Today's wonderful topic: As soon as you arrive at the New Year, your family will start to quarrel, is your family like this?
This article mainly discusses the issue of family quarrels during the Chinese New Year. The article mentions the quarrels that occur in multiple families during the Chinese New Year, as well as the fear of family conflicts and ways to avoid them during the Chinese New Year. Family conflicts not only bring harm to the family, but also affect the atmosphere and mood of the New Year. Therefore, the author calls on everyone to avoid family conflicts and have a happy and harmonious Spring Festival.
My mother is like this, not only noisy during the New Year, but also usually noisy, so when I volunteered to fill in the college entrance examination, I only considered being 1,000 kilometers away from home, and later I was admitted to a school of 1,500 kilometers, and when I was looking for a job, I went to a place of 2,000 kilometers. After work, I rarely go home, and I don't ask my family for money, and occasionally send something back. Family affection will really be worn away by the daily quarrels, and only obligations and responsibilities remain
For example, my dad peeled the garlic cloves, but the skin was not clean;
For example, after eating, I sat and rested, and did not immediately clean up the dishes and chopsticks;
For example, when eating, I accidentally dropped a grain of rice;
For example, on the morning of the first day of the new year, I got up late and set off firecrackers later than others;
x.Some of the above are me, and some are from my friends' family.
So you really have to work hard to get out of this environment, otherwise you will die.
My mom too, quarrels with my dad almost every day, but the culprit is my dad, he doesn't know how to gamble, he earns more than 1,000 yuan a month and pretends to be a big sum, borrows money to buy thousands of jade pendants, big-name watches, hooks up with a 19-year-old bus, and was pinched by her, deceived him of a lot of money, all borrowed, and my mother had to pay it back to him.
When I was a child, my mother was angry with me after arguing with him, beating and scolding me for no reason, I tried every way to make money from me after I worked, and I was very tough, which means that there is no him without me, and it is natural to suck the blood of children, I said a few words of truth and he scolded me in the family group, and wanted my relatives to scold me together, but who doesn't know what virtues he has, I am really disgusted that I have half of his genes. My mother is a particularly dedicated person, she was born in a well-off family, and her family is a cultural person, so she has to help a poor man who has not been to school for a few days, and he is still lazy and lazy to marry him, just because he washed her feet with water, and was obedient to her, maybe he saved her life in her last life, no matter how she tortured her, she refused to divorce, and was willing to raise him to wipe his ass, haha
Every Chinese New Year, I am not happy and annoyed, I have to go back to the dirty and cold in-law's house, cook for more than ten people, and wash the dishes with cold water. My husband goes out to play, I don't know anyone, the place at home is small, there is no place to rest at all, more than 20 years, I haven't watched the Spring Festival Gala much, but I can't help but not quarrel, I hope to be in my own family of three, watching the Spring Festival Gala for the New Year. Every time I get on the bus back, the relaxed energy in my heart is only known by those who have experienced it.
There are so many of them, my memories when I was a child were that my parents quarreled when it came to the New Year, all for the New Year, and when it came to the New Year, neither of them spoke, so I hate the New Year now
My mother-in-law has to quarrel with the family about twenty-eight years of the lunar month, and she has been married for seventeen or eight years, every year, and last year she almost quarreled again, I was very angry, and my husband said, quarrel every year, and then quarrel we will go to the city for the New Year, and my husband said to my mother-in-law, so I was exempted
My mother seems to be sick as soon as she arrives at the New Year, catch one and scold the other, scold the two sons and scold the two daughters-in-law, scold the grandchildren, I wonder if there is a saying about Chong Tai Sui or Chong Nian beast, from childhood to adulthood, I started to find things to quarrel in Chinese New Year's Eve, and it was good to finish the third year of junior high school
Almost forty years old, the family is in the countryside, the family situation is average since childhood, starting with a memory, every New Year's festival at home will be noisy, no New Year's is and beautiful, is such an environment, constantly ** I continue to get used to these unchangeable fate
Every time the Chinese New Year, my mother-in-law and my husband play cards for a day, and occasionally my husband drinks for a day. Others celebrate festivals, but as a mother, there are endless housework, and I have to watch my children, and I don't like the New Year
I have a deep understanding! In the countryside, there will be a farmer before the New Year, and the father will go to gamble, and then he will start to quarrel, and there are relatives who come to the New Year, and it has been a cold war, except for entertaining relatives to take a sentence or two with each other, the rest of the time is to curse each other, I don't know how to deal with myself at home, and I am afraid of death, so I am very sensitive to anything now [covering my face]. It has been like this for twenty or thirty years, and it is useless for anyone to persuade them. Later, when I went out as a teenager for an apprenticeship, I tried to go back a few days ago, and I hurried out after the Spring Festival, otherwise I couldn't stand the depression at all. I tried to persuade him a few times as an adult, but it didn't work at all. Therefore, I advise all netizens to find a better half, or understand it before getting married. Either the truth can't be dealt with after marriage, divorce directly, it's better if you don't have children, and don't affect the next generation if you have children. If you feel that you are not suitable for marriage, simply don't get married. There are many such families in my hometown, but my family ranks first, they are very diligent in farm work, and the people in the village are very normal.
My mother-in-law is a vegetarian, and she counts my father-in-law every year in Chinese New Year's Eve. When she went to her mother-in-law's house for dinner for the first time as a new daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law made meat dumplings.
