Men treat you coldly? See the deeper meaning.
There is a saying in "Spirited Away": "Some people, your chance goodbye may be goodbye." This applies not only to friends, but also to the feelings of both sexes.
I once received counseling from a woman who had an argument with her husband after marrying away and was subjected to cold violence. She tried to redeem herself, and she tried to resist, but none of them got satisfactory results.
She found that whether she gave in first or resisted, her husband would become even more aggressive. She had tried to run away from home, but her husband didn't care. In the case of this woman, she married away after falling out with her parents and went to a completely unfamiliar place, with no friends, no social interactions, and no language.
As a result, she is extremely dependent on her husband financially, mentally, and emotionally, resulting in an unbalanced relationship between the two. To change this, we first need to understand why men tend to treat women coldly.
The Cold War was a touchstone for feelings, but also an emotional challenge. In the early days of our relationship, we both wanted to be in the driver's seat, but as our relationship developed and ran in, our status and way of getting along with each other were constantly changing.
And the Cold War is like an experiment again and again, which makes our relationship stronger. Of course, the Cold War also had a purpose. Some people want you to compromise first in the Cold War, and some people want to break up in the Cold War, but this requires us to have enough understanding and judgment to discern the true intentions of the other party and make the right response.
Therefore, in the face of the Cold War, we must have enough courage and determination to face problems, solve problems, and safeguard our feelings.
How to get along with a man who "treats feelings coldly"? Keeping the relationship in balance is key. Boost your self-worth and expand your social circle so that a man knows that losing you is a loss to him.
At the same time, focus on yourself, respond less, and don't always admit mistakes. Try it once, don't be afraid of losing, let the man feel a sense of crisis. If he leaves, it is a relief and a new birth.
Remember, a woman doesn't have to endure endless concessions for a light-hearted life to be calm.
Thank you for your interest in sharing this colorful world with you. It is my greatest pleasure to feel life with you. Let our brushstrokes have warmth, speak for love, and perceive this wonderful world together!