I have always believed that people's good and evil are not completely determined by education, and some people's bad is deeply rooted in the bone marrow.
As the old saying goes, "dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, and the sons of mice will make holes", which not only refers to the influence of the family environment on children, but also refers to something brought about by a certain nature and a certain gene.
When I was younger, I noticed that some children were different. In a group of innocent children, there are always one or two, with ** in their eyes that do not match their age.
I remember once in the park, a child who had just learned to walk scratched the face of the child next to him for no reason, and the child's eyes were frighteningly cold.
When I was in junior high school, there was such a girl in my class who always fought up with her classmates who were in the limelight. Whoever is good-looking and who has good grades is the target of her attack.
I still remember the afternoon when she kicked the female classmate in front of me, and the voice and picture were deeply imprinted in my mind.
She even instructed me to make up for it, but I couldn't, and I refused. Later, I thought that if I had been brave enough to stop her, maybe things wouldn't have gotten so bad.
But then I was just a child, I was scared, and I chose to run away.
At that time, I was the tallest and most powerful girl in the class. The honor of being the champion in the shot put didn't bring me much joy, but it became a tool for me to protect myself.
Because I knew that without that, I might be the next target for that girl.
Some people say that when they are bored, they will read and write, but when some people are bored, they choose to bully the weak.
I guess that's the evil at work in human nature. And this kind of evil often comes from family and education. Some parents have problems themselves, how can they educate kind children?
Some people's badness is bad in their bones. No matter how good you are to him, no matter how much education you give him, you can't change his nature.
And those who don't know that they are bad are the most terrible. They have no conscience, no bottom line, and their actions are completely driven by instinct
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I believe that conscience is a gift. Some people are born with it, and some people don't.
For those who have no conscience, the only thing we can do,It's to stay away from them. Because there is no kindness, no compassion, no love in their world, only endless selfishness and indifference
Just like cuckoo birds, they neither build their own nests nor hatch their own eggs. Instead, they secretly lay the eggs in someone else's nest and let others incubate the eggs for them and raise their offspring for them.
And what about itself? But they are free, eating, drinking, and merrymaking, and do not assume any responsibility. Do you say this bird is bad? It's worse for the kids!
As soon as you are born, you know how to do bad things, push other people's eggs or young birds out of the nest and fall to the ground. This kind of badness is inherently bad, it's bad in the genes, it's bad in the bones!
Life is a long road, and when we deal with people, we must keep our eyes open and see each other's nature. Once you find out that the other party is a person of this kind of virtue as a cuckoo bird, do not try to reason with him or change him.
Because that's not possible! Get away from him, as far away as possible! In this way, you can avoid getting yourself harmed.
"The beginning of man, the nature of goodness" may not be entirely true. Some people's evil is deep in the marrow and cannot be changed.
What we can do is learn to protect ourselves and learn to stay away from those evil people in our bones.