Some time ago, when I was partying with relatives and friends, the sweater my aunt was wearing had pilling, and the whole version was also very loose, and it was a little sloppy when I wore it.
Over the years, the children have grown up, worked, and married, and the aunt still maintains the habit of many years ago, reluctant to buy good clothes to wear. The children were reluctant to eat the fruit when they brought it, so they had to wait until it was almost spoiled before taking it out.
My grandchildren are reluctant to go to my aunt's house to live and feel that the food is very weak, and my mother will often persuade her that the children are older, and it is a great blessing to dress and eat well, don't be reluctant to use expensive things.
In a word, expensive things are nothing wrong except for being expensive. Cheap things are all problems except cheap.
1. Don't get caught up in the cycle of saving
In the first few years of saving money, I was trapped in **, trapped in low prices, trapped in minimalism**.
At that time, the state was probably that I was a worm who enclosed myself in various rules and regulations, and if someone suggested a way to save money, I would add one.
Completely lost the ability to think independently, to be honest, I did save a sum of money, but people were very unhappy, and there was no light in their eyes.
When it is extreme, it only costs 300 a month, and the rest is all saved, do you dare to imagine such a life?
2. Consumption concept matches income
My friend and I are at the other extreme, and it's hard to imagine that different consumption views can come together.
Later, I guess it was probably the need for complementarity!
After my friend works, I uphold the habit of moonshine, and it is no exaggeration to say that every time I go shopping and enter the skin care store, all new products must be tried, and I must buy more than 2 lipsticks each time.
Her lipsticks can already be arranged in several cabinets according to the color number, with the same layout as the counter.
After calming down, I will also say that I don't want to buy so much lipstick, but I want it when I see it, and I really can't control myself at all.
Things changed when my friend's mother was in a car accident, and when her father asked her to pay the bill, he realized that his family was getting old and needed her to take refuge.
After saving money, my friend said that he had money in his pocket, but his heart was at peace, and he didn't care about these external decorations.
3 The end of saving money is to make money
If you say that when you are in your 20s, you think that saving money is achieved by saving money.
Then, in their 30s, they began to understand that saving money must be inseparable from making money, and it is far from being able to meet the needs of life and immediate stability by clinging to the income of a salary.
It takes time and effort to achieve wallet freedom, and the thickness of the deposit must be determined by the speed of making money, and it is by no means blindly controlling consumption and deliberately reducing demand.
For example, many people think that they can save money by downgrading consumption, but there is a limit to any downgrade, and normal food, clothing, housing and transportation will not be without.
There is no day for making money