Talking about bride price with your in-laws is a sensitive topic, and you need to fully express your heart while respecting each other and traditional customs. Here are some suggestions:
1.*Understand the expectations of the other party**: Before talking about the bride price, understand the expectations and traditions of the other family, so that you can better negotiate and communicate.
2.*Respect for traditional culture**: Respect the traditional culture and etiquette of the other family, and consider the importance of the bride price in traditional culture, you can participate in it in an appropriate way.
3.*Adhere to principles**: In negotiations, you must adhere to principles, be clear about your bottom line, and express your opinions and expectations on the premise of respect.
4.*Moderate Compromise**: If the bride price of the other family's request is too high, you can compromise moderately and seek a mutually acceptable solution to make the bride price a mutually acceptable ceremony.
5.*Discuss with your partner**: Negotiate specific requirements and budgets with your unmarried partner, and then negotiate with the other family.
6.*Calm and rational**: Remain calm and rational during the negotiation process, avoid emotional impulsiveness and heated negotiations, respect the other party, and seek a mutually acceptable solution.
7.*Use an intermediary**: If you find it difficult to communicate directly with the other family, you can find an intermediary that both parties trust to help you negotiate.
8.*Maintain feelings**: Regardless of the outcome of the bride price negotiation, it is necessary to take into account the maintenance of the feelings and relationships of both families during the negotiation process, and maintain good communication.
These are just some of the recommendations and will be decided on a case-by-case basis. Hopefully, the above advice will be helpful to you.