"So I'm going to live well, because I'm not just me. ”
The deceased wife who was buried in Wenchuan ** passed away less than half a year ago, and Wu Jiafang, who was called "the most affectionate man in **" by countless netizens, got married in a flash with a female netizen who had only met for 9 days, and divorced again less than a year after the second marriage, is Wu Jiafang really unkind?
On May 12, 2008, when the sky was gray, Wu Jiafang's family of three began to be busy after enjoying a sumptuous lunch, but at this time, the sky seemed to be burping in the afternoon, and at that moment Wenchuan shook the mountains.
Wu Jiafang, who was panicked, suddenly heard a piercing scream coming from all over the place after a few minutesWu Jiafang, who came back to his senses, was stunned for a moment by the ruins in front of him that were like purgatory on earth.
When the ground was no longer surging, Wu Jiafang hurriedly stumbled in the direction of his homePeople are always reluctant to believe bad news, but they silently prepare for the worst in their hearts every time.
Wu Jiafang called out to his family loudly after arriving at the place, at this time at his feet was the ruins of his own home, and he saw his youngest son not far away, which couldn't help but calm his heart a lot.
When Wu Jiafang suddenly remembered his wife again, he stepped into the dangerous disaster area again, and finally he saw the red hairpin that was pressed by the big boulder, and the hairpin was his wife Shi Huaqiong's.
Good and ungrateful man
Facing a disaster together can truly reflect a person's life pattern, some people abandon their families and children in the face of disasters, and some people are not afraid of natural disasters for their families.
* After that, articles about this incident flooded all corners of the Internet, with heroic deeds, touching cases, sad stories, and so onAmong them, there is a ** titled "The Last Dignity for My Wife", which has sparked discussions among countless netizens
The hero in * is Wu Jiafang, in **, he did not only care about his own safety, he put the personal safety of his family in the first place in his life.
As soon as this news came out, Wu Jiafang became popular on the Internet, and was praised and praised from all over the country, and there were many female netizens who favored herAccording to statistics, there are a total of 16 people of the opposite sex who sent him love letters and asked for a relationship
became an Internet celebrity after a **, which Wu Jiafang did not expect,He never thought that the protagonist in the touching deeds turned out to be himself, and Wu Jiafang's original intention to rescue his wife came from a man's responsibility and love.
At first, Wu Jiafang didn't take the overtures of female netizens seriously, because she had just experienced such a big change, and not long after his wife passed away, Wu Jiafang really didn't want to think about love at this time, so he politely rejected the kindness of female netizens.
But one of them has a female netizen who perseveresNo matter how Wu Jiafang refused, she just had to send him love letters one after another, Wu Jiafang, who gradually let go of the past, think that he should indeed look forward, and with the unremitting efforts of this lady repeatedly, Wu Jiafang opened his heart to her.
This persevering lady is Liu Rurong, Wu Jiafang's performance of such affection and righteousness in ** deeply touched her heart, and then she said that she wanted to associate with her, and she didn't care about Wu Jiafang bringing a son.
Soon after, the two dialed each other's first ** from each other, and the two of them at this timeOne in Sichuan and one in ShenzhenAlthough the physical distance is relatively long, the two "hit it off at first sight" when they hear each other's voices.
The two made ** porridge every day, and over time, the two decided to meet offline.
The two people who were already talking happily in ** fell in love at first sight after meetingAfter nine days of dating, they made a very crazy decision - to get a license.
Wu Jiafang's village learned the news after sending him blessings, but also a special warm welcome from Shenzhen Liu Rurong, the two former friends respectively congratulated Wu Jiafang finally out of the shadows, congratulations Liu Rurong for getting love, this is a great joy.
Not long after Wu Jiafang's happy days, there was a ** report on the news of Wu Jiafang's flash marriage with female netizens, and then the remarks on the Internet began to be one-sided again, saying that Wu Jiafang was unkind.
As a result, Wu Jiafang and Liu Rurong often quarreled over trivial matters in their lives after a year of marriageOne day, Liu Rurong said angrily: "What's so great about you, isn't it just that you have your rotten daughter-in-law behind your back." ”
In the end, Wu Jiafang, who couldn't bear it anymore, broke out at this moment, and then ended this ridiculous marriage with Liu Rurong.
Today, Wu Jiafang is over 60 years old, Liu Rurong has no wife after that, he goes out to work and eat when he is fine, or goes to sit in front of his deceased wife's grave for a while.
He also often thinks of the time he spent with his deceased wife, and the scars that have been uncovered again and again by countless **s**.
Give the wife the last dignity
* That day, seeing his wife who encountered an accident in the ruins, Wu Jiafang's mind seemed to be starting to run a marquee, and all he was thinking about was the warm scene of being happy with his wife and childrenAt the end of the marquee, Wu Jiafang temporarily bid farewell to Huangliang and woke up in reality.
