"Men and Women" Korean movie detailed commentary!
On the gloomy and cold streets of Finland, Du Yan pushed her son to avoid the whistling traffic. The son is a child with severe autism, and this time they came to this cold and strange country to bring him here to be *** The child's condition has already made Du Yan's family on the verge of collapse, and he is physically and mentally exhausted and unable to sleep at night. The next day, he sent his son to school to participate in a camping activity, and he also met Kong Niu here. It was the first meeting between two strangers, but it gave each other a very familiar feeling, and there was a fear that the child would not be able to live on his own.
Du Yan wanted to ask the teacher to let him go with him, but the teacher sternly refused him. And when he has to remember the purpose of sending the child here, watching the autistic child leave, he has unspeakable worry and loss in his heart. Before leaving, he borrowed a fire from Kong Niu on the side, wanting to smoke a cigarette to relieve his suppressed emotions. Maybe it's because I met my own countrymen in a foreign country, or maybe my depressing life resonated. He unconsciously talked more to this strange man. Probably seeing his concern for the child, Kong Niu immediately decided to send him to the camping site.
And the man in front of him seemed to be preoccupied, they basically didn't have any words along the way, and in this quiet environment, Du Yan's high-intensity nerves were also released for a short time. When he woke up again, they had already arrived at the lake where they were camping, but Du Yan hesitated to go at this time. Maybe you really shouldn't force your child's **. Kong Niu also seemed to understand his thoughts, so he just followed behind him and left silently with him. In order to thank Kong Niu for his help, they went to the restaurant for lunch together. For exotic meals, Kong Niu eats with relish, but Du Yan doesn't have any appetite at all, he still misses the taste of his hometown. It was also at this moment that the two strange souls got a little closer. After the meal, when they wanted to continue to hurry, they were told by the traffic police that the road was closed by heavy snow, and they could not continue to pass until the snow stopped, so the two had to be trapped here.
In addition to chatting, Du Yan also knew some of Kong Niu's family situation. He and Du Yan have very similar families, and their only daughter also suffers from severe depression. Therefore, in order to heal the disease, he had come here two years ago, and they comforted each other until late at night when they went back to their rooms to rest. And this night, there was also a little sympathy in each other's hearts. The snow still didn't stop the next day, Kong Niu was dressed neatly and said that he wanted to go around, Du Yan on the side didn't speak, just followed his footsteps silently. In the snow-covered woods, the two unconsciously walked into the depths of the forest. There were too many unevenness hidden in the snow-covered land, and Du Yan accidentally stepped on the air and injured his foot, Kong Niu helped him up with concern and patted the snowflakes on his body intimately. This was also their first physical contact, and this careful action also made Du Yan feel a little pity in her heart. Kong Niu helped him into a wooden house in the depths, but he didn't expect it to be a warm sauna. In response to Du Yan's curiosity, Kong Niu explained that Finns are very good at enjoying life, and often build such wooden houses deep in the forest as a temporary rest.
With the gradual rise of the temperature in the house, Du Yan, who was excessively lacking sleep, gradually fell asleep. Maybe every time he is with this man, he can feel full of peace of mind in his heart. Kong Niu brought a blanket and gently covered his body, looking at the tired and pitiful appearance of the woman in front of him, he couldn't help but reach out and brush off the broken hair on his forehead for him, sensing the approach of the breath, Du Yan also woke up suddenly from his sleep. Staring at the panicked man in front of her, it seemed to be the attraction of two same souls, and she couldn't help but kiss it.
At this moment, they were like dry firewood in winter, with that slightly unfamiliar haze, mixed with lingering, engulfing each other in the dry heat of winter. Under that white reflection, the two breathless people who were tortured by life also got a short spiritual sublimation. It was late at night when I came back again, but there was still a strange atmosphere between the two. Kong Niu realized that he didn't know his name yet, and he wanted to ask, but Du Yan grabbed his hand tightly, then shook his hand, and made a gesture of goodbye. He knows very well in his heart that all this is just the desire of human nature, and he always has to recognize the reality and return to his original life. In this way, he and Kong Niu no longer had any contact. Soon after, Du Yan returned to South Korea with her son.
When a friend asks him what life is like in Finland, all he remembers is the warm, clean snow and the hot hut in the woods. But he knew that the dream could only stay in Finland, in that snow. After returning to China, Du Yan devoted herself to her work. I thought that the Finnish episode would be goodbye, but soon after working in the company, he saw that familiar figure again. At this moment, he was obviously a little distracted, obviously happy in his heart, but he still behaved very calmly. Perhaps thinking that Du Yan was unhappy when she saw her, Kong Niu could only prepare to leave in embarrassment. Probably because of the excitement in his heart, Du Yan finally stopped him unconsciously. Sitting together again, Kong Niu realized that Du Yan at work was actually a strong woman, and his life outside of work was completely like two people. And he finally learned his name from the business card on the table. Looking at Du Yan, who was busy with work, they only exchanged a few words of greeting.