And then my mother-in-law has been remembering it until now, saying every year, decades.
My parents also quarreled as soon as the Chinese New Year was over, and I felt annoyed when I was a child. Now I suddenly understand my mother, there are so many good things, my mother has been tired, her body is uncomfortable, and her temper and mood must be bad. If you don't want your parents to quarrel, help them, instead of sitting back and enjoying their success while disliking them for quarreling
As soon as the Chinese New Year is approaching, my mother and my dad will quarrel a few times, and when the New Year is approaching, the men will love to get together and drink, and my mother will scold, and the two of them will quarrel or even fight. Either I think my dad does less work, or everyone else does some work, my dad doesn't do it, and then they quarrel, and they think my dad gets some meat, chicken, and fish, and she doesn't know how to do it, so she keeps urging others to hurry up. Anyway, I haven't been happy during the New Year, really!
Let's put it this way, my family doesn't have a time of not fighting and not making trouble all year round, so all the New Year's festivals, including birthdays, are spent in the fight, and the more New Year's holidays, the more crazy my dad becomes, and the college entrance examination volunteers fill in all the northeast and northwest because the distance is far enough to marry far away
My family is too, I have to quarrel on the day of the New Year, my mother has to pull a face, scold the heavens and the earth, and then all day, the family is not good, and then accidentally quarrel. In addition, if there are more guests in the house, my family will quarrel and make a lot of trouble, and I have been like this since I was a child, and the police station has been here. Now they are old, we are older, and we are much better, but I am still nervous and anxious when there are many people during the Chinese New Year. Alas.
Our family was originally very good, my parents didn't talk about the New Year, and they hardly quarreled. Since my brother got married, my sister-in-law entered the door, and the atmosphere of the New Year every year was weirdly depressing, all kinds of quarrels, she actually didn't do anything, she worked outside all year round, and went home for the New Year, my mother never asked her to do anything, she was still noisy.
When I was a child, my mother always taught us not to be angry during the New Year, but my grandfather would beat or scold my grandmother as soon as the New Year was over, and my mother was very angry because of this. Later, when we didn't live together, my family was no longer angry, and we grew up and became a family, and it was good for the New Year, but I found that my husband was like this, and he was not right or wrong during the New Year's holiday, and he was emotional! I'll put up with it, but I'll sulk!
As soon as my mother-in-law arrived for the Chinese New Year, she said that she was sick, lying down and unwilling to move, and her children did not want to cook or cook. Of course, I usually work hard, but I have to make excuses for being sick during the New Year, which makes people very uncomfortable. During the Chinese New Year, you have to ask her how sick she is and if she needs to go to the hospital, and then she doesn't do anything, and you have to be ready to cook for her and call her to eat from the day you enter her house, but then her daughters come back and she is sick, which is disgusting
When I was a child, my parents often fought until the Chinese New Year's Eve, the first year of my marriage, I was at my mother-in-law's house, my brother was in the army, they fought again, I was just pregnant at that time, it was not stable, my husband did not dare to tell me, my brother said that he hid alone in the army and cried, the squad leader asked him what was wrong, so I like my mother-in-law's family, the family atmosphere is better, the mother's family feels cold, every time a little thing, my mother likes all kinds of busy, all kinds of things she knows everything, Dad told Mom not to tell stories, and it often started like this! I was very irritable, so after I got married, I didn't go back to my parents' house for more than a week, even though the two families were only a three-minute drive away
My parents have to quarrel whenever they leave relatives for the holidays, because relatives are richer than us, and they are afraid of being ridiculed by them. I feel that it is rude not to go, and I feel that I will be disgusted if I don't have a good life without them. Since I was a child, my parents have been arguing because of this, and we are still poor
As long as it's the New Year's holiday, the busier it is, the easier it is for my dad to get angry, the family is lifeless, the TV doesn't dare to amplify the sound, and the children hide in the room and don't dare to come out. Maybe it's because my dad remembered that his grandparents didn't love him at all, so he took our family to work outside and wander
The in-laws are also noisy every year, even if you don't quarrel with your father-in-law, you have to call ** to cry with his son, people said that the quarrel in the New Year was not smooth for a year, and the father-in-law was sent away in the past two years, and the son's home was broken up, and it is estimated that there was no quarrel, so I finally passed two years of stability, and now I am in my mother's house with my mother and son for the New Year, quiet and happy.
Didn't you drink too much during the Chinese New Year, and when you drink, you get out of control and go crazy? My dad is, so, I don't want to go back when I have time, I'm tired, and every time I go back, I have to be scolded half to death, I feel like I'm sorry for him when I'm alive, and I don't drink normal people
My dad is like this, as soon as the New Year arrives, there will be all kinds of quarrels, every year, so before the New Year, I will be cautious with my mother, but I still can't hide from my dad to find something to quarrel, it may be a little thing, such as last year because of the vegetables to buy less will quarrel, in order to avoid last year because of the lack of vegetables and quarrels, this year to buy more vegetables may also say that the fish is not right to buy and quarrel, in short, all kinds of trouble, so now I hate the New Year, is a shadow that will never go away.
When I was a child, I was very afraid of the New Year, because when I was a child, my father worked in the construction unit, and the traffic was not convenient before, and the number of times I went home a year was very small, and my parents would quarrel when I came back for the New Year. When I was a child, I thought that everyone was arguing like this during the New Year, so I wondered why I was celebrating the New Year, and I was not happy at all.
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