If a man has you in his heart, he doesn't need to ask, he will say it himself. When two people get along, they will often ask each other's opinions, women often say to men: "I want to eat this, I want to drink that", but men always say: "I don't know what you want to eat?" I don't know what you want to drink." If a man doesn't have you in his heart, he won't ask your opinion, let alone what you like to eat. Therefore, whether a man has you in his heart depends on whether he often asks you these three questions. If he really loves you and has you in his heart, he will take the initiative to do something for you, will change some of his bad habits for you, and he will work hard to give you a better life. When a man has you in his heart, he may ask you specific questions that reflect his care, understanding, and interest in you. These questions will not only help to improve communication and understanding between you, but also deepen the emotional connection between you. Only a man who doesn't have you in his heart would ask that. Women must know how to cherish! 
"What do you like? ”When a man has you in his heart, he will often ask you what you like, what you want to eat, or what is there to buy for you. He wants to know what you're thinking, and he wants to know what you like. A man who loves you will take the initiative to ask you this question, he hopes to share the bits and pieces of life with you, and also hopes to have a common hobby with you, and he is willing to accompany you to do those things you like. And a man who doesn't have you in his heart won't ask this question, he won't tell you some of his views and thoughts about life, and he won't let you participate in his life. He doesn't like to be around people you have a common hobby, and he doesn't like to be with someone she has a common hobby. Because he thinks it would be boring to be with such a person. If a man often asks such questions, it means that he does not have you in his heart, and he does not want to have a common hobby with you. 
"What can I do for you? ”A man who has you in his heart will not let you do everything alone, he will take the initiative to help you share some things, even if he is busy and tired, he will let you know what he is busy with first. Because he has you in mind, he will take the initiative to ask you, "What can I do for you?" ”。In fact, the more a person loves someone, the more he will care about that person. I want to help her because I care, and I want to do something for her because I love. 
Because of love, I hope to help her; Because of love, he is willing to give time and energy to take care of her; Because of love, I hope I can do something for her. So, a man who has you in his heart will not let you do everything alone, he will tell you everything, "What can I do for you?" ”。If a man doesn't have you in his heart, he won't ask these questions. If he asks you these questions, it is also to give you an idea of what is in his mind. 
"What can I do for you to make you feel happy? ”A man who has you in his heart will take you to heart, and he will often ask you, "What can I do for you to make you feel happy?" "He will take the initiative to do something for you, he will often chat with you, hang out with you, he will do something for you, as long as it makes you feel happy, he is willing to do it. And a man who doesn't have you in his heart won't ask this question, he will just watch you quietly from the sidelines. If he really loves you, he will take the initiative to do something for you instead of watching you do nothing. 
We are constantly pursuing happiness throughout our lives, and we must work hard to be happy. Love is one of the things that women want most, but for men, love is actually their greatest wish. What if a man asks a woman, "What can I do for you?" Then he must really love this woman. This man must have this woman in his heart. When faced with these issues, women should understand the emotions and meanings behind them and express their thoughts and feelings honestly. Through positive responses and communication, your relationship may be stronger and deeper. At the same time, women should also learn to take the initiative to ask questions, understand men's thoughts and feelings, and jointly promote mutual understanding and emotional exchange.