In the distant mountains, or on the familiar country roads, we can always hear some gossip about singles. Yes, the problem of singles in rural areas seems to have become a big problem. The living conditions are better and the quality is higher, but why are there more and more singles? Don't worry, let's talk about it today, the three strange phenomena are guaranteed to make you stunned!
Strange phenomenon 1: The bride price is ridiculously high, but it is even more difficult to really want to get married.
I have to say, getting married now is really like a war. Cars, houses, tickets, everything. Especially in the countryside, the bride price is so high that it is staggering! Sometimes you wonder, is this marrying a daughter or selling a daughter?
What's even more infuriating is that some people actually treat marriage as a business. They used the relationship of matchmakers to cheat the marriage and bride price, and then divorced within a month, and the bride price money was naturally lost. Tell me, how dare people get married? Naturally, the number of singles is increasing.
Strange phenomenon 2: The daughter-in-law has become the ancestor, and the in-laws have become the servant.
Today's young people are pampered only children. Clothes come to reach out, food comes to open mouth, and you can't do anything but enjoyment. This kind of daughter-in-law marries home, which is simply inviting an ancestor back to offer.
What about the parents-in-law? Hey, don't mention it, it's just a servant. I have to serve my daughter-in-law's food and drink every day, and I have to endure their pickiness and complaints. Do you think such a marriage lasts? Can families be in harmony? Can the problem of singles be solved?
Strange phenomenon 3: Young people would rather be Dinks than children.
When it comes to getting married, we have to mention the topic of children. Young people nowadays, the pressure is too much. Not to mention that you have to empty the old man's family to get married, you have to raise money everywhere. Do you say it's easy for the elderly? Why are they paying such a big price? Don't you just want to hug your grandson early and enjoy the joy of family?
But what about young people today? If you get married, you don't want children. The reason is that there is a lot of social pressure and I can't afford to raise children, so I'd rather be a Dink than have children. You say that this makes the old man embarrassed! They have worked hard all their lives for this family and for their children, but in the end? The bamboo basket is empty!
Hey, having said so much, it's really emotional! These three strange phenomena do not only exist in rural areas, but there are also many similar situations in cities, right? It's just that we may not be so easy to notice.
Dear readers and friends, do you have such an example around you? What do you think about these phenomena? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss, let us pay attention to rural life together, and make suggestions to solve the problem of singles!
Finally, I would like to say that marriage is not child's play, and family is not a casino. Each of us should cherish our marriage and family, and strive to create a harmonious and happy family atmosphere. Only in this way can we truly solve the problem of singles, so that everyone can find their own happy home.