Too much, just like fireworks in the world, full of colors, in this not long life, we have many beautiful encounters, we love, and the person who accompanies us to the end of life, can only be the person with the deepest fate, and other passers-by in life, can only end up in gloom. It's just that because women are too emotional, they always believe in someone easily, and then sacrifice a lot in the relationship, and finally stage a tragedy of love. We must not just invest in our feelings, but we must learn to discern love and how to love well, so that we will not be hurt in a relationship. 
01 The man you love loves you or not, his kiss will tell you.
Emotions are our attitudes and experiences about whether those objective things meet our needs, that is, we will deal with emotions all our lives. It's just that many times we are too easy to believe in a person, and feel that when the other party casually says "I love you", we really think that the other party loves us, but we don't know that in those details, we know whether the other party loves you or not. Liuli in the movie "Palace Lock Agarwood" married the thirteenth elder brother, but she just replaced someone else's identity, the thirteenth elder brother couldn't see clearly because of his eye disease, so when he was in the Zongren Mansion, he always thought that it was Liuli who accompanied him, so when he came out, he would think about marrying each other. It's just that the thirteenth elder brother has always felt that there is a gap between them, so since they got married, he has never kissed Liuli, and all they have is respect with a sense of alienation. Desmont Miles in England once said in "Intimacy": "If young couples feel the comfort of their mother's oral feeding as their tongues explore each other's mouths, it increases the bond of trust and bond between them." "It's just that there is no love for each other, so there is no sense of trust. 
02 Whether a man loves you or not, the "physiological reaction" will tell you.
John Gray, author of Men from Mars, Women from Venus, once said, "Love causes people to have four reactions, physical, emotional, psychological, and spiritual." Among them, the physical reaction will cause desire, the emotional response will produce admiration, the psychological reaction can arouse interest, and the mental reaction can create ** love, that is, the partner who has the same interests with us must be able to trigger these four reactions in order to be considered a good love. However, in the relationship between the sexes, women are constantly adding to love, while men are constantly subtracting love, that is, women can talk about love all day long, while men can only be hot for a while. 
Whether a man loves you or not, in fact, the "physiological reaction" has already told us the answer, love will accept it wholeheartedly, if you don't love, you will reject, and even a hug will be a luxury, let alone a kiss that is more intimate than a hug. Love has always been a two-way street, we are eager to see each other, not that we take the initiative to propose, and then point to each other late, we will not ask to see each other, this is not because of pride, but we have no pride in front of love, when we make it clear that the other party also wants to see themselves, such a meeting is meaningful. Therefore, it is meaningless for love to be supported by one person alone, if a relationship is just wishful thinking on our part, then such a love might as well give up directly. 
03 uncertain love, there is no need to continue to insist.
We have a cup in our hands filled with boiling water, and if we don't put it down, then we will only burn ourselves in the end. In fact, many times the more we care about something, the more we will torture ourselves, and we have expectations for an unworthy person, but we don't know that this undeserved expectation is the source of all suffering. Writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Women are better at waiting than men, and some women are willing to wait for a man to say I love you all their lives." Some women are willing to spend their lives waiting for a man to change his mind. However, this kind of waiting is meaningless, because the other party does not love us, and no matter how obsessed we are, we still can't change this outcome. 
Therefore, in the matter of feelings, we have to learn to be "selfish", and be with whoever we are comfortable with, friends too, love too, ambiguous, unclear, uncertain, or make yourself feel tired, then stay away. Those who can enter my heart, I treat them as kings, and those who do not enter my heart disdain perfunctory, this is the highest way we treat feelings.