[Daughter's marriage, father reluctant to come forward to hug and be rejected] Recently, Shanghai. When the daughter got married, the father was reluctant to step forward and hug and be pushed away. The daughter said with a disgusted face: "It's only 6 kilometers away from home." The emotions that my father had just brewed were pressed back, netizens: Dad's little padded jacket turned into a steel wool ball in seconds.
Objectively speaking, this story may sound a little poignant. In traditional Chinese culture, fathers often play an important role in their daughter's wedding, and the marriage of a daughter is an emotional turning point for many fathers, meaning that the daughter will start her own family life, and the role and relationship with the father may change.
Judging by the description, the father felt very reluctant when his daughter got married and wanted to come forward and hug his daughter, but was rejected by her daughter. Her daughter's response "only 6 kilometers away from home" may have expressed her attitude that leaving home is not a big deal because it is not far away. However, for the father, it was not just a matter of physical distance, but also an emotional separation.
The comment of netizens "Dad's little padded jacket turns into a steel wool ball in seconds" used a figurative metaphor, which means that the daughter suddenly changed from an intimate little padded jacket to a hard steel wool ball, which made the father feel surprised and sad. This metaphor reflects the empathy that many people have with the changes in family relationships, especially the emotional experiences of fathers when their children start a family.
This story also reminds us that emotional expression and understanding between family members is very important. Communication and understanding are especially important in major family events, such as children's weddings, where there may be complex emotional interweaving between parents and children.
It is necessary for parents to learn to accept the process of their children's growth and independence, and for children, it is also an important part of maintaining good family relationships to be as considerate as possible of their parents' emotions and to deal with this transition gently.
When the daughter got married, the father was reluctant to come forward and hug but was rejected