In the journey of life, we will meet many people. Some people only appear in our lives for a moment, while others stay with us for a long time. However, sometimes we meet someone who makes our heart flutter but is the person we are destined for. It's a painful feeling, but you can't use it to bother him and hurt him. We need to learn to let go, treat him as our best friend, vent our thoughts, soften our feelings, but don't say "I love you".
I once fell in love with someone I couldn't be with. He was my colleague and we worked together for two years. He is a very talented person, intelligent, humorous, attentive and very responsible. I was attracted to his talent and personality and gradually fell in love with him. But since he already has a girlfriend and we've been together for many years, I know there won't be anything going to come out between us.
At first I tried to convince myself to give up on the relationship, but it turned out to be impossible. I can't help but think of all the moments he spent with us. I want to be with him, but I don't want to hurt him or his girlfriend. I was caught in pain and conflict and didn't know what to do.
After that, I decided to talk to him openly and honestly and tell him how I felt. He was very touched to hear it, but he also knew that nothing would come of it between us. He said he cherished our friendship and wanted to continue to be friends. It made me sad, but I also knew he was right. Our relationship is destined to be just friends and not lovers.
From then on, I regarded him as my best friend, vented my thoughts, and began to try to regulate my mentality, trying to calm my emotions. This is helpful because you can share your joys and fears with him without worrying about hurting him. Our friendship deepened, and I gradually let go of my feelings for him.
I don't like him anymore, but we're still good friends. I am very grateful to him because he taught me to let go and cherish friendships. I believe we will continue to be friends, supporting and encouraging each other.
In conclusion, loving someone who can't be together is a painful feeling, but that doesn't mean you can't pester him or hurt him. We need to learn to let go, treat him as our best friend, talk about our thoughts, soften our feelings, but don't say "I love you". Only in this way can we get rid of the pain and embrace a better future.