Firefighter Rob Parsons used to think he had the perfect life, and his beautiful new wife was a police flower who lived in a warm and lovely home with their young daughter.
But one day, his world collapsed, and the collapse was so complete and unexpected.
He was at work at the time and logged into their dog camera to check on the house, only to find that his wife was having a ** call with another man and asking their daughter to call him "Daddy".
Rob, 34, and his police officer wife, who met before the pandemic, embarked on a whirlwind romance that led to their engagement on Christmas 2021 and their first child the following year.
However, Rob later found out that his wife had been secretly having an affair with a colleague for three years, and although she signed Rob as the father of her daughter on the birth certificate, she actually knew that the child was not his!
A later DNA test confirmed that Rob was indeed not the father of the child, and since then, he has cut ties with the little girl he has spent eight months raising and loving, and his ex-wife has not allowed him to visit or attend his daughter's first birthday party.
In June 2023, that nightmarish day, Rob was at work when the child was eight months old and his wife took her daughter to the hospital for a growth check-up.
He turned on the cameras he used to monitor their two dogs — a beagle named Holly and their Rottweiler Hector — to see if his wife and daughter had returned home safely.
"As soon as I turned on the camera, I saw on FaceTime that my wife was sitting on the floor and my daughter was sitting on her lap," Rob said. ”
The next conversation was tantamount to five thunderbolts to him.
She said, "Thank you dad for buying you a gift yesterday" and then said, "Did you show your gift to your dad".
Rob couldn't believe his ears, he had probably seen that ** 100 times.
Rob immediately excitedly asked his wife what these conversations meant, and he said:"It must be difficult for a child, right? You let her call me daddy when I'm at home, and then you let her talk to her real dad when I'm at work! ”
Seeing that everything has been exposed, Rob's wife bluntly denies that their child has another father.
Rob sadly recalled: "Our relationship was normal and healthy. She never told me she had any problems, never told me she had struggles and struggles. ”
Later, Rob suddenly remembered that the day before their wedding, he had received a strange message from a man he didn't know, and he asked if he was Rob who was married to a police officer.
When Rob gives an affirmative answer, the stranger who comes in the text simply congratulates and says "she's a great girl". Rob thought it was a little strange and then asked his wife who this person was, and she said that the man who was texting was just a friend at work.
After a few weeks of separation, Rob finally decided to pluck up the courage to find out the truth and took his daughter a DNA test.
Four days later, the brutal results confirmed that he was indeed not the biological father of his daughter.
Still, Rob misses his "daughter" so much, saying, "I miss her like crazy, she's 15 months old now. I'm willing to do anything to see her again, but I probably never see her again, and I don't want her life complicated. ”
It is not only Rob who is severely traumatized, but also his parents, and although Rob is sad, Rob must hold on to comfort his parents.
In order to make his ex-wife take some responsibility for her actions,Rob filed a formal complaint with **, arguing that an employee had deliberately falsified the details on the birth certificate, which was against the law; He also believed that his ex-wife had violated the police's code of ethics, but the complaint was dismissed.
At the moment, Rob's ex-wife has not responded to the matter.
In fact, Rob's first complaint is absolutely validSection 4 of the Perjury Act of 1911 makes this clear. The Act states that any false statement in the birth registration is a misdemeanor and, upon conviction, is punishable by "imprisonment for a term not exceeding seven (7) years for a period not exceeding two years, or by finding in lieu of one of the above penalties."and a penalty not exceeding £100 upon summary conviction.
If he finds a good lawyer, he will definitely be able to get justice for himself.
In addition, the second article is also in line with public order and good customsAs a policeman, his ex-wife's personal morality is so worrisome, telling a big lie to her relatives and discrediting the police, how can such a person be entrusted with responsibility? How can the public trust such a police officer?
However, the public also understands Rob's dilemma, after allNo matter how the adults tear up, young children will definitely be implicatedIf it goes to the Internet, the court or even the prison, it will definitely affect the growth of children in the future.
Rob is struggling for legal assistance, hoping that his abruptly interrupted happy life will end well.