When the stability of a relationship is violently torn apart by betrayal, it leaves behind not only pain, but also endless questions and incomprehension.
This world is full of countless stories of betrayal, and behind each story, there are real emotional entanglements.
In the quiet café, Lin Feng told his story with a solemn face.
He was an ordinary man with a happy family and a wife who loved him. However, an unintentional affair changed the trajectory of his life dramatically.
That day, he went home with an unusually heavy footsteps, not only because of the guilt in his heart, but also because he knew that he was about to face one temptation and question after another.
1.Excessive explanations and justifications. Men who are having an affair tend to show excessive explanations and justifications when questioned by their wives. They will constantly assert their innocence and explain their actions for no reason, even when no one is questioning. As Oscar Wilde said, "The truth is rarely pure and never." This quote reflects the complex psychology of an affair man trying to hide the facts.
2.Emotional abnormalities. Lin Feng began to become emotionally changeable, sometimes losing his temper inexplicably, and sometimes being unusually gentle. This rollercoaster of emotions is an outward manifestation of his inner conflict and guilt. His smile is no longer natural, and his brow is always involuntarily knit in the dead of night.
3.Change your daily habits. He used to like to watch TV with his wife, but he began to find excuses to work overtime or go on a business trip, and his mobile phone became his shadow and never left his hand. These changes in him are all reminding his wife that his mind is no longer completely focused on this family.
4.Indifference to family relationships. Small things in the family, he began to become indifferent. For his children's learning and life, he is no longer as concerned and invested as before. In this family, he is like a walking shadow, and his sense of presence is getting fading more and more.
5.Odors or marks on the body. This is the most direct evidence and the most difficult to conceal. Lin Feng began to carefully wash his clothes, and his wife's intuition told her that it was no longer a fragrance that only belonged to the two of them.
6.Changes in sexual life. Whether it's sudden enthusiasm or persistent coldness, it's a possible change in a man's sex life after an affair. They may use this to cover up their guilt, or they may drift away because of a lack of novelty.
Lin Feng's story is a microcosm of thousands of family stories, reminding us that the damage caused by an affair is far-reaching and long-lasting. These six reactions, like mirrors, reflect the struggle and helplessness in men's hearts.
Life always takes courage and hope to face. In the journey of loving and being loved, we can all lose our way. But, as the great writer Franz Kafka said, "Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old."(He who retains the ability to see the good never gets old.) This quote reminds us to keep our hearts warm and loving our lives, even in the midst of pain and challenges. May everyone who stumbles on the emotional road find their own direction and let their hearts bloom with the light of hope again.
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