Yesterday, when I was having dinner, because my husband was sitting in the dining table and it was inconvenient to come out, I asked him to help him serve the meal.
I hadn't eaten half of my bowl of rice before his bowl was handed over again, and I reluctantly put down my chopsticks and went to the kitchen to serve the rice.
I was stunned for a moment when I turned on the rice cooker, because there was only a small piece of rice in it, and I had the impression that my father-in-law didn't seem to have added a second bowl of rice (basically my father-in-law and husband have to eat two bowls of rice in our family, and one bowl of rice for me and my mother-in-law and Dabao is enough).
I asked loudly, "Dad, haven't you added food yet?" ”
The public horse realized that there might not be enough food, and he immediately said, "I don't want it, I'm full." ”
This is obviously false, he usually has to eat two bowls of rice, I didn't think much about it, and directly filled half of the rest of the rice to my husband, and half to my father-in-law.
After my husband got the meal, he also echoed: "Dad, you haven't eaten enough, what you want to say, I'll eat less and it's fine." ”
My father-in-law said it would be better to eat less at night.
At this time, the mother-in-law suddenly laughed.
We all thought it was a little strange, and then we heard her say, "You guys are here to be humble and humble, haven't you noticed that there is anyone who hasn't filled the first bowl of rice?" ”
Oh my god! Only then did I notice that my mother-in-law's bowl only had cabbage, and it was indeed not filled with rice.
What can I do? I was a little panicked, and my husband and father-in-law both said that they would give their food to my mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law waved her hand and said no, and said that she had eaten a lot of dried sweet potatoes in the afternoon, and her stomach was very supportive, and she only planned to eat some food. If there is rice, eat a little, forget it if not, she deliberately cooked a little less, and there was a bowl of leftover rice left there at noon that was not hot.
I quickly stood up and said to help my mother-in-law heat the meal, but my mother-in-law stopped me, she said that she was really not hungry.
Even so, I still don't think it's okay to skip dinner at night, but my mother-in-law has already said that I still haven't gone to hot dinner.
Thinking about it now, I still feel quite guilty, why didn't I find out that my mother-in-law hadn't eaten yet? Usually she takes care of the whole family in every detail, but we rarely pay attention to her.
I feel that my mother-in-law is the backbone of our family, as long as she is there, there is no need to worry about the sky falling, she always arranges things clearly, we just need to do it.
In fact, she is also very tired, she has to help me take Xiaobao during the day, prepare three meals a day, and do housework that can never be done. Her son is in his thirties, and she still has to worry about him.
Although we sometimes feel that my mother-in-law is too nagging and says one thing over and over again, we all know in our hearts that she is actually for our good.
I've actually tried very hard to care about my mother-in-law, what she needs I'll buy right away, she likes to look at the short ** on the phone, I'll teach her how to see, she took Xiaobao for a day and I'm very tired, I will pick up the child as soon as I get home......But these are still not enough, to make the mother-in-law feel her own value, not to take her contribution for granted.
Thank you, dear mother-in-law, thank you for always taking care of us, I hope you understand, we are very grateful to you in our hearts.
In the future, we will also pay more attention to you, if you have any needs, please tell us in time, and you must not worry about bothering us, because we have been bothering you!