What was once a brief break at work has become a part of office life, replaced by thick quilts. The proposal for a lunch appointment no longer aroused their interest, because they understood that reality was more cruel than the beautiful imagination. And napping is more like a kind of irony, snoring sound, can actually wake yourself up from your dream.
In the face of praise from beautiful women, they learn to accept with a smile and say "thank you", but they are no longer complacent because of it. Because they understand that a white lie is also a kind of respect.
It has become a habit for them to choose to participate in dinners, but they will consider carefully before confirming the list. A dinner party of more than six people was a reason for them to resolutely refuse, and they would rather choose to go home than lose their freedom in a crowded place.
When drinking, they no longer mention their personal medications** and no longer indulge themselves in drunken gaffes. When irrelevant people toast, they will accept it indifferently and don't even mind the loss of face.
They understand what it means to lift a heavy weight, and no matter how heavy the task is, they will do it with a serious attitude, because they know that they are not easily rewarded. In the face of heavy work, they no longer frown and think hard, but light a cigarette and calmly solve them one by one.
Say hello in the hallway, and even if the other person doesn't respond, they don't bother themselves, but continue with their work with a calm mind.
When they can't do what others do, they don't force a smile on their faces, but are honest about their powerlessness. They understand that honesty is more precious than hypocrisy.
The circle of friends gradually expanded, but they still maintained their sincerity and distance from their friends. Although they only have three or five confidants, they prefer to keep it pure, not to take advantage of it, just to share a small glass of wine when needed.
Tea is becoming more and more popular with them, and they are becoming more and more picky about the quality of tea.
The enthusiasm for cars gradually faded, and they began to see the car as a means of transportation, no longer pursuing the glamour of luxury cars, but only for comfort and convenience.
Pay attention to health, start to pay attention to your diet, no longer crave high-sugar and high-fat foods, and the occasional meal will also trigger inner self-blame.
When drinking, they prefer to listen quietly to what others are saying rather than to talk about it themselves. For topics of interest, they express their opinions at the right time, while for those who are not, they choose to remain silent and concentrate on enjoying the food.
Faced with the death of a loved one or peer, they learn to accept the impermanence of life and realize that health is the greatest asset. Their attitude towards life and death has become indifferent, and they have learned to return to calm and return to real life at any time.
The enthusiasm for nightlife slowly faded, and after drinking, he no longer went to sing, and even if he did, he was no longer addicted to **. They choose to quietly sip the mineral water, listen to the elusive melody and enjoy the tranquility.
Get along with big leaders, and no longer be nervous, because they understand that leaders are just people, and they will face the same troubles if they have drunk the same two pots.
started reading books, but they chose to put aside the works of Internet celebrities such as Dan and Yi Zhongtian. They have a new understanding of classic works such as the Book of Changes and the Tao Te Ching, and no longer regard them as useless.
Dressing up, paying more attention to comfort, although they still pay attention to image, they no longer blindly pursue fashion.
No longer fantasizing about quitting their jobs and starting their own businesses, they begin to cherish the work in hand, understanding that responsibility is just as important as making a living.
In social situations, they no longer deliberately remember everyone's mobile phone number or *** because they understand that some brief encounters are destined to be hurried passers-by.
At class reunions, they no longer focus on job titles or work, but share memories of the past and talk about life.
They understand that poetry and distance are alluring, but returning to reality is the most important thing. No longer escaping from reality, but facing it bravely, because they understand that the true meaning of life lies in the happiness in the ordinary.
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February** Dynamic Incentive Program