Chinese bride price How much bride price is appropriate for your family
The bride price, known as the "bride price" in ancient times, is a form of sincerity and respect that the man shows to the woman's family at the conclusion of the marriage. In ancient times, the bride price was not only a transfer of wealth, but also a thank you to the woman's family for raising a daughter. In the "Six Rites" recorded in the Book of Rites, the levy is the payment of money, which symbolizes the formal conclusion of marriage. The bride price comes in a variety of forms, from ancient cloth and deerskin to modern cash and real estate, and its core is always the importance of marriage and the blessing of both families.
When getting married, the bride price is the most headache for the newlyweds' family. In modern society, the form and amount of bride price have changed significantly. In some areas, the bride price has gradually evolved into an economic burden, and even the phenomenon of "sky-high bride price" has emerged. To a certain extent, this phenomenon reflects the imbalance in the gender ratio, the psychology of social comparison, and the increasing tendency towards the materialization of marriage. According to the survey, the bride price is generally higher in rural areas in the north, while it is relatively low in rural areas in the south. This difference not only reflects the regional cultural differences, but also is related to the level of local economic development and population structure.
China is a vast country, and the standard of bride price varies greatly from place to place. So, what is the average bride price in various parts of China? If you are still struggling with the appropriate bride price amount, you may wish to refer to the following summary.
1. The standard of bride price in the northern region
1.Beijing: 10-200,000
2.Tianjin: 5-100,000
3.Hebei: 3-50,000
4.Shanxi: 5-100,000
5.Inner Mongolia: 5-100,000.
6.Liaoning: 5-150,000
7.Jilin: 3-50,000
8.Heilongjiang: 3-50,000
The economy in the northern region is relatively developed, and the bride price is also high, generally between 5-150,000 yuan. Big cities such as Beijing and Shanxi will be higher.
Second, the standard of bride price in the eastern region
1.Shanghai: 10-300,000
2.Jiangsu: 10-300,000
3.Zhejiang: 10-300,000.
4.Anhui: 5-100,000
5.Fujian: 5-200,000
6.Jiangxi: 3-80,000
7.Shandong: 5-150,000
The eastern coastal areas have a developed economy and a high standard of bride price. Zhejiang, Shanghai and other places are between 100,000-300,000, while inland provinces such as Jiangxi and Anhui will be lower.
3. The bride price standard in the central region.
1.Henan: 3-80,000
2.Hubei: 3-80,000.
3.Hunan: 5-100,000.
4.Guangdong: 10-300,000.
5.Guangxi: 3-80,000
6.Hainan: 3-80,000
In the central region, Guangdong has the highest bride price standard, 10-300,000. Hunan, Henan and other provinces are around 3-80,000.
Fourth, the standard of bride price in the western region.
1.Chongqing: 5-200,000.
2.Sichuan: 5-100,000
3.Guizhou: 3-50,000.
4.Yunnan: 3-50,000
5.Shaanxi: 3-80,000
6.Gansu: 2-50,000
7.Qinghai: 1-30,000
8.Ningxia: 2-50,000
9.Xinjiang: 1-50,000
The overall economy of the western region is relatively backward, and the bride price is relatively low. The southwest provinces are mostly 3-80,000, and the northwest region is even lower, mainly at 1-30,000.
Positive guidance and advice
In the face of the modern challenges of bride price culture, we need positive guidance to return the bride price to its essence. First, the bride price should be viewed rationally as a blessing in marriage rather than as an economic transaction. Secondly, the society should work together to reduce the economic pressure caused by the bride price and promote the reform of marriage customs through laws, policies and education. For example, the Ministry of Civil Affairs set up an experimental area for the reform of marriage customs, which has achieved certain results, and the phenomenon of bride price has been effectively curbed.
At the legal level, China's Civil Code clearly prohibits the extortion of property through marriage, emphasizing the principle of freedom of marriage. In practice, the payment of the bride price is often regarded as a conditional gift, and the bride price should be returned once the marriage has not been established. However, due to the rising amount of the bride price, some families have fallen into financial difficulties due to the bride price issue, and even led to the breakdown of marriages. This not only affects the rights and interests of the parties, but also has a negative impact on the social atmosphere.
The bride price is not "the higher the better", so don't blindly follow it when choosing. According to the family's economic conditions, the groom's occupation, the relationship between the two families and other factors, the decision will be made after sincere communication. Generally speaking, 3-80,000 yuan is a more appropriate amount. Do not force a high bride price to increase unnecessary financial pressure on both families. In the end, the bride price must return to its ceremonial nature. Looking at the bride price rationally and returning the wedding to its simple and simple essence is the right way.
Conclusion
As a part of traditional Chinese culture, the value of bride price lies in inheriting and promoting the etiquette spirit of the Chinese nation. In modern society, we should respect traditions, and at the same time adapt to the development of the times, and guide the healthy development of bride price culture. Through the joint efforts of law, policy and social education, we can look forward to a more harmonious and rational environment for marriage customs, so that the bride price will be the starting point of marital happiness, rather than a burden.