears in her eyes.
Later, it was the enlightenment of the program crew that made her stand up again.
Maybe it's to prove that he's not as materialistic as everyone thinks, or he's being manipulated in the dark.
After much deliberation, Mano finally chose a 34-year-old photographer to hold hands in the show.
The male guest, who took care of his wife who had been suffering from cancer for four years, touched Mano deeply with his story and strong and selfless qualities.
In him, Mano saw a man he could trust.
The two left the stage hand in hand and started a new chapter in their lives together.
Her romance with the photographer was supposed to have a happy ending, but the differences in their personalities eventually led to a parting of ways.
Detached from the aura of TV programs, Mano did not fade out of the public eye, but boldly stepped into the door of the entertainment industry by participating in the filming of the micro-film "Little Girl" and the launch of his personal ** "Good Thoughts".
Although she is often portrayed as a materialistic "money worshipper" in film and television works, such an image made her encounter a bottleneck on the road of acting, and finally unfortunately suffered from the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television.
With the passage of time, the once popular man Mano gradually faded out of the center of public discussion.
It wasn't until many years later that she broke the shocking news: everything in "If You Are the Truth, Do Not Disturb" is a scripted performance.
She openly said that her former image was only the result of the design of the program production team, and she was just working for money.
These words set off a huge ** wave, and the audience questioned the authenticity of the show, which also forced the production team of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" to rectify, and has not been able to get rid of the shadow of this controversy for a long time.
Leaving the glittering stage lights behind, Mano embarked on another way of life.
Her acting career came to a standstill, but she did not sink there, but chose to run a micro-business, while sharing her daily life, travel experience and art appreciation on social platforms.
Although this peaceful and fulfilling life is enviable, we can still feel the pain and confusion she has experienced.
Later, Mano once again came into the public eye, this time she switched to the live broadcast world and became a car critic.
Although she is not commenting on BMW, she often reminds young people in the live broadcast room not to repeat their mistakes and to work hard.
Seeing her changes, netizens are also ready to give her a chance to reshape her image.
However, in October last year, a news story about Mano shocked everyone again - this time, it was her husband who broke the news.
The whistleblower, who calls himself Mr. You, is a 32-year-old Shanghainese.
In July 22, he accidentally saw Mano's live stream while swiping his phone and was attracted to her.
Although Mr. You was married and had a daughter at the time, he was fascinated and became a frequent guest and top tipper in the live broadcast room.
In just three months, he gave more than 200,000 yuan in gifts to Manuo.
With the bombardment of money, the relationship between the two quickly warmed up, and soon developed from online to offline.
In August, Mr. You secretly invited Mano to Shanghai for a meeting, and the initial meeting turned out to be speculative.
After that, he flew to Beijing almost every week to meet with Mano.
In September, the two officially established a relationship, and Mr. You bought a brand-name watch for Mano as a love gift on the same day.
That night, the celebration was in full swing, but Mr. You found that Mano seemed to have a crush on another "blue-faced confidant", which made him unhappy.
In anger, Mr. You decided to end the relationship, but under Mano's pursuit and explanation, he learned that Mano actually had a boyfriend who had been dating for 8 years.
Despite this, Mano finally chose Mr. You.
The victory of feelings made Mr. You instantly turn his anger into joy.
However, Mano soon discovers the fact that Mr. You has a family, and the two quarrel over it.
In order to prove his love, Mr. You decides to divorce and, after paying a heavy price, marries Mano.
In January last year, the two officially became husband and wife.
But married life is not as sweet as imagined.
Mr. You found that not only did he have to bear high expenses every month, but he also had to endure the wealth that Mano often mentions to his ex-boyfriend.
As time passes, Mano reveals her true colors, and Mr. You learns more about her unbearable past.
The values of the two are seriously incompatible, which makes Mr. You deeply regret his decision.
In April this year, Mano became pregnant, and Mr. You thought it would be a turning point, but Mano offered to let him transfer the million-dollar worth of real estate to her.
Although the loan could not be closed immediately, Mr. You promised that it would be dealt with in the future.
Unexpectedly, Mano had a miscarriage soon after, but he intensified his demand for a reduction in the maintenance fees for Mr. You's ex-wife and daughter, and prevented him from paying for his daughter's insurance and school fees.
After a sexual altercation, both were taken to the police station.
Subsequently, Mr. You returned from a business trip to find that Mano had disappeared and taken all his possessions with him.
Although she found Mano at the end of September and lent her money to reconcile, she completely blocked Mr. You.
Mr. Yau attempted suicide at one point, but was able to survive with the help of his friends.
After the National Day, Mr. You made his experience public.
Of course, the above situation is only his side of the story.
Mano's mother also accused Mr. You of domestic violence against her daughter and spent all her savings.
As for the truth, the jury is still inconclusive.
It seems that this "melon" will continue.
But all this also reminds us that personal life choices are in our own hands.
But if you can't stick to the moral bottom line, then you will only end up paying the price.
Be a person first, then do things.