In ancient China, there was a proverb: "Home and everything prospers." ”
The family, as the basic unit of society, has a direct impact on the growth and development of each member.
1. Flip through books diligently and shape the family style
Gorky once said, "Books are the ladder of human progress." ”
Books are the source of knowledge and the inheritance of wisdom.
In the family, diligent flipping can not only enrich the knowledge of family members, but also create a positive family style.
Imagine how warm and harmonious it would be for family members to sit together, read together, and share their thoughts.
Speaking of diligent flipping books and shaping family style, I think of the British writer Jk.Rowling's story.
Her family was not wealthy when she was a child, but her parents always encouraged her to read.
Although there are not many books at home, she has read every book by heart.
"Books are my best friend, they take me into wonderful worlds," Rowling says. ”
This love of reading not only enriches her inner world, but also shapes her tenacious character.
Later, she created the Harry Potter series and became a world-renowned author.
Turning books diligently can not only increase knowledge, but also shape a person's character and family style.
The power of books is infinite, it can imperceptibly influence a family, so that love and wisdom can be passed on from generation to generation.
2.Turn your face less and spread warmth
Harmony makes money. ”
This is a kind of wisdom in traditional Chinese culture, which emphasizes the importance of living in harmony.
In the family, turning the face less, that is, losing your temper less and communicating more, is the key to maintaining family harmony.
The understanding and tolerance between family members can convey a strong sense of warmth.
In ancient times, there was a young man named Wang Xiang, his stepmother was very harsh on him, but he always treated him with filial piety.
One winter, my stepmother wanted to eat carp, but the frozen river was hard to catch.
Without hesitation, Wang Xiang took off his clothes, lay down on the icy ice, and melted the ice with his body heat, just to catch a carp to fulfill his stepmother's wish.
Family members should be considerate of each other and live in harmony.
Resolve conflicts with love and understanding, turn your face less, and convey more warmth, so that family harmony can be maintained.
As the old saying goes, "Home and everything prospers." ”
Let's all learn to spread love and warmth in our families and create a loving environment together.
3.Know how to turn the page and warm people's hearts
Let the past pass. ”
This sentence is simple but profound, and it tells us that only by knowing how to let go of the past can we embrace the future.
In family life, knowing how to turn the page, that is, not caring about past conflicts and misunderstandings, is an important way to warm people's hearts and promote family relationships.
In ancient times, there was a story called "Guilty of Petitioning for Jing", which tells a good story between Lian Po, a general of Zhao State, and Lin Xiangru, a minister of Wen.
Lian Po was jealous of Lin Xiang's talent and status, and opposed him many times in the court.
However, Lin Xiangru always treats him politely and does not care about him.
One day, Lian Po realized his mistake and decided to personally carry the thorns on his back, walk barefoot to Lin Xiangru's door, and ask him for his guilt.
Seeing this, Lin Xiangru was moved by Lian Po's sincerity, and the two shook hands and made peace, and since then they have become good friends.
It's not easy to admit mistakes, but doing so can resolve conflicts and strengthen friendships.
In family and interpersonal relationships, if we can be like Lian Po, let go of our faces, have the courage to apologize, and be tolerant and generous like Lin Xiangru, then we can understand how to turn the page and warm people's hearts.
Such wisdom can not only repair broken relationships, but also make our relationships more harmonious and our lives better.
Sometimes, a sincere apology and a forgiving smile can warm a cold heart again.
As the ancients said, "Home and everything prospers." ”
The best feng shui for a family is to turn the books frequently, turn the face less, and know how to turn the pages.
Let us work together on this fertile soil of the family, sow love and wisdom, and reap happiness and harmony.
Home is our warmest harbor, let us work together to build, let love stay in our hearts forever.