On this day, Shi Huaqiong put on beautiful new clothes before going out, and pinned a cute red hairpin in her hair, and after cleaning up and dressing up, she went out with Wu Jiafang.
Wu Jiafang was going to work on the construction site in the afternoon, and took his beautiful wife to the town to recharge the phone bill on a motorcycle.
After arriving at the business hall, the two reluctantly said goodbye, and they agreed to go home in the evening to see each other, but they didn't know that this farewell separated the two yin and yang.
It wasn't long before everyone had taken a lunch break, and the gray sky began to rain sporadically, and in the face of the bad weather that was unpleasant to everyone, the houses on the ground began to take the lead and shake their heads in refusal.
The resistance of the house did not get the mercy of God, but in exchange for a heavy slap from reality.
Wu Jiafang, who had settled his son, did not dare to slack off, and rode a motorcycle to whizz in the direction of his wife, there were mud, rockfalls, dilapidated houses, and big potholes along the way, but Wu Jiafang was not afraid of obstacles on the road.
Wu Jiafang arrived in the town and saw the business hall standing in the ruins, and secretly swallowed a breath, Wu Jiafang, who had recovered some of his senses, thought that his wife might go to the chess and card room in the east of the town to watch and play cards after charging the phone bill, so he rushed to the east without saying a word.
To the east of the town, full of chaos, except for the ruins in front of him, there was no other open place, Wu Jiafang, who was confused, heard the cry for help and sorrow in his ears again, and he also returned to the state of the walking dead.
He thought that he could survive the disaster, and his wife would definitely be able to escape, maybe now his wife had been placed in a safe area.
Wu Jiafang searched for his wife in the ruins, and finally he saw the result that he was most unwilling to accept, which also destroyed the only hope that he had ignited in his heart.
Under the ruins is his beautiful wife who is dressed up at noon today, and Wu Jiafang's brain was blank when he pulled his wife out of the ruinsBecause the scene in front of him is too fake for him, and the real one is too fake to accept at once.
But no matter what, people can't run from the ceiling that falls from the sky, the walls bury Shi Huaqiong tightly, Wu Jiafang transferred the stones pressed on his wife one by one, and saw that there was only one stone left to save his wife, Wu Jiafang tried his best.
Wu Jiafang found a small opening, so he didn't hesitate to drill into it, and then used his back to stick to the big stone, and finally forced the stone slab open.
Wu Jiafang began to use muscle memory to cooperate with the subconscious instructions issued by the brain, calling Shi Huaqiong who fell in his arms over and over again, and all he saw was that Shi Huaqiong was still running until the end of his life.
Suddenly thinking that his son was still waiting for him at home, Wu Jiafang didn't have time to grieve, so he regained his strength and walked home with his deceased wife on his back, Wu Jiafang used a thick hemp rope to put his deceased wife on his back to prevent his deceased wife from falling from the motorcycle.
Wu Jiafang knew that his wife loved beauty the most during her lifetime, and she dressed up very exquisitely every dayNow she must not want others to see her embarrassed appearance, and then wrapped a scarf around his wife's head.
He was photographed by a reporter on the way home with his wife, and so far people have called him "the most affectionate man in **".
Sweet old days
Wu Jiafang was born in 1963The older generation of the family are all simple farmers, and even if the family conditions are difficult, Wu Jiafang also has great hopes for life, he decided to change the fate of his family by studying.
Until one day, the family told Wu Jiafang that there was no money to take out for him to study, and the sensible Wu Jiafang comforted his parents, saying that it didn't matter, he could earn money through manual labor.
After dropping out of school, Wu Jiafang became a tile mason, and in this way until he was 22 years old, he watched his partners get married and start a family one after anotherWu Jiafang looked at himself with a breeze on his sleeves, shook his head, and said forget it.
The gears of fate began to turn inadvertently, Wu Jiafang often ate in the same restaurant, and he didn't expect that he would be able to talk to the beautiful waitress Shi Huaqiong this time around.
One night, Wu Jiafang couldn't help but express his heart to Shi Huaqiong, and informed Shi Huaqiong of the situation in his familyWu Jiafang, who was not hopeful, was about to leave, but he returned with a beauty.
Shi Huaqiong said that she didn't care about Wu Jiafang's family conditions, as long as a man has a self-motivated heart, he can share weal and woe together.
Wu Jiafang and Shi Huaqiong feel like a spring breeze every day after they are together, and they often give Shi Huaqiong all kinds of small surprises in life, for fear of wronging Shi Huaqiong.
Now things are not everything, leaving Wu Jiafang with only memories and growth, I hope he will not be trapped by the past in the future, and I also wish that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married.