Although both sides have some thoughts in their hearts, they can only try their best to pretend to hide. It seemed that it was his arrival, and Du Yan once again caused ripples in her heart. On the surface, he seems to be a strong man, but after returning home, he is surrounded by gloom every day, and his son's illness still does not improve. He was tormented by his high-pressure work and children every day, so much so that there was no light in his life. And Kong Niu's appearance briefly gave him a chance to breathe, perhaps because of the other party's intention, or because of the fate arranged by God. Kong Niu and Du Yan worked very closely, and they had more seemingly natural encounters and more opportunities to be alone. On this day, he brought Du Yan to his studio and specially prepared his favorite sauce, Du Yan couldn't help but be a little moved, it turned out that everything he said, he remembered it seriously. After the meal, Kong Niu took him on a tour of his work. When there was no one around, he always wanted to get close to Du Yan intentionally or unintentionally, and Du Yan's shy smile also revealed his thoughts, looking at Kong Niu's hand that had nowhere to put it, Du Yan simply took the initiative to take it.
It was also at this moment that the enthusiasm of Finnish winter was gradually awakened once again. But just as they got closer and closer, the arrival of colleagues broke the delicate atmosphere. When she returned to her work again, Du Yan's heart could no longer be calm, and Kong Niu seemed to be the same. In the dead of night, he came to Du Yan's company again, and both sides seemed to be waiting for nothing, he knew that he was not leaving, and he also knew that he would come. As a middle-aged person, the sunset that I can't let go of has already been consumed, and the rest really needs to be sewn and confirmed by nature. Since then, Kong Niu seems to be like a clingy big boy in love, always sending messages to Du Yan intentionally or unintentionally every day. But Du Yan never just glanced at it and didn't reply. In his heart, he knew that none of this was a story that should have happened. When she met Kong Niu again, Du Yan still couldn't hold back, walked up to say hello, and told him that she was going on a business trip. He is so contradictory, knowing that it is a tragedy, but he still has to walk into the opening, looking at Kong Niu who has not rested, Du Yan still unconsciously reveals a little concern. Kong Niu didn't answer, but there was indeed a problem with his family.
Yesterday, they invited friends to their house, but the wife only knew how to drink and have fun with friends, leaving Kong Niu alone to clean up in the kitchen. One of his female colleagues came to the kitchen to discuss work with him. But this joking scene was seen by the wife, but the taste changed in an instant, and the extreme anger broke out instantly, regardless of the faces of her husband and the guests, it was a humiliation to the guests. Seeing this, Kong Niu hurriedly sent the guests away, but his wife still relentlessly launched a drunken madness, and his mother's crazy behavior even frightened her depressed daughter. Not only that, but his wife even took a large amount of sleeping pills in front of her daughter late at night. Fortunately, Kong Niu arrived in time, and his life was saved. Knowing everything that happened to her daughter, her mother-in-law did not blame Kong Niu, because she knew that her daughter was the kind of woman who had no brains and no mouth. Her sloppy scoundrel, as a mother, has already seen too much, and he also decided to temporarily take his daughter and child away to calm down for a while. Just imagine, what man will not collapse with such a wife, let alone have a father with a child with depression. This night, he had no intention of sleeping, and the desperation of life at this time also made him think of Du Yan. Kong Niu wanted to talk to him about his thoughts, but he didn't know what kind of identity he should have.
The next day, Du Yan boarded a train to another place on a business trip. But in his heart, he missed that man inexplicably at this time. In the end, he couldn't help but dial Kong Niu's **. However, it was a blind voice that no one answered, and just when he was a little lost, a familiar figure sat down beside him. Du Yan couldn't help but freeze in place, a little happy, a little excited, and a little overwhelmed. At this moment, they all briefly took off their old disguises. Enjoy the sweet scent during this moment of travel. At this moment, Du Yan was happy, he could clearly feel the love brought by this boy, she came like sunshine, sprinkled with a little starlight in her gloomy life. When they arrived at the station, they fell into the sadness of parting again, but each knew each other's restrained impulses.
