Does he love me" is enough for women to think about it day and night, and guess every day.
In fact, true love cannot be hidden, even if it is not spoken, it will run out of the eyes; A subconscious look, a caring action, are all hidden in your daily every move.
Whether a man loves you or not, just look at the details of how you get along.
1. Saying that he loves you, but he doesn't actually pay.
There is a good saying: action is the best proof of true love.
Some men love only on the lips, sweet words to you, but never take action, such men obviously do not love you.
I've seen a paragraph**:
* In China, the boy shush the girl every day and ask for warmth, and remind the girl to remember to eat when he arrives at the meal, don't be hungry, he will be sad;
The rain reminds her not to get wet, she will get sick, and he will be distressed;
When you get off work late, I tell you to pay attention to safety and remember to take a taxi home.
All of this, the girl said as if she felt that he cared about herself all the time, but in fact he didn't do anything, and all the care stayed on his lips.
knew that she hadn't eaten, and wouldn't take the initiative to order takeout for her; knew that she didn't bring an umbrella, and wouldn't send her an umbrella to pick her up from work; Knowing that she is in a bad mood and sad and sad, he will not take her out for a walk; There is only one happy holiday sentence in the festival, and I have never given her a gift or a bouquet of flowers.
These seemingly heart-warming words are actually false love, just giving you the atmosphere of camp ** and giving you the illusion of love.
Thousands of words of love for you are not worth doing a love thing for you.
People who really love you are not willing to perfunctory you, and will express their love to you with real actions.
People who don't love you will only give you sweet-talking sugar-coated cannonballs and say love with their mouths.
Second, the promise has never been fulfilled.
I just came back to work after the New Year, and I heard that my colleague Xiao Ai broke up, and I learned that Xiao Ai's boyfriend was a "master of painting cakes", and Xiao Ai said that he had indigestion after eating too much.
obviously promised to accompany her to go shopping on the weekend, but she got on the subway with joy, but he said that his brother was short of people to play ball, so let her go shopping by herself; made an appointment to watch a movie together, went to the cinema early to buy tickets and waited for him, and when the movie had already started, he said that he would work overtime and couldn't come; promised to take her to the north to travel to see the snow, but she didn't fulfill it for three years.
This year's Chinese New Year promised to go home with Xiao Ai to meet his parents, Xiao Ai bought gifts in advance, greeted his parents, and waited for him to drive to pick him up, but he said that the time was not right, wait for next time.
Xiao Ai said that he gave me hope again and again, disappointed me again and again, and every lonely wait may be the answer to his dislove.
A man who truly loves you will pay attention to your needs and feelings, explain everything, and let you rest assured.
Only people who don't love you will use promises as a trick to coax you.
3. Unwilling to promise, not giving you a future.
watched a hit drama, in which Zhao Yuanyuan is a woman who works hard from a small place to a big city, and she comes together with the rich second-generation Zhou Jiaqi.
Zhao Yuanyuan was eager to marry into the Zhou family, and repeatedly proposed the temptation to get married, but the other party perfunctory with various reasons; When Zhou's family was caught in product quality problems, Zhao Yuanyuan tried her best to help Zhou's family solve the corporate crisis, and was recognized by Zhou Jiaqi's parents, but Zhou Jiaqi still didn't plan to give Zhao Yuanyuan a name.
At this moment, Zhao Yuanyuan was completely sober and understood that a man who doesn't want to marry you just doesn't love you.
Whether a man loves you or not, in fact, it is easy to verify, and the man who loves you believes that you will put you into his future and hope to be with you for the rest of his life.
If a man only wants to be with you, but never talks to you about your future, never gives you promises about the future, it is clear that you are not important in his heart, and he does not completely approve of you.
Love or not love can't be disguised, it is not difficult to judge, a man has never really paid for you, his love for you only stays in his mouth, and he does not intend to give you a future, then there is a high probability that he has not really loved you.
Love is not child's play, but real life.
If it is true love, the details of life are all signs of love, and if there is no trace of love, it can only mean that there is no love.