Late at night, Kong Niu called ** again, just one sentence, I want to hear your voice, so that Du Yan can no longer suppress the excitement in her heart. He dropped his hand, the work on his head, and ran towards that fruitless desire like a girl chasing love. He persistently walked into her life in this way, awakened her decadent vitality, knew how to appreciate her beauty, and understood his needs. Such a man seems to be irresistible at any time. But gradually, Du Yan's impulse gradually overwhelmed him, and he even couldn't help but miss it, and took the initiative to go to Kong Niu Company to find him. But his various actions also made Kong Niu's colleagues see through it at a glance, and told him intentionally or unintentionally that Kong Niu's wife was now very ill, and the implication was to advise him to stop in moderation and not to cross the red line. At this moment, Du Yan seemed to wake up suddenly, he had already been carried away by the short-term feelings, and he had even stepped on the edge of danger.
This night, Kong Niu received a breakup text message from Du Yan, he didn't know what happened, but he was instantly out of proportion. The next day, he couldn't wait to find Du Yan and ask what was going on. He wondered what the feelings between them were. But Du Yan just said that they should have ended a long time ago, and going on like this would only make each other more miserable. None of this matters anymore. At this moment, the teacher suddenly called** and said that Du Yan's son was missing. He instantly. Like a little girl who had no support, looking at her anxiety, Kong Niu immediately accompanied him to look around. Finally, they braved the heavy rain to find their son who was in a daze by the river, looking at Du Yan, who was willing to give everything for his son, Kong Niu couldn't help but feel a little more distressed in his heart. On the way, the son said that he wanted to go to the beach to play, so Kong Niu immediately turned around and drove towards the beach. Under the reflection of the sunset after the rain, this haggard mother looked so great, and Kong Niu gradually understood the responsibility of the family.
When her son fell asleep, Du Yan's haggard heart finally got some peace. When there was no one around, he leaned on Kong Niu's shoulders tiredly, like a pair of lovers, pouring out his heart. When she returned home with her son at night, her husband didn't care about Du Yan for the first time, but only asked her why she suddenly took the child to the beach. Perhaps this is the difference between loving and being loved. Some people will only ask why, while others will only be by their side and silently care? Some people will only blindly ask for it, while some people will wake up to the wrong path. Kong Niu's wife is like this, it seems that she has returned to her mother's house, and she seems to be a different person. Not only did he learn to take care of his daughter, but he also learned to prepare his favorite pasta for his husband. The former shrew was vanished in an instant, and she blamed herself for being just a patient who took it, and hated herself for never really knowing her husband. The sudden change in his wife made Kong Niu feel guilty. He stood at the head of the wall and began to recognize his reality. On the fork in the road of life, she didn't know how to make a choice at this time. The daughter thought she wanted to give birth to a child, and a pitiful look grabbed him tightly behind her.
And this moment also made Kong Niu understand the meaning of family. He is the mountain of this family, and he is also the head of the family on which these two girls live, which is not only his responsibility, but also one thing he must do well in this life. The next day, he made his decision. He dialed Du Yan's ** and wanted to make a break with him. But at this time, Du Yan thought that he missed each other as much as herself. Just when she couldn't wait to get close to the other party, Du Yan's husband appeared in front of her in time. And Kong Niu also nervously twisted her head to the side, and settled her sleeping son late at night, and she couldn't wait to meet Kong Niu. Her husband also seemed to see her abnormality, but by this time, she had already lost her mind, and she had already broken the jar.
For her husband's angry questioning, she had already chosen to be calm. Du Yan doesn't care what his result is now, he just wants to be himself for the real time. But what he didn't know at this time was that Kong Niu had already chosen to give up this feeling, he never had the courage to step into the door of the hotel, he couldn't abandon his wife and daughter, and he couldn't ignore his family. He has a deeper bond than him, she has been passively waiting for him to coax love, Du Yan can leave her husband to live independently, and even have the courage to take care of her son alone.
Soft and powerful as she loves, Kong Niu can't leave his wife and daughter behind, they are fragile and have nothing to rely on. As a man, he must take responsibility, he has no choice, the only thing to do is to suffer and hide this love. Since then, the lives of the two have never intersected. Du Yan divorced her emotionless husband and moved out of the home that made him desperate with her son. Kong Niu returned to Finland with a family of three and continued to do the work he was good at. Not long after, by chance, in order to take her son for treatment, Du Yan also came to Finland again. But it seems that fate is always so wonderful, in that familiar restaurant, he once again met a happy family of three. At this moment, he seemed to have been drained of all his strength, anger and unwillingness to force him to flee. At the beginning, it was obviously he who chose to meet himself, and he also said that if he lingered, he would never be able to separate. And when he threw everything away and ran towards him, he was kind enough to enjoy the happiness of his family. And he is like the clown who was left behind, sad and ridiculous.